How to convince family and friends for surgery?

[Jason Voorhees]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Swarthy Knight @browncurrycel @aladdinmaxxer @DBDR @SplashJuice

 

[Aristotélēs]

The lion doesn't care what his family or friends think

 

[Deleted member 136223]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.


My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering


The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

They're right. You don't need either.

 

[Deleted member 230985]

You just dont tell them retard

 

[Deleted member 230985]

They're right. You don't need either.

true its over for brownoids regardless

 

[Jason Voorhees]

You just dont tell them retard

How can I leave everything to fly to Italy to rot for 3 months. What will I tell to my parents, my boss, my friends.

 

[Deleted member 136223]

true its over for brownoids regardless

Skin lightening is the biggest SMV boost for ethnics, but unfortunately, it isn't all that practical tbh. It's largely a meme/pipedream.

 

[Leo]

Dont you already have a girlfriend? Or am i thinking of somone else

 

[TechnoBoss]

Rhinoplasty 10 years ago was the best decision I ever made. The money isn’t even a factor to consider. You’ll save more money over your life from being attractive than what you’re spend on the surgeries.

Go for it.

 

[kisuke]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they live me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

brother it's your life , if you know the positive out weighs the negative just do it , people will always have a stigma when it comes to surgery especially for men , but we know how much it can change your life so make your own decisions

 

[Deleted member 230985]

How can I leave everything to fly to Italy to rot for 3 months. What will I tell to my parents, my boss, my friends.

u are going travelling

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Dont you already have a girlfriend? Or am i thinking of somone else

I do but I've done months of research and even paid for consults. Korean clinics, local clinics you name it. I've already sunken hundreds of dollars in this

 

[Samsepioler]

do a race surgery

 

[Jason Voorhees]

u are going travelling

I literally mentioned it in OP. Dr Pagnoni

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@Uehdbwidbfngj @NotAMogger

 

[Leo]

I do but I've done months of research and even paid for consults. Korean clinics, local clinics you name it. I've already sunken hundreds of dollars in this

I mean yeah if you really wanna do it and already spent alot of money then i personally wouldn't give a shit about what everyone else said, they will get over it soon anyways so why bother

 

[slaters]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

Politicians get plastic surgery

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I mean yeah if you really wanna do it and already spent alot of money then i personally wouldn't give a shit about what everyone else said, they will get over it soon anyways so why bother

Money isn't the main issue it's more about the logistics and the social aspect of it as an adult who isn't a social recluse and has responsibilities over his head. I don't know how I will be able to explain any of this to my parents, my friend. It's not like I can just disappear for two months without anyone noticing recovery time alone requires serious planning. Not to mention you need to mentally prepare yourself for all this. It isn't easy

 

[Deleted member 109943]

The only real problem here is your employer and whether he'll let you work online for three months.

 

[browncurrycel]

genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life

How though?

You already have what most people want in their lives after surgery- you look good as you are right now, tall and have a loving girl.

Why exactly are you doing this

 

[slaters]

How though?

You already have what most people want in their lives after surgery- you look good as you are right now, tall and have a loving girl.

Why exactly are you doing this

Settle for what you are theory

 

[Jason Voorhees]

The only real problem here is your employer and whether he'll let you work online for three months.

Yeah this. It can be done but would he allow this.

 

[Uehdbwidbfngj]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

Just get it bro don’t let anyone tell you otherwise if you want something go and do it

 

[Jason Voorhees]

How though?

You already have what most people want in their lives after surgery- you look good as you are right now, tall and have a loving girl.

Why exactly are you doing this

Better life, more self esteem and confidence

 

[Jason Voorhees]

@tunisianropemaxxer

 

[tunisianropemaxxer]

@tunisianropemaxxer

Idk dude i never got surgery

 

[surgerymaxxingsoon]

Rhinoplasty 10 years ago was the best decision I ever made. The money isn’t even a factor to consider. You’ll save more money over your life from being attractive than what you’re spend on the surgeries.

