how to cope with loneliness

[IDontBlameAnybody]

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[Mogmo]

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Try to get friends ig, join social stuff like a football team or something

 

[rollthefuckingdice]

well a sane person would tell you to cope by going out trying to socialize and so
imo just play games and rott in forums helps a lot extra points for drugs

 

[danielischopped]

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find something to do is what helps me go play some video games go on a walk/bike go get some food

 

[Fynn]

i don’t think you can cope in that case

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

well a sane person would tell you to cope by going out trying to socialize and so
imo just play games and rott in forums helps a lot extra points for drugs

In order to not completely fuck up my life, I only allow pregab and some drinking at weekends, it feels so good going out with my friend and just drinking the loneliness away.

It's more that I feel the need for a girl in my life. Only a female could fill that deep empty void in me. Ig alc and pregab help but I cannot do that shit everyday unless I wanna completely fuck myself over....

 

[rollthefuckingdice]

it feels so good going out with my friend

well i mean hey you got a friend tho

It's more that I feel the need for a girl in my life. Only a female could fill that deep empty void in me. Ig alc and pregab help but I cannot do that shit everyday unless I wanna completely fuck myself over....

so youre not lonely you just horny cuh jerk it off

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

i don’t think you can cope in that case

I mean yeah I've only came up with temporary copes. I just don't want to completely fuck myself over too with shit like drugs yk. I mean I occasionally do pregab and drink on weekends only, but more than that and I risk fucking myself completely over.

 

[miserycel]

just endure

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

well i mean hey you got a friend tho

so youre not lonely you just horny cuh jerk it off

No its not that I'm horny specifically, trust me ik how that feels haha

 

[rollthefuckingdice]

No its not that I'm horny specifically, trust me ik how that feels haha

so do i just a joke. eh bro nothing to do in that case no amounts of cope can fill the envy for a partner in life

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

just endure

I do not want to do that for too long honestly. I've coped with some surgeries, and yes they have improved my confidence, but I still just can't bring myself together to pull myself out of this shit.

 

[NEWBOYO]

Join a sports team

 

[ixa]

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im on more introvertic side but just no lifing games and exams helped me to cope im ready for final exams and im high elo in league of legends win win

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

so do i just a joke. eh bro nothing to do in that case no amounts of cope can fill the envy for a partner in life

Yeah maybe, maybe I should just pop a shit ton of pregab and go out cold approaching girls lol, I mean who I'm fooling I've had thad idea for the last 3 months and I've never gone through with it.

 

[miserycel]

I do not want to do that for too long honestly. I've coped with some surgeries, and yes they have improved my confidence, but I still just can't bring myself together to pull myself out of this shit.

nothing changes if nothing changes

get a job. it’s probably the largest ROI you could ever do for yourself.

money + social interaction (can network, make friends and get into LTRs) + status

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Join a sports team

I will tbh, I did combat sports as a kid and I miss it, I'll join wrestling again.

 

[ltnfoiddestroyer67]

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I just play games it’s like the most ez cope

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

nothing changes if nothing changes

get a job. it’s probably the largest ROI you could ever do for yourself.

money + social interaction (can network, make friends and get into LTRs) + status

I have a job already, it's from home though . No I mean good money and free graphic, just a huge lack of social interaction.

 

[slaviccartfiend]

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you cant.

 

[NEWBOYO]

I will tbh, I did combat sports as a kid and I miss it, I'll join wrestling again.

Make the most of it while you can

 

[miserycel]

I have a job already, it's from home though . No I mean good money and free graphic, just a huge lack of social interaction.

a job literally forces you to be outside and interact with people. you need to do something that forces you to be outside, because sometimes motivation simply isn’t enough.

 

[HappyChud]

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speaking from personal experience I say watch movies, play video games, rot on here and smoke nic

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I just play games it’s like the most ez cope

I mean yeah I play League sometimes, but the thing is when I see a pretty girl so much dopamine just rushes to my brain and I feel like a total retard for being the way I am as a 21 yo.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

you cant.

I guess it just becomes unbearable when you reach like late twenties and just hate that you never got to experience anything in your best years.

