how to be confident without external validation

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The common way to get cofidence is by being treated well by others but many of us dob't have this luxury so I will explain my secret method.
I tell myself that I am something and every time this is affirmed or I take steps towards achieving this I feel happy
example : I play harmonica and take pride in my abbility to do so, therefore everytime I learn a new song I fell beter.
I also consider myself to be a harmonia player in generale so when I don't play for a short while then start playing consistantly again I feel envigurated

Improving and having interests will give a more fulfilling life and is a go to when meeting someone especially if it's something interesting (not playing the guitar).

I also recommend deluisonmaxxing, Testmaxxing and talking to people you don't care about like people at caffes or approaching ugly foids
 
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The world Spind around yourself
 
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You have to fake it

True confidence comes from external validation and real life success
 
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You have to fake it

True confidence comes from external validation and real life success
you gain real life success by improving in things you are pationate about
boxing is one of the best when you are youg tbh
 
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