How to cope with being neurodivergent?

[klorablev]

As the title says how should I cope with it. I can rope anytime I want to as I have everything I need to do it but I don’t want to do it yet. Me being ND is one of my biggest flaws and I’m already a manlet with a 4/10ish face. So there’s a good chance I won’t be pulling. But it also impacts other aspects of life not just getting girls. Personality wise I’m introverted and shy at least that’s what people tell me. They also say I try to be nonchalant which pisses me off because I don’t, I mean you’re not even in true control of your personality anyways because there are genetic factors that come into play and your personality is heavily shaped by how you were treated during your formative years. So how would I even personalitymaxx? How does anyone even ntmaxx?

 

[Grievous]

Drugs

 

[zygosmasher12]

widen your circle first of all, speaking and talking is a skill. working in a sales job i learned that really fast. talk to as many people as possible and just practice, doesnt really matter who it is. try and become friends with them blah blah blah just make sure your main focus is youre talking and expressing yourself as much as possible. also try not to be too weird, at first if youre not really socially aware you will struggle with this, but its all part of the game. keep learning from mistakes and dont take it too serious, most people are depressed losers with not much going for themselves in the first place, so dont think of yourself as an outcast.

 

[klorablev]

Drugs

Yes, I’ve done drugs but I’ve been thinking about doing harder drugs. Might give it a try.

 

[grav]

As the title says how should I cope with it. I can rope anytime I want to as I have everything I need to do it but I don’t want to do it yet. Me being ND is one of my biggest flaws and I’m already a manlet with a 4/10ish face. So there’s a good chance I won’t be pulling. But it also impacts other aspects of life not just getting girls. Personality wise I’m introverted and shy at least that’s what people tell me. They also say I try to be nonchalant which pisses me off because I don’t, I mean you’re not even in true control of your personality anyways because there are genetic factors that come into play and your personality is heavily shaped by how you were treated during your formative years. So how would I even personalitymaxx? How does anyone even ntmaxx?

Poser

 

[klorablev]

Poser

Nigga what

 

[Clayslaysfoids]

Just act normal, follow the crowd

 

[klorablev]

widen your circle first of all, speaking and talking is a skill. working in a sales job i learned that really fast. talk to as many people as possible and just practice, doesnt really matter who it is. try and become friends with them blah blah blah just make sure your main focus is youre talking and expressing yourself as much as possible. also try not to be too weird, at first if youre not really socially aware you will struggle with this, but its all part of the game. keep learning from mistakes and dont take it too serious, most people are depressed losers with not much going for themselves in the first place, so dont think of yourself as an outcast.

I see, not that long ago I got invited to a social event where it was mostly people I didn’t know and it was brutal. I tried talking to new people but I was so awkward. So I ended up just getting drunk asf and only talking to the people I knew at the function.

 

[zygosmasher12]

I see, not that long ago I got invited to a social event where it was mostly people I didn’t know and it was brutal. I tried talking to new people but I was so awkward. So I ended up just getting drunk asf and only talking to the people I knew at the function.

got it. its part of the process. its brutal. i went through the same shit when i was younger (10-13, im 21 now), but its all part of the process, how do you expect to improve with no practice? you just gotta rawdog the awkwardness and get as many repetitions in and you will start to see it gets better. just for the love of god dont be a pussy and actually do something about this, its a mental barrier thats easier broken than kept, we just make it out as a big deal in our heads. you got this bro, i wish you the best of luck.

 

[hudson M]

I see, not that long ago I got invited to a social event where it was mostly people I didn’t know and it was brutal. I tried talking to new people but I was so awkward. So I ended up just getting drunk asf and only talking to the people I knew at the function.

you just can't be awkward when u talk to new ppl idk how to explain it but if u know people who are more social ask them. if you wanna be less shy or nonchalant js try and act as opposite as you can and js talk and ask questions and try and find common interests. harder drugs I would use is Moly

 

[kiannnn]

As the title says how should I cope with it. I can rope anytime I want to as I have everything I need to do it but I don’t want to do it yet. Me being ND is one of my biggest flaws and I’m already a manlet with a 4/10ish face. So there’s a good chance I won’t be pulling. But it also impacts other aspects of life not just getting girls. Personality wise I’m introverted and shy at least that’s what people tell me. They also say I try to be nonchalant which pisses me off because I don’t, I mean you’re not even in true control of your personality anyways because there are genetic factors that come into play and your personality is heavily shaped by how you were treated during your formative years. So how would I even personalitymaxx? How does anyone even ntmaxx?

take salvia and with luck you’ll live a chad life

 

[Zeus]

As the title says how should I cope with it. I can rope anytime I want to as I have everything I need to do it but I don’t want to do it yet. Me being ND is one of my biggest flaws and I’m already a manlet with a 4/10ish face. So there’s a good chance I won’t be pulling. But it also impacts other aspects of life not just getting girls. Personality wise I’m introverted and shy at least that’s what people tell me. They also say I try to be nonchalant which pisses me off because I don’t, I mean you’re not even in true control of your personality anyways because there are genetic factors that come into play and your personality is heavily shaped by how you were treated during your formative years. So how would I even personalitymaxx? How does anyone even ntmaxx?

: having or relating to a disorder or condition (such as autism spectrum disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, dyslexia, or obsessive-compulsive disorder) that impacts the way the brain processes information : exhibiting or characteristic of variations in typical neurological development

Autism is characterized by a failure of theory of mind. If you where diagnosed with autism as a kid you are just low IQ, the definition of autism has changed for the following reasons

1. Drug companies make more money
2. Teachers can't handle ever-growing classes of children so they put them on drugs
3. Teachers don't know how to teach (see the recent viral clip of a teacher showing a student how to learn words the wrong way)
4. Teachers have become 3rd world brownoids that once again cant handle teaching
5. Poisoning of everything
6. etc.

I can go on and on but usually actual intelligent people get diagnosed with autism later in life after becoming successful. Realistically there are ways to combat this from;

1. Fixing your gut micro-biome
2. Scheduling your whole week and breaking it into blocks
3. Using pomodoro for every task you do (90minutes for "deep work")
4. Hypnosis to combat it
5. Drugs
6. Exposure therapy for the social part

There are more but I rarely get to write down my findings on autism, I will start doing so from now on.


Here are some more reasons of autism explosion: