How to approach in club?

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It’s easy for us to approach whenever we are at social events, but night clubs seem too dense man, can’t talk cuz music too loud✡️✡️✡️😭😭😭
Wtf are we supposed to do
Pls help slayers
@averagejoe
@badg96
@ArvidGustavsson
@6’1cel
@JOJOcel
 
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It’s easy for us to approach whenever we are at social events, but night clubs seem too dense man, can’t talk cuz music too loud✡️✡️✡️😭😭😭
Wtf are we supposed to do
Pls help slayers
@averagejoe
@badg96
@ArvidGustavsson
@6’1cel
@JOJOcel
lmk if you get answer. im going club in few days, ill try your thing and update my results
 
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clubs are cope tbh
 
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Just be friendly+flirty. If women reject your approach it's their fault/loss. Not yours.
 
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If women reject your approach it's their fault/loss
Cope cope harder
 
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idk bro i tried approaching at a club and asked girl to dance she said no.

just sat rest of night and drank alone. jfl
 
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idk bro i tried approaching at a club and asked girl to dance she said no.

just sat rest of night and drank alone. jfl
A lot of girls are very anti-social nowadays, guys too. It's not your fault, no reason to feel bad when you make an effort to socialize and share a fun time with someone.

Don't give up and find people that do want to share a good time with you.
 
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A lot of girls are very anti-social nowadays, guys too. It's not your fault, no reason to feel bad when you make an effort to socialize and share a fun time with someone.

Don't give up and find people that do want to share a good time with you.
thanks for kind words brah. but its prob over if i cant get a drunk girl to dance with me. jfl
 
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Clubs are mostly your face and height

In a scenario where you can’t talk, looks reign supreme
 
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Clubs are mostly your face and height

In a scenario where you can’t talk, looks reign supreme
Looks and height are there, but obviously not gonna get too many girls if I don’t approach. How do you approach girls in the club? Just Starting to dance with them is awkward as fuck most of the time ngl
 
thanks for kind words brah. but its prob over if i cant get a drunk girl to dance with me. jfl
Over for dancing with that particular drunk girl, true. I don't see the relevance to anything else though.
 
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Listen carefully buddy boyo. You need to understand not even the godly @averagejoe can get all the girls in a club because most of those are not DTF. You need to play the numbers game and be efficient. Talk to girls that give you an IOI and escalate, if they are receptive isolate them and go for the makeup. If they back off, next them. If you success then time to pull to a place to fuck.

To pull all this you need to be low inhibition.
 
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Looks and height are there, but obviously not gonna get too many girls if I don’t approach. How do you approach girls in the club? Just Starting to dance with them is awkward as fuck most of the time ngl
Eye contact first. You need to use your body language. Once you established eye contact you can go and ask her to dance, then isolate her in a place where the music is less loud or just make out while dancing
 
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Eye contact first. You need to use your body language. Once you established eye contact you can go and ask her to dance, then isolate her in a place where the music is less loud or just make out while dancing
@averagejoe can you pm me? i need some advice
 
It's over if you have to approach. That's cuck behavior. Girls should approach you.
 
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It's over if you have to approach. That's cuck behavior. Girls should approach you.
How to say you are an incel without saying you are an incel.
 
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You don’t really approach no matter what anyone says the guys don’t approach first.

Just wait and dance a bit n keep eye out for girls checking you out n moving closer to you then smile a bit n rest is history.

If you’re approaching with no iOi get ready for a lot of rejection.
 
idk bro i tried approaching at a club and asked girl to dance she said no.

just sat rest of night and drank alone. jfl
Fucking idiot. Should approached atleast 10 more
 
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When aproaching you start dancing towards a girl while making eye contact her face will either be :love: or :sick:. If :love: you get close to her and put your hands on her hips. 0 words exchanged. Then after like 30 seconds of dancing you just kiss her.
 
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It’s easy for us to approach whenever we are at social events, but night clubs seem too dense man, can’t talk cuz music too loud✡️✡️✡️😭😭😭
Wtf are we supposed to do
Pls help slayers
@averagejoe
@badg96
@ArvidGustavsson
@6’1cel
@JOJOcel
Don’t tbh
The age of approaching women is over unless you’re chad (actual chad with height, body, fashion and great social skills)

This is the age of online dating

The best you can do is have fun and wait for girls to approach you
 
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Don’t tbh
The age of approaching women is over unless you’re chad (actual chad with height, body, fashion and great social skills)

This is the age of online dating

The best you can do is have fun and wait for girls to approach you
Laycount is below 10 I assume? Absolute bitch mindset wait for things to happen don’t take any initiative. Less competition for me. Absolute peak retardation
 
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You don’t really approach no matter what anyone says the guys don’t approach first.

