How to cope with loneliness?

[Jesus_ist_König]

I dont enjoy hanging out with people. I just dont. I like being alone but sometimes it gets too lonely.
Here is what I have already tried and how it went:
1. Online friends = I got attached, got panic attacks when the person didnt respond, heavily unproductive, was only texting and doing nothing
2. Tulpamancy (creating imaginary friends) = I created one, after some time external autonomous voices came and now they are scaring me and raping my life -I regret this so much.
3. Meeting someone IRL = Stressful, boring, nervous, I just didnt enjoy it at all -made the desire to be alone again come back though but on the long run i dont enjoy meeting ppl every time just cuz i feel lonely
4. Finding a hobby = Yes I did that, I was obsessed, but at the end of the day it was sad, lonely, and not that enjoyable

All those methods didnt really work. I dont know what else to do. I like being alone, but not lonely.

@yyk117 @satangoy @Jason5000 @Nodal @the exile v2

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Bump?

 

[Jason5000]

3 is relatable. sadly our world is more lonely then ever. and its hard to meet people with similar interests and hobbies

 

[the exile v2]

I am not sure what I can say

 

[yyk117]

idk for this one but bump so someone else can help

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

3 is relatable. sadly our world is more lonely then ever. and its hard to meet people with similar interests and hobbies

So you also have no solution?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I am not sure what I can say

idk for this one but bump so someone else can help

over

 

[Jason5000]

So you also have no solution?

i wish i did Lol but sadly no

 

[Jason5000]

So you also have no solution?

imma try drugging myself with pregab and talking to people in the hopes that i might enjoy it but idk otherwise what i would do

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

imma try drugging myself with pregab and talking to people in the hopes that i might enjoy it but idk otherwise what i would do

We both know that thats not sustainable and at the end pointless

 

[Jason5000]

We both know that thats not sustainable and at the end pointless

Ideally i would use it so i can start talking to people and then once i have enough positive interactions slowly wean myself off and continue having the good effects without needing the drug.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Ideally i would use it so i can start talking to people and then once i have enough positive interactions slowly wean myself off and continue having the good effects without needing the drug.

cope

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

 

[Nodal]

you can just go out when you feel like it and do sum with ppl irl and when you get tired
you will not feel lonely

basically talk to when you feel like it to make your self want to be alone
you cant live all alone u will go crazy so just try to interect once you feel like your lonely

if your soooo desprate talk to gpt but it prolly wont help much
i cant help you with this but you need to interact with ppl imo

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

you can just go out when you feel like it and do sum with ppl irl and when you get tired
you will not feel lonely

basically talk to when you feel like it to make your self want to be alone
you cant live all alone u will go crazy so just try to interect once you feel like your lonely

if your soooo desprate talk to gpt but it prolly wont help much
i cant help you with this but you need to interact with ppl imo

i dont have friends? okay i have a friend okay

 

[Nodal]

i dont have friends? okay i have a friend okay

no irl friends???
like non??
you can try and have a pet or some sort of animal a dog would be best
get emotional support dog if you can ig but animal would help but still your gonna feel lonely at times
you need to find friends

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

no irl friends???
like non??
you can try and have a pet or some sort of animal a dog would be best
get emotional support dog if you can ig but animal would help but still your gonna feel lonely at times
you need to find friends

I despise any sort of living creature with all of my heart

Like I have ppl I talk to bro. I have one friend but he soon will move away, i knew him for 3 months. I have another guy i talk to but he never wants to meet up, besides that i dont have anyone i share interests with

 

[abr0812]

I dont enjoy hanging out with people. I just dont. I like being alone but sometimes it gets too lonely.
Here is what I have already tried and how it went:
1. Online friends = I got attached, got panic attacks when the person didnt respond, heavily unproductive, was only texting and doing nothing
2. Tulpamancy (creating imaginary friends) = I created one, after some time external autonomous voices came and now they are scaring me and raping my life -I regret this so much.
3. Meeting someone IRL = Stressful, boring, nervous, I just didnt enjoy it at all -made the desire to be alone again come back though but on the long run i dont enjoy meeting ppl every time just cuz i feel lonely
4. Finding a hobby = Yes I did that, I was obsessed, but at the end of the day it was sad, lonely, and not that enjoyable

All those methods didnt really work. I dont know what else to do. I like being alone, but not lonely.

@yyk117 @satangoy @Jason5000 @Nodal @the exile v2

1 and 4 is very relatable, maybe go out on vacation and make some memories or get a ltb gf to cope

 

[Nodal]

I despise any sort of living creature with all of my heart

Like I have ppl I talk to bro. I have one friend but he soon will move away, i knew him for 3 months. I have another guy i talk to but he never wants to meet up, besides that i dont have anyone i share interests with

i feel so sad for you
you always in middle of shit situations man

okay at least tell me what brings you joy in life so i can try to help

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

1 and 4 is very relatable, maybe go out on vacation and make some memories or get a ltb gf to cope

ahhhhhh shit bro you dont know how bad i get attached to girls, i hate having a crush because i turn into her fucking slave, i dont like girls anymore

 

[abr0812]

ahhhhhh shit bro you dont know how bad i get attached to girls, i hate having a crush because i turn into her fucking slave, i dont like girls anymore

like do you want her to be your slave ahh

 

[abr0812]

maybe develop a parasocial relationship with a stacy online

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i feel so sad for you
you always in middle of shit situations man

okay at least tell me what brings you joy in life so i can try to help

uff joy?? Probably prayer sometimes. Listening to music (but if i listen to much then I LDAR so i dont listen to it), sometimes calculating a hard math problem or i dont. I like watching surgeries but i havent done it recently.

i dont know the above is just cope. Obviously i have times of happiness but i dont have any certain activities that i enjoy. this was since i was 3 years old. thats how i got adhd diagnosed, i could never play with stuff, i just sat there.

to be more specific im not even really sad, im just clueless and empty its just to 70% boring every day

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

like do you want her to be your slave ahh

not really i just want to be able to be together with her but without every ten seconds worrying about a fucking foid

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

maybe develop a parasocial relationship with a stacy online

thats the worst, i had a 14h screen time nigga daily

 

[Nodal]

uff joy?? Probably prayer sometimes. Listening to music (but if i listen to much then I LDAR so i dont listen to it), sometimes calculating a hard math problem or i dont. I like watching surgeries but i havent done it recently.

i dont know the above is just cope. Obviously i have times of happiness but i dont have any certain activities that i enjoy. this was since i was 3 years old. thats how i got adhd diagnosed, i could never play with stuff, i just sat there.

to be more specific im not even really sad, im just clueless and empty its just to 70% boring every day

even after taking your pills you dont become stable?

 

[abr0812]

thats the worst, i had a 14h screen time nigga daily

looks like most of your options are exhausted, you could go to the gym and make sum friends or join a school club for that

btw how tf did u get so popular on .org in just 6 months nigga i gotta lock tf in

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

even after taking your pills you dont become stable?

currently im taking 30 mg of vyvanse

bro btw i havent talked at all to my voices today. yesterday i prayed for them to be executed

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

looks like most of your options are exhausted, you could go to the gym and make sum friends or join a school club for that

as i said i dont enjoy talking to ppl, not really. Do you really think that friends would solve it? it might do more damage imo?

I got my autism diagnosis for wanting to be alone etc. but maybe at the core of my heart i still need social interaction??

btw how tf did u get so popular on .org in just 6 months nigga i gotta lock tf in

?I dont follow ppl?

 

[Nodal]

currently im taking 30 mg of vyvanse

bro btw i havent talked at all to my voices today. yesterday i prayed for them to be executed

super happy for you buddy glad your getting better
may god help you broski
i soon will to i have little knowledge rn let me finish my exams and i will help you
glad your doing well i am genuinely happy

 

[abr0812]

as i said i dont enjoy talking to ppl, not really. Do you really think that friends would solve it? it might do more damage imo?

I got my autism diagnosis for wanting to be alone etc. but maybe at the core of my heart i still need social interaction??



?I dont follow ppl?

yeah ig your just overthinking it, you could also just spend some time with your family and cousins (siblings too if you have any)

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

yeah ig your just overthinking it, you could also just spend some time with your family and cousins (siblings too if you have any)

i barely see them only my parents

i think everytime imma feel lonely imma pray to God and ask if he can make my loneliness go away so that i dont age faster due to the stress

 

[abr0812]

i barely see them only my parents

i think everytime imma feel lonely imma pray to God and ask if he can make my loneliness go away so that i dont age faster due to the stress

shit man its really fucking sad i also had a period like this in my life

 

[abr0812]

i barely see them only my parents

i think everytime imma feel lonely imma pray to God and ask if he can make my loneliness go away so that i dont age faster due to the stress

bru how did u like post so much on .org in such a short period of time like ur at 10k posts did u just rot all day

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

bru how did u like post so much on .org in such a short period of time like ur at 10k posts did u just rot all day

during school class and because my voices fucked my life

 

[abr0812]

during school class and because my voices fucked my life

you got ur phone during school hrs, thats amazing
school life for me is just fucking sadfuel man everyday going, its so fucked im going to be NEETLORD for life. like fucking talking with em is also so weird i just cant do it mane

coping with .org during school hours is High T behaviour

 

[1966Ford]

Ascension

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Ascension

wdym? focusing on ascending will make me not feel lonely?

 

[67 psl]

Idk gng we can kill ourselves togheter

 

[1966Ford]

wdym? focusing on ascending will make me not feel lonely?

Yes.. You gain people

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Yes.. You gain people

wdym??? be more exact

 

[satangoy]

loneliness is less painful for me compared to when i have people around

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

loneliness is less painful for me compared to when i have people around

ages you faster....

 

[Zeylet]

ages you faster....

cant help you besides tell you to force yourself, even if u dont enjoy it at the end of the youll regret not doing it tho

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

cant help you besides tell you to force yourself, even if u dont enjoy it at the end of the youll regret not doing it tho

so ur saying i should just meet ppl?

 

[1966Ford]

wdym??? be more exact

If you gain more people when you ascend, you get less lonely

 

[Zeylet]

so ur saying i should just meet ppl?

yes and if u think youll get social anxieites then js hop on something that smoothen ur brain for a while like alcohol but not too much

but I DONT RECOMMEND ALCOHOL AT ALL

what i found out about myself is when i get no sleep and js exhaust my body i feel like an energetic person who doesnt gaf about the world or how people perceive me

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

If you gain more people when you ascend, you get less lonely

but the problem is i dont like ppl

 

[kaistillover]

I dont enjoy hanging out with people. I just dont. I like being alone but sometimes it gets too lonely.
Here is what I have already tried and how it went:
1. Online friends = I got attached, got panic attacks when the person didnt respond, heavily unproductive, was only texting and doing nothing
2. Tulpamancy (creating imaginary friends) = I created one, after some time external autonomous voices came and now they are scaring me and raping my life -I regret this so much.
3. Meeting someone IRL = Stressful, boring, nervous, I just didnt enjoy it at all -made the desire to be alone again come back though but on the long run i dont enjoy meeting ppl every time just cuz i feel lonely
4. Finding a hobby = Yes I did that, I was obsessed, but at the end of the day it was sad, lonely, and not that enjoyable

All those methods didnt really work. I dont know what else to do. I like being alone, but not lonely.

@yyk117 @satangoy @Jason5000 @Nodal @the exile v2

death

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

yes and if u think youll get social anxieites then js hop on something that smoothen ur brain for a while like alcohol but not too much

but I DONT RECOMMEND ALCOHOL AT ALL

what i found out about myself is when i get no sleep and js exhaust my body i feel like an energetic person who doesnt gaf about the world or how people perceive me

but i dont like ppl thats the thing, i think its smth else and not loneliness???