How to approach girls as an introvert and not much confident dude who rotsin his room all day long ??

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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
 
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I saw many dude's talking to girl flawlessly meanwhile me when a girl even try to talk to me like asking for notebook I suddenly get all flustered and red I can't even say anything it's annoying and I can't even talk to females I feel so shy around them what's the solution to this and how to create an impression over her ...
Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any...
Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any end goal of dating her whatsoever. Buttttt because she was attractive I still got a little nervous when speaking to her. So when I would talk to her it would help me learn all sorts of things about how to talk to females, how to control my nerves, what they like to hear, and now I get advice whenever I talk to a girl. That’s what worked for me brah you got this, feel free to ask any questions and please mark as solution and rep this took 10 minutes 😭
Gng i will graduate next year but yeah I will keep an eye on the new ones :p:p
 
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Idk man, I had the same problem and people would always tell me, “oh just add girls on Snapchat.” Or “just go on a date” personally that shit did not work AT ALL. Mostly what worked for me (for some context I’m nd asf) I just noticed a girl I thought was cute (this works 100% of the time if they are new to school and you are above sub 5) and I started talking to her completely as a friend, like not with any end goal of dating her whatsoever. Buttttt because she was attractive I still got a little nervous when speaking to her. So when I would talk to her it would help me learn all sorts of things about how to talk to females, how to control my nerves, what they like to hear, and now I get advice whenever I talk to a girl. That’s what worked for me brah you got this, feel free to ask any questions and please mark as solution and rep this took 10 minutes 😭
I had one girl she is kinda fine we the same height so that's better should I do this method on her she is new but not in my grade she is one grade lower...
 
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I had one girl she is kinda fine we the same height so that's better should I do this method on her she is new but not in my grade she is one grade lower...
Hmmm I mean how comfortable are you talking to her and do u rlly wanna date her?
 
I deadass asked a girl is it tight once and got my ass blocked :lul::lul::lul:
Oh hell nah did u ask in person or on text
i prefer to talk to girls in person, i hate texting its hella boring
 
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bro it's not hard to talk to females
just pretend ur talking to ur homie but make sure to have some filter like dont say crazy shit
lmfao this bro best advice yet i basically do this but exclude, hear me outs and just weird shit in general
 
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The texting thing is so valid that shit is ass
Ye bro i also like talking in person because I usually talk to short girls and i use the 1 foot height difference to intimidate her. always try to stand up as straight as possible
 
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Ye bro i also like talking in person because I usually talk to short girls and i use the 1 foot height difference to intimidate her. always try to stand up as straight as possible
Yes bro even at 5’9 if the girl is under 5’4 I feel like a giant bro
 
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Yes bro even at 5’9 if the girl is under 5’4 I feel like a giant bro
Bro wtf im 6'3 and 5'4 is already too tall for me. I like 5'-5'2 girls makes me feel big
 
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Ye bro i also like talking in person because I usually talk to short girls and i use the 1 foot height difference to intimidate her. always try to stand up as straight as possible
Man I'm 5'9 rn so yeah I'm still taller than girls not a foot tho :hnghn:
 
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I will date a girl who's like 2 inches shorter max I don't want my kids to blame me that they are short 😔
 
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Damn can anyone check how many replies this thread has ??
 
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