 

[slaviccartfiend]

I guess it just becomes unbearable when you reach like late twenties and just hate that you never got to experience anything in your best years.

im 23 and I have an opportunity in a month to get out of the unbearable loneliness I've been in since I was 17, if I didn't have this opportunity I would've probably roped i cant take much longer, it really is the worst form of torture, and superficial connections never make it any better.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

a job literally forces you to be outside and interact with people. you need to do something that forces you to be outside, because sometimes motivation simply isn’t enough.

My last year of college is about to start too...

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

im 23 and I have an opportunity in a month to get out of the unbearable loneliness I've been in since I was 17, if I didn't have this opportunity I would've probably roped i cant take much longer, it really is the worst form of torture, and superficial connections never make it any better.

Bro it hurts my heart reading that you are suffering, and I truly hope you get out of it.

What kind of opportunity if you don't mind me asking?

 

[slaviccartfiend]

Bro it hurts my heart reading that you are suffering, and I truly hope you get out of it.

What kind of opportunity if you don't mind me asking?

im moving in with a childhood friend into a city that has some family and he has a large social network of people from a similar origin to us and culture so it'll be the closest I've been to having some semblance of a community since I was 8.

growing up my family would move every 2 years so I never got to actually make deep connections with anyone except this one person from my childhood I kept in contact with all this time, if not for that I'd be completely alone at this point and I'd have no light at the end of this tunnel.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

im 23 and I have an opportunity in a month to get out of the unbearable loneliness I've been in since I was 17, if I didn't have this opportunity I would've probably roped i cant take much longer, it really is the worst form of torture, and superficial connections never make it any better.

I get especially triggered when I see dudes that are less attractive and shorter / same height than me, yet pull the girls I would dream of pulling. I just envy them so fucking hard. Last weekend I said some really cringe ER type shit to one of them while drunk and I feel so fucking embarrassed because of it, I'm a complete douche and sore loser for that.. I'm scared to get drunk again because I'm scared I'll do similar shit again.. I'm literally seething lmao, I bet that dude was thinking what the fuck was wrong with me.

I didn't say anything too cringe, just something along the lines of how I should be with his gf not him.

And I'm not proud of it at all, I just wanna get this shit off of my chest, I can't believe what the fuck I've genuinely become

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

im moving in with a childhood friend into a city that has some family and he has a large social network of people from a similar origin to us and culture so it'll be the closest I've been to having some semblance of a community since I was 8.

growing up my family would move every 2 years so I never got to actually make deep connections with anyone except this one person from my childhood I kept in contact with all this time, if not for that I'd be completely alone at this point and I'd have no light at the end of this tunnel.

Gotcha man I'm happy to hear that.

 

[ltnfoiddestroyer67]

I mean yeah I play League sometimes, but the thing is when I see a pretty girl so much dopamine just rushes to my brain and I feel like a total retard for being the way I am as a 21 yo.

Dats sad Nig i Cant even lie and I thought I was incel

 

[Don_and-idk]

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Man most of yall not even trying
U need 2 be the one starting the convo
Also u needa start popping xanax and quit the pregab cope

 

[slaviccartfiend]

I get especially triggered when I see dudes that are less attractive and shorter / same height than me, yet pull the girls I would dream of pulling. I just envy them so fucking hard. Last weekend I said some really cringe ER type shit to one of them while drunk and I feel so fucking embarrassed because of it, I'm a complete douche and sore loser for that.. I'm scared to get drunk again because I'm scared I'll do similar shit again.. I'm literally seething lmao, I bet that dude was thinking what the fuck was wrong with me.

I didn't say anything too cringe, just something along the lines of how I should be with his gf not him.

And I'm not proud of it at all, I just wanna get this shit off of my chest, I can't believe what the fuck I've genuinely become

I get that man, all the social isolation breeds resentment and spite towards people who look worse yet have it better, its the failed normie complex.

 

[ltnfoiddestroyer67]

Man most of yall not even trying
U need 2 be the one starting the convo
Also u needa start popping xanax and quit the pregab cope

Torn method

 

[danielischopped]

In order to not completely fuck up my life, I only allow pregab and some drinking at weekends, it feels so good going out with my friend and just drinking the loneliness away.