Just wait and dance a bit n keep eye out for girls checking you out n moving closer to you then smile a bit n rest is history.

If you’re approaching with no iOi get ready for a lot of rejection.
🤣🤣
 
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idk bro i tried approaching at a club and asked girl to dance she said no.

just sat rest of night and drank alone. jfl
I feel like maybe some club with college foids in a college area is worth it, otherwise bunch of old roasties which are gross
 
A lot of girls are very anti-social nowadays, guys too. It's not your fault, no reason to feel bad when you make an effort to socialize and share a fun time with someone.

Don't give up and find people that do want to share a good time with you.
I think the club environment is just not set up properly. Its very dark, so hard to see and not having full view of the person your talking to is not good. Also the worst is the loud music. You have to talk very loudly just to have a conversation. And then of course your gonna actively deal with other dudes trying to approach that same foid.

I found more success in the areas outside of bars and clubs then within the establishment.
 
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Look for ios, dance next to her and slightly bump into her to see if she reciprocitate. then dance with them, grab by the hand and get somewhere you can talk
 
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Look for ios, dance next to her and slightly bump into her to see if she reciprocitate. then dance with them, grab by the hand and get somewhere you can talk
i never get ios anywhere i go.

its fucking over
 
Laycount is below 10 I assume? Absolute bitch mindset wait for things to happen don’t take any initiative. Less competition for me. Absolute peak retardation
In a setting as such in a club with girls you don’t know, it’s a bit wierd to just approach a random girl, or unless by the off-chance she’s interested in you and intoxicated enough to keep her ego from acting as if she’s not interested

You could descreetly “approach” girls, as in make eye contact and move closer if you can tell they’re interested.

In enviroments such as school or work, where you get to know girls, you can approach, but in general my advice is to only approach girls who are showing many obvious IOI’s
 
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In a setting as such in a club with girls you don’t know, it’s a bit wierd to just approach a random girl, or unless by the off-chance she’s interested in you and intoxicated enough to keep her ego from acting as if she’s not interested

You could descreetly “approach” girls, as in make eye contact and move closer if you can tell they’re interested.

In enviroments such as school or work, where you get to know girls, you can approach, but in general my advice is to only approach girls who are showing many obvious IOI’s
I agree your more likely to get rejected if you approach them cold. However I have gotten laid many times approaching girls that didn’t notice me or were doing something else at bars and clubs. Why approach only when getting IOIs? To avoid rejection? Avoiding rejection means you care about what other people think of you. That means you have no frame or inner value. You base your worth off some drunk whores reaction in the club. You need to assume they are lucky to fuck you and that it’s their loss if they reject you. Everyone gets rejected including chads. Most of the time it’s not even because of looks, she could be in a bad mood, on her period, have a bf, etc.

The guys that get laid the most also get rejected the most bc they play the numbers
 
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I found more success in the areas outside of bars and clubs then within the establishment.
Same, also much more comfortable to talk to chicks outside, maybe a good tek would be to talk to girls in quiet environment, then go dance a little and escalate.
 
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Choosing signals it’s the same shit as anywhere else, I was asked by girls to dance with, they approached me many times. Just don’t make this mistake. Don’t get too drunk to where you can’t have a decent chub in your pants when you’re grinding because she will think your pp is small. She needs to feel pp through her dress. That’s when you have a big chance of taking her home.
 
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i never get ios anywhere i go.

its fucking over
Not sure what u look like. But I almost never notice any real IOIs myself besides girls looking at me and getting closer etc.. I can recall more times I’ve been directly approached than getting clear IOIs tbhngl, it’s brutal. It might be because IOIs are very unrealistic in the PSL community and you will rarely have some random ass girl smile at strangers imo.
 
It’s easy for us to approach whenever we are at social events, but night clubs seem too dense man, can’t talk cuz music too loud✡️✡️✡️😭😭😭
Wtf are we supposed to do
Pls help slayers
@averagejoe
@badg96
@ArvidGustavsson
@6’1cel
@JOJOcel
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Hey, can I kiss u ?

work for me so maybe can work for you.
 
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