how to cope with invisible-to-oneitis-pill?

[hopecel]

title tbh

 

[Deleted member 99077]

masturbation

 

[brownmutt42]

Don’t end up like @TheVoidInside

 

[REGULUS]

masturbation

 

[hopecel]

masturbation

I masterbated right after today's nevrous breakdown

ended up even more miserable and now I cry thinking about her. OVER!

Don’t end up like @TheVoidInside

I'm even worse than him

I'm obsessed with a girl who doesn't even know who I am, he at least spoke to his oneitis

 

[diditeverbegin]

I started actually trying to looksmax because of it. I know I'll never get her because she will graduate this May; I doubt I can ascend that fast, already March.

 

[Troglodyte452]

What did you do to become invisible to her? Or you were never even dating?

 

[CelestialJackrabbit]

Try to forget that she even exists like I do

Getting brootaly rejected by my oneitis indirectly taught me how important it is to love yourself first before loving someone else and sent me down a self improvement rabbit hole. I fucking HATED myself during that time (completely unrelated to my crush)

 

[St.TikTokcel]

No oneitis for your face?

 

[hopecel]

I started actually trying to looksmax because of it. I know I'll never get her because she will graduate this May; I doubt I can ascend that fast, already March.

I've been looksmaxxing and coping for years now and nothing actually changed, I might be ascending but I never truly ascended

even then, it's not just about looks, don't ever underestimate personality&presence

What did you do to become invisible to her? Or you were never even dating?

we almost never talked to each other except for maybe 3-4 words when she asked to borrow my pen.. since that day, I can't get her out of my head, and that happened almost 2 years ago

 

[Troglodyte452]

we almost never talked to each other except for maybe 3-4 words when she asked to borrow my pen.. since that day, I can't get her out of my head, and that happened almost 2 years ago

Damn I had the definition of oneitis wrong all along it seems. I thought it was a girl that you kinda hang around with for some time and then you got separated. Thats what happened to me, she invited me over, we had sex and she kinda just kept the relationship online between us Im going to kill myself

 

[diditeverbegin]

I've been looksmaxxing and coping for years now and nothing actually changed, I might be ascending but I never truly ascended

even then, it's not just about looks, don't ever underestimate personality&presence

we almost never talked to each other except for maybe 3-4 words when she asked to borrow my pen.. since that day, I can't get her out of my head, and that happened almost 2 years ago

Inner light ahh
You're probably right, though, one a serious note. I haven't even tried talking to my oneitis maybe that is a bigger flaw than my face, high inhib/shyness.

 

[Toad]

Alcohol. That's all I got

 

[diditeverbegin]

I've been looksmaxxing and coping for years now and nothing actually changed, I might be ascending but I never truly ascended

even then, it's not just about looks, don't ever underestimate personality&presence

we almost never talked to each other except for maybe 3-4 words when she asked to borrow my pen.. since that day, I can't get her out of my head, and that happened almost 2 years ago

Do you know a way to start a convo. I don't want to be awkward; if I did, I'd have to randomly say something to her in the hallway or something.

 

[hopecel]

Try to forget that she even exists like I do

Getting brootaly rejected by my oneitis indirectly taught me how important it is to love yourself first before loving someone else and sent me down a self improvement rabbit hole. I fucking HATED myself during that time (completely unrelated to my crush)

I tried to forget her, but it worked only temporarily whenever I see her again, I'm done...

and yeah, self-improvement is good and essential when you're an inkie, but.. what's the purpose of anything you do if she doesn't even notice you? brutal

No oneitis for your face?

I wish I were low inhib at least.. I'd be rejected cuz I'm a sub-5 inkie instead of this agony, I can't even approach her cuz I know she'd puke if she saw my fucking asymmetrical face. C'EST FINI!

Damn I had the definition of oneitis wrong all along it seems. I thought it was a girl that you kinda hang around with for some time and then you got separated. Thats what happened to me, she invited me over, we had sex and she kinda just kept the relationship online between us Im going to kill myself

oneitis = being obsessed over one girl who in most cases dgaf about you

Inner light ahh
You're probably right, though, one a serious note. I haven't even tried talking to my oneitis maybe that is a bigger flaw than my face, high inhib/shyness.

exactly.. low inhib, interesting personality and PRESENCE... if you're not there, you don't exist

I saw my oneitis sitting with some NPC, maybe she's not interested in him but he still has 1000000% better chances to hit on her than I do

Alcohol. That's all I got

fuck it let's hit the gym

 

[Toad]

fuck it let's hit the gym

I think I'm gonna join a Karate dojo

 

[diditeverbegin]

exactly.. low inhib, interesting personality and PRESENCE... if you're not there, you don't exist

What's is presence I think I have truecel tier social ability

 

[St.TikTokcel]

I wish I were low inhib at least.. I'd be rejected cuz I'm a sub-5 inkie instead of this agony, I can't even approach her cuz I know she'd puke if she saw my fucking asymmetrical face. C'EST FINI!

Men are slaves to vagina. You're no different. Shame.

 

[hopecel]

Do you know a way to start a convo. I don't want to be awkward; if I did, I'd have to randomly say something to her in the hallway or something.

I mean, it's acceptable and not awkward if you don't know her for long.. I should've approached my oneitis back then when we both were in the same class in 1st year, now after 2 years it would be giga awkward, why would I just approach her after passing by her 10000 times?

but still, the best you can do is ask her to give you a cigarette or borrow you something I guess

I think I'm gonna join a Karate dojo

mirin

What's is presence I think I have truecel tier social ability

if you're not present where she is, someone else could approach and talk to her and you can't do anything about that

but still, if you could get closer to where she is, the better for you... some people are just lucky, for example imagine if you liked a girl from another major and you were on male-only major some things you can't change sadly

that's how this NPC colleague of hers can talk to her about something meaningful while I'm just creepy if I start a convo. what am I supposed to talk about?

Men are slaves to vagina. You're no different. Shame.

shame on me for being a moid at least I'm only her slave while the rest of foids are MY slaves