It's more that I feel the need for a girl in my life. Only a female could fill that deep empty void in me. Ig alc and pregab help but I cannot do that shit everyday unless I wanna completely fuck myself over....

i thought u meant lonely like no friends no girl nothing bro if u have friends u dont need a girl im telling u they just more stress and not worth it during ur teenage years if u have friends go hang out with them or do eberything with them together

 

[Johnmogs2145]

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pin oxytocin

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I get that man, all the social isolation breeds resentment and spite towards people who look worse yet have it better, its the failed normie complex.

I told myself last year that I'll off myself (though 99% i probably wouldnt have) if I don't lose my virginity before feb 14th 2026. By some huge miracle at New Years Eve I managed to do that at a party to someone who I actually found attractive, but she was a total hoe as it turned out so I never spoke to her again + I was cutting hard, drunk and my hormones were shit so the sex didnt even feel good, I didnt cum even once.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Man most of yall not even trying
U need 2 be the one starting the convo
Also u needa start popping xanax and quit the pregab cope

Isnt it more addictive? have you tried both?

 

[slaviccartfiend]

I told myself last year that I'll off myself (though 99% i probably wouldnt have) if I don't lose my virginity before feb 14th 2026. By some huge miracle at New Years Eve I managed to do that at a party to someone who I actually found attractive, but she was a total hoe as it turned out so I never spoke to her again + I was cutting hard, drunk and my hormones were shit so the sex didnt even feel good, I didnt cum even once.

yeah I've been there, fucking sucks when the opportunity is there but you know your test is low as fuck at the moment lmao. how old are you?

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

I get that man, all the social isolation breeds resentment and spite towards people who look worse yet have it better, its the failed normie complex.

What is a normie complex though? Like failure of blending in and being normal?

 

[Don_and-idk]

Isnt it more addictive? have you tried both?

Yes my xanax is out of stock rn
I have some 40g of pregab but thats it
Its good but it makes me like emotionally flat so idrgaf about doing stupid shit anymore
i also usually talk 2 newbies old friends or the outcasts more

 

[slaviccartfiend]

Isnt it more addictive? have you tried both?

Xanax is the greatest drug I've ever tried in my life, it made every worry I've ever had diminish into nothing, unfortunately it makes who you are dissappear as well so I cant ever touch it again.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

yeah I've been there, fucking sucks when the opportunity is there but you know your test is low as fuck at the moment lmao. how old are you?

21

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Yes my xanax is out of stock rn
I have some 40g of pregab but thats it
Its good but it makes me like emotionally flat so idrgaf about doing stupid shit anymore
i also usually talk 2 newbies old friends or the outcasts more

So xanax mogs hard it ur opinion? Fuck why Im even asking lol Ik I'm bout to try that I'm just fucking hoping it isnt too good and wont get me addicted or some shit.

 

[slaviccartfiend]

What is a normie complex though? Like failure of blending in and being normal?

people who had the looks to be a normie and have a normal life but for whatever reason faced social rejection/isolation which changes them internally, so whilst having the looks to blend into normal society their fails upbringing prevents them from doing so successfully on their own, I'd say I somewhat fit into that category.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

Xanax is the greatest drug I've ever tried in my life, it made every worry I've ever had diminish into nothing, unfortunately it makes who you are dissappear as well so I cant ever touch it again.

Did you do something you regret while on it? Or wdym by that?

 

[slaviccartfiend]

So xanax mogs hard it ur opinion? Fuck why Im even asking lol Ik I'm bout to try that I'm just fucking hoping it isnt too good and wont get me addicted or some shit.

I was only able to stop doing it after I ran out and I just haven't bought any since, pretty sure I almost died on it once when I mixed it with alcohol like a retard and even that wasn't enough to get me to stop.

 

[slaviccartfiend]

Did you do something you regret while on it? Or wdym by that?

it absolutely rapes your memory, you turn into an absolute retard, straight up 90iq, it starts deleting you as a person.

 

[IDontBlameAnybody]

it absolutely rapes your memory, you turn into an absolute retard, straight up 90iq, it starts deleting you as a person.

How often did you take it?