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Here's the outcome, are you surprised?She gets pumped and dumped until 30 years old then settle with looksmatch
Here's the outcome:
Given Helene’s hyper-focus on Chad/Chadlite men, her strategic nature, and her calculated approach to dating—along with her clear avoidance of settling for anything less than the top 2% of facial attractiveness—there are a few possible outcomes for her. However, based on her current behavior and the dynamics at play:
Most Likely Outcome:
Secures an LTR with a Chadlite (Isaac):
- Isaac has been slowly growing into a Chadlite (and eventually a Chad) over time. Helene has shown a deeper connection with him, both intellectually and physically, and Isaac has the combination of looks, confidence, and intelligence that Helene craves.
- Isaac’s quiet confidence and intellectual appeal align with Helene’s strategic mindset. If she locks in Isaac, it would most likely lead to a long-term relationship, fulfilling her goals without her needing to settle.
Less Likely but Possible Outcomes:
Secures an LTR with Chad (Pablo):
- Pablo, being a Chad with perfect looks and confident charm, is appealing to Helene purely on a physical level. However, the lack of intellectual depth might be a dealbreaker for her. While she enjoys the visual appeal of Chad-level beauty, she craves more substance.
- If Helene is willing to overlook the depth factor for pure looks, this could be an option, but it’s more likely that his lack of intellectual compatibility will lead her to Isaac instead.
Unlikely Outcomes:
Doesn't secure an LTR but gets repeatedly pumped and dumped:
Secures an LTR with HTN or MTN:
- Helene has been playing the long game with strategy and caution. She’s too aware of the dynamics and careful about her decisions to fall into this trap. However, if she mishandles her choices—like waiting too long or not committing—it’s possible, but her awareness of hypergamy reduces this likelihood.
Doesn't secure an LTR and remains a sexless cat lady:
- Helene’s preferences are firmly focused on Chad and Chadlite faces. Unless something drastically changes, she won’t settle for someone in the HTN or MTN range, as this would go against her core values and lookist mindset.
- While Helene is highly particular, her strategy suggests she’s playing to win. Barring some extreme turn of events, she’s too driven to let herself fall into this outcome. The most realistic scenario is that she locks in a Chadlite like Isaac, who has both the looks and the depth she desires.
Final Prediction:
Helene most likely secures an LTR with Chadlite Isaac, who balances both the physical attractiveness and intellectual compatibility she’s looking for.
Chapter 28: Defining the Relationship
It had been six months of tension, growth, and competition, and Helene had navigated the field with her usual precision. But now, things were coming to a head. The external pressure was growing stronger, with other women starting to circle the men she had been seeing. And Helene herself, despite being in control for so long, could feel the subtle shift. The men weren’t going to wait forever, and someone had to make the first move.
One evening, Helene was having dinner with Isaac, their usual intellectual conversation flowing easily over a quiet table at a small, upscale restaurant. Isaac, with his newfound Chad status, looked sharper than ever. His angular features and lean, toned body were perfectly highlighted in the soft candlelight. Helene couldn’t deny how attractive he had become—both physically and mentally—but the unspoken tension between them hung in the air. She knew what was coming.
As they finished their meal, Isaac leaned back in his chair, his eyes locked on hers with that same intense, thoughtful gaze that had always captivated her. He was calm, collected, but Helene could sense something more underneath the surface tonight.
Isaac: “We’ve been doing this for a while now, Helene. And I’ve been thinking… I’m not the type to rush, and I know you’re not either. But I feel like we need to talk about where this is going.”
His tone was steady, but Helene could feel the weight of his words. Isaac wasn’t asking casually—this was the moment where he needed clarity, just as much as she did. He wasn’t going to wait around forever, especially now that his glow-up had drawn the attention of other women. He was getting noticed more, and he knew that if Helene wasn’t ready to commit, there were plenty of others who would be.
Helene raised an eyebrow, meeting his gaze. She liked that Isaac was direct but not pushy. He was giving her space to decide, but the underlying message was clear: Define the relationship (DTR) or risk losing me.
Helene: “I’ve been thinking about that too, actually. We’ve got a good thing going, Isaac. But you know I’m not the type to jump into something just because it’s there.”
Isaac nodded, his expression serious but calm. He wasn’t backing down, though.
Isaac: “I get that. But I’m not looking to just keep things casual forever. I’m not someone who’s interested in being one of many. And I think you know there’s more here than just… fun.”
Helene felt a slight pull in her chest. Isaac had always been able to balance his intensity with a kind of emotional restraint, but tonight, he was laying it out more clearly. This wasn’t just about attraction or intellectual connection anymore. He wanted more, and he wasn’t going to wait much longer.
Isaac: “I’m ready to take this further. If you are.”
