How to actually talk to people

[foidgroper83]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

 

[conqurer]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

This is serious try fixing it quick

 

[f0idslay3r]

Nigga start socializing, u just gotta get used to it. Go out, go to parties, do activities. If nothing works start a rejection therapy where u talk to random people every day for 30 days or sum. Make quests for urself or ask AI or sum. Practice makes perfect. Get comfortable.

 

[iana]

you sound so boring

 

[Arwin12]

same same its over

 

[ChineseFartPorn]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

This probably isn't the answer you WANT to hear but the simplest solution is to just try to talk to people more.
If you can't manage even that, try certain drugs lmao.

 

[foidgroper83]

you sound so boring

Brutal

 

[foidgroper83]

This probably isn't the answer you WANT to hear but the simplest solution is to just try to talk to people more.
If you can't manage even that, try certain drugs lmao.

Might be the only option atp vro

 

[foidgroper83]

This is serious try fixing it quick

Easier said than done ngl

 

[ltnfinalbos]

thats brutal bro ive had an similar problem a few years back, i solved it by just talking more to people online and then started doing it in the real world

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Just say the right words nigga, it ain’t hard

 

[foidgroper83]

Just say the right words nigga, it ain’t hard

Ion get any dopamine from conversations bro something is prolly fucked in my brain chemistry

 

[foidgroper83]

Bump

 

[ChineseFartPorn]

Might be the only option atp vro

Look into stimulants and shit
Never tried myself but I've heard a lot of good testimonials on the following:
Pregabalin, Propranolol and Baclofen

I don't really struggle with this personally, but I can say when I do take certain amps like Adderall, it makes it a lot easier.

 

[yacrazen]

find a job or hobby

 

[saint96]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

The best thing to do is to just talk. I know it sounds hard but if you do talk to people, random ones in the club or smth like that you will feel more and more confident and in the end you will be confident enough to ask ur crush out without hesitation.

 

[foidgroper83]

Look into stimulants and shit
Never tried myself but I've heard a lot of good testimonials on the following:
Pregabalin, Propranolol and Baclofen

I don't really struggle with this personally, but I can say when I do take certain amps like Adderall, it makes it a lot easier.

Thanks g ill talk to my doctor bout these and see if i can get any

 

[ChineseFartPorn]

Thanks g ill talk to my doctor bout these and see if i can get any

No need to talk to your doctor, it's pretty easy to source (EXCEPT ADDERALL FUAAAAAAAAAK), and relatively safe as long as your not retarded.
Hit me up if you need help sourcing or any other questions.

 

[foidgroper83]

The best thing to do is to just talk. I know it sounds hard but if you do talk to people, random ones in the club or smth like that you will feel more and more confident and in the end you will be confident enough to ask ur crush out without hesitation.

Yea alot of it probably has got to do with my confidence and self esteem ngl

 

[saint96]

Yea alot of it probably has got to do with my confidence and self esteem ngl

Prob the best start would be to get really drunk in a club and be with confident friends. Remember, ur friend group matters a lot

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

Ion get any dopamine from conversations bro something is prolly fucked in my brain chemistry

Just don’t be an asshole and tell a few jokes and ur good

 

[zanxpl]

This is due to a temporary chemical imbalance and pattern in the brain.

A normal social person gets a release of dopamine during an interaction, and the amygdala threat center stays quiet.

A non social person like you, a social interaction can be a stress response and the amygdala activate, the blank feeling is due to the prefrontal cortex activity dropping. There is no motivation to speak because there's no dopamine.

The solution is to the correct this chemical blockage and pattern by social exposure progression, essentially start with low-stake short conversations and build your way up. The goal is to get the brain to realize that you spoke to someone and nothing bad happened, instead you spoke to someone and the person was interested in you and you asked them questions and you learned things ect.

For chemical support, I strongly suggest pregabalin, which is what I use and many other people use. Pregabalin is a short-term drug that is used on a circumstance basis, for social events or meetings ect.

How pregabalin works is essentially by calming down excessive neuron firing. By calming it down, you get a calming effect and you are more social ect. Similar to how lets say you are in a room full of people shouting, pregabalin acts like a volume adjuster, lowers the volume of the room.

Getting a pregabalin prescription can be hard depending on the doctor but you need to mention studies, and the need for a short term chemical support to socializing ect because you have a real problem. No matter what don't take SSRI's or some anti depressant.

 

[Osakathegoat]

This is due to a temporary chemical imbalance and pattern in the brain.

A normal social person gets a release of dopamine during an interaction, and the amygdala threat center stays quiet.

A non social person like you, a social interaction can be a stress response and the amygdala activate, the blank feeling is due to the prefrontal cortex activity dropping. There is no motivation to speak because there's no dopamine.

The solution is to the correct this chemical blockage and pattern by social exposure progression, essentially start with low-stake short conversations and build your way up. The goal is to get the brain to realize that you spoke to someone and nothing bad happened, instead you spoke to someone and the person was interested in you and you asked them questions and you learned things ect.

For chemical support, I strongly suggest pregabalin, which is what I use and many other people use. Pregabalin is a short-term drug that is used on a circumstance basis, for social events or meetings ect.

How pregabalin works is essentially by calming down excessive neuron firing. By calming it down, you get a calming effect and you are more social ect. Similar to how lets say you are in a room full of people shouting, pregabalin acts like a volume adjuster, lowers the volume of the room.

Getting a pregabalin prescription can be hard depending on the doctor but you need to mention studies, and the need for a short term chemical support to socializing ect because you have a real problem. No matter what don't take SSRI's or some anti depressant.

why are antidepressants so bad im on mitrazapine 22.5mg and ive seen some improvement in social anxiety and mood but what are the long term effects i cant find any clear answer, im 16 will it like fuck up my brain or smth?

 

[Novalooks]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

remember its not about how much u say
its about what u say
so if u hang around poeple and js think lemme make jokes or lemme sound smart
u will say things that will lead to that result
also i found that using chat gpt help me pinpoint solutions to specific problems

 

[Francisco_Bs]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

Shut up porn addict

 

[foidgroper83]

Niggas just hating to hate on mums cranium

 

[Zagro]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

No shit bro "foidgroper83"

 

[lowknormalguy]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

socialize more you need experience nigga

 

[foidgroper83]

socialize more you need experience nigga

Cant lie thats probably all i needa do, covid lockdown started and my parents forced me into homeschooling and still am to this day, 5 years of social isolation probably cooked me lmao, i still have friends from primary school i talk to online and meet up but thats all those are kinda the only people i can really talk to, idk where to start though i just turned 17

 

[foidgroper83]

No shit bro "foidgroper83"

Names tuff fym

 

[aelimaeli]

I feel like whenever i talk to people know my brain just shuts off, like i literally got nothing going on in my life rn i just rot and play games so i got nothing really to add to a conversation so most of the time i get called “boring” or “dry” its so bad i can barely even talk with my family about anything, my dad will ask me what i’ve been doing and ill just be like “nothing much just chilling” and it just ends there jfl, even when i hang out with my dad and my brothers are there i get social mogged to oblivion while i just sit there quiet with everyone talking, even online i cant converse, joined a discord server and just didnt know how to talk or start a conversation with anyone holy shit i needa fix ts

dont goon + just talk to people more jfl

 

[Zagro]

Names tuff fym

Do what the other guy said bro genuinely just socialize more, take every chance to strike up a convo and just watch videos about it that's what helped me, forget about how you may be perceived (creep etc) just go for it