Go for it.

Holy shit you’re old mb

 

[savage21]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

Honestly I wouldn’t really care unless your partner and you have a serious relationship going on and this would be a deal breaker for her. Your parents will always see you as their child and they would always see you as perfect. Your friends just don’t want you to mog them .

 

[browncurrycel]

Holy shit you’re old mb

Bro chill

 

[surgerymaxxingsoon]

Bro chill

I wasn’t expecting that mb not in a bad way just surprising

 

[Jason Voorhees]

I wasn’t expecting that mb not in a bad way just surprising

Thoughts on OP

 

[Perfectiοn]

Idk tbh my plan was to just lie and tell my family that it’s for medical reasons and not for cosmetic reasons since most of the surgeries I’m getting can be passed off as medical surgeries.

 

[SplashJuice]

Do not listen to friends and family for things like this because they're never good for feedback, it's not cynicism it's because they're emotionally invested in you to never suggest these things.

However, be careful to not be swayed by your own bias either, if it's a sincere volition then go ahead and do it, although take some more time to think about it, surgeries is life changing and shouldn't be an impulse checkbox.

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Idk tbh my plan was to just lie and tell my family that it’s for medical reasons and not for cosmetic reasons since most of the surgeries I’m getting can be passed off as medical surgeries.

Bimax?

 

[Perfectiοn]

Bimax?

yup

im also planning on getting rhino but i dont know if im actually gonna be able to lie about that one. even tho some people do get rhino for medical reasons theres usually no drastic cosmetic results so idk what im gonna do about that tbh.

 

[Lightskin Ethnic]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

u have a gf?
didn't tell us
is she mallu too?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

u have a gf?
didn't tell us
is she mallu too?

I literally posted her pics nigga and no she is Rajput

 

[Lightskin Ethnic]

I literally posted her pics nigga and no she is Rajput

does she know about your "SWP" fetish?

 

[Deleted member 219416]

I literally posted her pics nigga and no she is Rajput

thoughts on NWO?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

u have a gf?
didn't tell us
is she mallu too?

Here already has like 100 reps

How do we look?

Had a little too many cans and the bloat demon came back to haunt me again. I'll explain everything in another thread but i was giga NT because I was under influence

looksmax.org

 

[Jason Voorhees]

does she know about your "SWP" fetish?

What's that?

thoughts on NWO?

NWO?

 

[Lightskin Ethnic]

What's that?

small white pussy

 

[Deleted member 219416]

What's that?


NWO?

new world order

 

[Jason Voorhees]

New

new world order

World order of what?

 

[Jason Voorhees]

small white pussy

No

 

[Deleted member 219416]

New

World order of what?

too lazy to explain jus look it up or sum shit

 

[Jason Voorhees]

too lazy to explain jus look it up or sum shit

Oh you mean this? How does this relate to anything in OP nigga

New World Order conspiracy theory - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

 

[Deleted member 219416]

Oh you mean this? How does this relate to anything in OP nigga

New World Order conspiracy theory - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

it doesnt im jus bored

 

[ascend.exe]

Title. I've done my research, looked into different surgeons, recovery times, costs everything. I've even had a consult with Dr pagnoni, CT scans and even agreed to give me jaw implants and Rhinoplasty everyone around me keeps shooting the idea down.

My parents, friends, even my girlfriend keep telling me there's no need and that I'm fine the way I am and they like me just the way I am and would change nothing. They think I'm being delusional or overly self critical and that I should focus on other things instead of spending thousands of dollars and months recovering. They all keep feeding into my delusions

The thing is I've thought about this for a long time It's not some impulsive decision I genuinely believe it would help me feel better and improve my life. I've been researching this stuff for almost a year. How do I convince them?

dude if your family and friends love you just have a kid or something, how old r u? ur chill dude I wouldn't recommend anybody going down that rabbit hole.

Get braces maybe instead?