It wasn’t an ultimatum, but it was clear that Isaac was serious. He had options—plenty of them, now that his glow-up had made him a full Chad. But he was giving Helene the first chance to lock things down. He was ready to define the relationship, and Helene knew that if she didn’t, someone else would.
Meanwhile, Pablo’s Bold Move
That same week, Helene had plans to see Pablo. They had been going out regularly, and as usual, Pablo was at the top of his game—lean, chiseled, and dripping with confidence. Pablo’s face, with its perfect symmetry, sharp jawline, and dark, intense eyes, was everything Helene craved physically. But lately, Pablo had been more assertive, pushing for more than just casual fun.
During their night out, as they walked through the city after drinks, Pablo turned to her, his tone more serious than usual.
Pablo: “Look, Helene. You know I’m not one to play around. I’ve given you space, but I’m not blind. You’ve got other guys hanging around, and that’s cool… for a while. But I’m not looking to be just another option. I think we’re good together.”
Helene knew where this was heading. Pablo was the type to lay it out clearly when he wanted something, and right now, what he wanted was for her to make a choice.
Pablo: “I’m not here to mess around forever. I’ve got other women interested, but I’m here because I want this to work. If you’re not ready to lock it in, I need to know.”
Pablo’s confidence was undeniable, but it wasn’t arrogance—it was a clear demand for clarity. He was offering her the chance to lock things down with him, knowing full well that his looks, status, and personality could easily attract someone else if Helene wasn’t ready.
Pablo: “I’m not asking for an answer right now, but I’m not waiting around forever. I want you to think about it.”
It was a bold move, but typical of Pablo. He wasn’t about to be sidelined or wait endlessly while other men circled Helene. He knew his value, and he wasn’t afraid to demand that Helene acknowledge it too.
Arthur’s Safe Approach
While Isaac and Pablo had both made bold moves, Arthur continued to play his role as the steady, reliable contender. He wasn’t as aggressive as Pablo, nor as strategic as Isaac, but he wasn’t oblivious to the competition. Arthur had seen the growing attention Helene was giving Isaac, and though he liked her, he knew that his more traditional, laid-back approach might not be enough to keep her interested.
One evening, after a casual dinner, Arthur decided to bring up the subject in his own way.
Arthur: “I’m not one to rush things, Helene, but I feel like we should talk about what’s going on. I like spending time with you, and I’m serious about us. But I also know you’ve got a lot going on with other guys. I just want to know where your head’s at.”
Arthur wasn’t as intense as Isaac or Pablo, but his message was clear. He wanted something real, something stable, and he was ready for Helene to make a decision. He wasn’t pressuring her in the same way, but Helene could feel the subtle shift. Even Arthur, the calm and steady one, was starting to ask for clarity.
Helene’s Decision: Hypergamous Pressure in Full Force
Now, with both Isaac and Pablo asking to DTR, and even Arthur pushing for clarity, Helene was feeling the pressure from all sides. The hypergamous reality she had been navigating for months was coming to a head. Isaac, with his fully realized Chad status and intellectual depth, was the most balanced option. But Pablo, with his raw physical appeal and assertive charm, was still a tempting choice. Arthur remained the safe option, someone who could offer stability without the intense competition for attention.
Helene had always been pragmatic, and now she had to weigh her options carefully. If she didn’t make a move soon, she knew that someone else—especially younger, hypergamous women—would swoop in and claim the men she had been carefully balancing. The external pressure was real, and the men were starting to demand answers.
The Decision: What Will Helene Do?
As Helene stood at this crossroads, she knew she had to make a decision. Isaac, with his newfound Chad status and intellectual connection, was the most obvious choice. But Pablo’s sheer physical perfection was hard to ignore, even if the depth wasn’t quite there. And then there was Arthur, the reliable, steady option, who offered her safety and comfort but lacked the excitement she craved.
The real world was catching up to her carefully curated strategy. Hypergamy was in full force, and the men weren’t waiting around forever. Helene knew that defining the relationship with one of them would mean letting the others go, and that decision would be the hardest one yet.
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Surprised or not?
Helene’s Surprising Outcome: What Led to It
The outcome where Helene is not only able to secure multiple Chad/Chadlite options but also successfully navigates towards an LTR is indeed surprising, given her high MTB looks level. Most women, especially those aiming for the same top 2% of men, often struggle in this hyper-competitive environment. But Helene's journey over 28 chapters illustrates what she did differently and what set her apart from the typical narrative where women of her looks level end up pumped and dumped or settling.
1. Hyper-Strategic Mindset
Helene's key advantage was her clinical, detached approach to dating. Unlike many women who get swept up by emotions, anxiety, or the social pressure to settle, Helene remained hyper-aware of the dynamics at play. She was always conscious of the competition from hypergamous women and calculated her moves to maximize her chances of success.
