How to cope until you are ready? (looksmaxxed)

[Peruvian]

I barely can deal with the loneliness and horniness due to not having a gf or dates.

I want to ascend, but the only way to cope that Works for me is:
Waiting until friday to indulge in weed, porn, fapping and vidya after gymcelling and studying religiously
If I dont wait until friday and do it before, I go in a downward spiral of pessimism and I go into depressive episodes.

I found it difficult even now, but I hope this can sustain my emotional/mental health until Im able to have a date or something.

How do you cope in a healthy way?

 

[Unwanted]

My best cope is researching ways to make money online and implementing it, plus it's beneficial for looksmaxxing long term

 

[treedude]

God I hate being emotional and crying over females.

Its a sign of weakness and insecurity, but to be honest the only way to prevent this is to find a way to be proud of yourself.

Usually done if you have enough cash, looks, or status. It's not necessarily if you have a mate you are basically subconsciously comparing yourself to other people your age and seeing yourself and below average that's what's fucking with you.

 

[LifeIsNEET]

Please don't do street / hard drugs and drink alcohol. If you drink fine wine or a glass of whiskey or whatever sure, but in reality a majority of people just do it wastefully. If you don't, then good.

I listen and debate with people on politics, religion, etc. I didn't think I'd ever get into it, but I like how ridiculous a lot of it is and get a kick out of engaging with people. Even if they be irrational as can be. I also enjoy long runs and just getting lost in music. I might look like something is wrong with me singing to myself or moving in sync with a song, but I'm smiling and enjoying nature. Volunteering is nice as well. Love to help others who need it and they see you as something other than an ugly freak. It's one of the most genuine form of interaction I think you can get possibly outside stuff like literally going to war with someone, family, and truly being in borderline fictional love.

If you want to talk or whatever feel free to PM me if you need help trying to find something buddy. I find creative outlets amazing as well. Turning off a phone and going to an art museum and just making myself be in situations I don't traditionally like has made me find many new passions.

 

[ratfucker22]

your cope has to be the progress my dude. its a s self indulging cycle, you advance more and that gives you the drive to advance furhter. if you begin to stall (impossible during the first 6mo-1yr imho) then youve got to look how can you push further....

rich people dont go o well im a billionaire thats it. no, they keep working to get even wealthier. artists dont make a hit and then quit. its like that when you looksmaxx too i think. im just stating but these are my thoughts

 

[Limerencel]

Educate yourself. Never stop learning.

 

[ratfucker22]

Educate yourself. Never stop learning.

learn whatr?

 

[Afrikancel]

I barely can deal with the loneliness and horniness due to not having a gf or dates.

I want to ascend, but the only way to cope that Works for me is:
Waiting until friday to indulge in weed, porn, fapping and vidya after gymcelling and studying religiously
If I dont wait until friday and do it before, I go in a downward spiral of pessimism and I go into depressive episodes.

I found it difficult even now, but I hope this can sustain my emotional/mental health until Im able to have a date or something.

How do you cope in a healthy way?

We need to make a discord for looksmaxxers

Please don't do street / hard drugs and drink alcohol. If you drink fine wine or a glass of whiskey or whatever sure, but in reality a majority of people just do it wastefully. If you don't, then good.

I listen and debate with people on politics, religion, etc. I didn't think I'd ever get into it, but I like how ridiculous a lot of it is and get a kick out of engaging with people. Even if they be irrational as can be. I also enjoy long runs and just getting lost in music. I might look like something is wrong with me singing to myself or moving in sync with a song, but I'm smiling and enjoying nature. Volunteering is nice as well. Love to help others who need it and they see you as something other than an ugly freak. It's one of the most genuine form of interaction I think you can get possibly outside stuff like literally going to war with someone, family, and truly being in borderline fictional love.

If you want to talk or whatever feel free to PM me if you need help trying to find something buddy. I find creative outlets amazing as well. Turning off a phone and going to an art museum and just making myself be in situations I don't traditionally like has made me find many new passions.

Also this. Go out by yourself and do something every saturday. It will imrpove your life tbh

 

[Peruvian]

We need to make a discord for looksmaxxers

Also this. Go out by yourself and do something every saturday. It will imrpove your life tbh

Yeah I'm interested into a weekly chat sesión with some looksmaxxed, AA Style

 

[Spite]

You didn't even say how you plan to ascend, it doesn't just happen by itself.

 

[UBER]

Keep reading, learning, socialising to be able to approach.
Basically mentalmaxx

 

[swissincel]

I am frauding pictures and talking to girls online
Very mediocre success actually, but its better than 0 contact

 

[PheeneZ]

My best cope is researching ways to make money online and implementing it, plus it's beneficial for looksmaxxing long term

What is the best method you have found thus far?

 

[Unwanted]

What is the best method you have found thus far?

None, every method I've tried failed. I haven't tried day trading yet so maybe it works.

I wrote more about this here: https://incels.me/threads/its-impossible-to-make-money-online-your-only-option-is-to-wagecuck.63034/

 

[Gandy]

I coped with good movies and tv series, forums, reading books, learning a lot about supplements/vitamins and what roles they have in our body, basically I just spent my time becoming health conscious while not watching a movie.

Also spent considerable time researching good diets and foods that give our bodies the optimal amount of nutrients. Now my typical meal is usually 300-400g salmon or chicken, a big bowl of spinach, tomatoes, 10-20g of olive oil and a few glasses of water.

When I was out of shape I ate all sorts of crap daily like white bread, chocolate bars, potato chips and so on. That's the worst cope, food. Bad quality foods will give you acne, make your face an ugly shade of red, make you greasy and bloated etc., cope with anything else but junk food.

 

[NoHabloIngles]

You need to build motivation...

The best way in all honesty is to swallow the Bluepill V2 this keeps you hyperly motivated despite being an ugly manlet. If you are a blackpill type of guy, you will lose all hope and stay there rotting for life unless you take the Bluepill V2 for mega COPE and delusions. It offers benefits at the end.

 

[Nibba]

My favorite copes are:

1. YouTube after or during gym
2. Vidya (though I've been bored and uninterested in them recently)

 

[xxxtentac10n]

I'm pretty comfortable with my looks rn but when I used to be really fat and ugly I'd play vidya all day (Don't recommend it, it will fuck you up even worse due to the sedentary lifestyle)

 

[Elias]

Making money and looksmaxing