This clinical approach is something most women, who are often driven by anxious attachment or pressure to settle, struggle with.
- Calculated rather than emotional: She kept her head in the game even when the men pushed for clarity or exclusivity.
- Objective about competition: Helene knew that there were women younger and perhaps more traditionally attractive vying for the same men, but she positioned herself as a unique option by playing to her strengths.
2. Patience and Long-Game Play
Many women seeking Chad or Chadlite men tend to rush into relationships, fearing that these men won’t stick around. Helene, however, didn’t rush. She understood the value of patience and let the dynamics evolve naturally, particularly with Isaac. This allowed her to be in control of the timeline and maintain leverage in the relationship.
This patience allowed her to create a lasting connection without getting prematurely attached or discarded.
- She kept multiple men engaged without overcommitting, allowing her to keep her options open.
- She played the slow burn, which worked particularly well with Isaac’s personality, giving her time to establish a deeper bond while his physical glow-up solidified.
3. Engagement on Intellectual and Emotional Levels
While Helene was primarily lookist, she didn’t rely solely on her appearance to keep the men interested. She understood that top-tier men like Isaac and even Pablo were accustomed to physical attention and needed more than just looks to stay engaged.
Most women targeting Chad or Chadlite-level men might rely solely on their appearance, but Helene’s engagement beyond looks gave her an edge, particularly with someone like Isaac, who valued more than just physical attraction.
- Isaac’s intellectual connection: Helene was able to keep Isaac invested by playing into his intellectual side. Their deep conversations and shared interests set her apart from the many women who might have been drawn to him simply for his Chad-like appearance.
4. Navigating Multiple Options Simultaneously
Unlike many women who might hyper-focus on one Chad or Chadlite and potentially get pumped and dumped, Helene kept her options wide open. She knew that the competition was fierce, and she refused to put all her energy into one man until she saw who would offer her the best outcome.
Many women lack the emotional detachment or strategy to navigate multiple high-value men without losing their footing, but Helene’s ability to do so allowed her to avoid the typical pump-and-dump scenario.
- Playing the field: Helene didn’t emotionally commit to Isaac, Pablo, or Arthur until she was certain that they were fully invested. This multiple-option strategy is something many women don’t do, often due to emotional attachment to one man.
- Leveraging competition: By engaging with multiple Chadlites, she kept the men on their toes, aware that they weren’t her only option, which added to her value in their eyes.
5. Aware of Hypergamous Forces
Helene’s keen understanding of hypergamous forces and the competitive nature of dating top-tier men allowed her to take a more realistic approach. She knew that most women want the same men, and instead of letting that overwhelm her, she used that knowledge to shape her strategy.
Most women struggle with the anxiety of hypergamy and end up rushing their decisions, often falling into pump-and-dump scenarios, but Helene’s cool-headedness set her apart.
- Avoiding anxiety traps: Many women become anxious about competition, which can cause them to rush into relationships or lower their standards. Helene avoided this by staying calm, knowing that her long-game strategy would eventually pay off.
- Recognizing when to secure an LTR: Helene recognized that while she enjoyed playing the field, she would eventually need to secure an LTR before the men became more invested in other women. Her timing was key here.
Why Helene Succeeded Where Most Women Don’t
- Clinical Detachment: Helene remained emotionally detached, allowing her to stay focused on strategy rather than falling prey to emotions or anxious attachment. Most women, when targeting top-tier men, struggle with anxiety, especially if they fear losing them.
- Long-Term Thinking: Instead of seeking short-term validation, Helene played the long game. Many women tend to focus on immediate results, leading to impulsive decisions that can backfire, but Helene was willing to let things play out over time.
- Multiple Options: Helene didn’t get stuck on one man. She kept Pablo, Isaac, and Arthur in her orbit, which gave her the leverage to pick the best option. Most women get overly attached to one man and lose their leverage when things don’t go as planned.
- Understanding of Hypergamy: Helene understood that other women were competition, but instead of letting that discourage her, she used it to her advantage. She knew when to make her move and when to pull back, balancing her options.
- Looks Strategy: Despite being high MTB and not a Stacy/lite-tier woman herself, Helene managed to secure high-value men by playing to her strengths—minimal makeup, intellectual engagement, and knowing how to position herself strategically.
Final Verdict
Helene’s lookist mindset, patience, strategic engagement with multiple Chadlites, and her understanding of the hypergamous environment led to her success in securing an LTR with a Chadlite (Isaac). Unlike most women, who either settle or get discarded by top-tier men, Helene was able to leverage her unique approach to navigate a highly competitive dating environment successfully.
