How to DM girls on insta?

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What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I am mostly successful, however I always cringe myself out and think this girl is screenshotting our chats and showing it to everyone. It's worse if she is a "known" or "popular" girl. I have never been screenshotted or been the subject of gossip, but the anxiety is still there.

I much prefer speaking to girls in person, but it's nice to just send a message every now and then and get an easy slay from it.

What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I already have a good profile and have been successful in the past by getting slays from insta.

What are your opening liners? What are your tips? How do you guys do it?
 
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Start by saying “ your little pussy belongs to me now”
 
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Just don't really think about it. Don't try to hard. Swipe up on a story if she looks good and try to start a conversation with something like "what's up" or an emoji. If she's interested she'll reply and if not then don't try to force anything. You can't force attraction. Also, make sure to match her energy and have her talking about herself.
 
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What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I am mostly successful, however I always cringe myself out and think this girl is screenshotting our chats and showing it to everyone. It's worse if she is a "known" or "popular" girl. I have never been screenshotted or been the subject of gossip, but the anxiety is still there.

I much prefer speaking to girls in person, but it's nice to just send a message every now and then and get an easy slay from it.

What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I already have a good profile and have been successful in the past by getting slays from insta.

What are your opening liners? What are your tips? How do you guys do it?
Just don;t :feelskek:
 
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What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I am mostly successful, however I always cringe myself out and think this girl is screenshotting our chats and showing it to everyone. It's worse if she is a "known" or "popular" girl. I have never been screenshotted or been the subject of gossip, but the anxiety is still there.

I much prefer speaking to girls in person, but it's nice to just send a message every now and then and get an easy slay from it.

What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I already have a good profile and have been successful in the past by getting slays from insta.

What are your opening liners? What are your tips? How do you guys do it?
"i just jerked off to you, will you let me eyp?"
 
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Just don't really think about it. Don't try to hard. Swipe up on a story if she looks good and try to start a conversation with something like "what's up" or an emoji. If she's interested she'll reply and if not then don't try to force anything. You can't force attraction. Also, make sure to match her energy and have her talking about herself.
You're right thx broski
 
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Ur already at a disadvantage if ur dming lol. My dms are all girls reaching out first 90% of time . Or if I dm first cuz she liked my story
 
What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I am mostly successful, however I always cringe myself out and think this girl is screenshotting our chats and showing it to everyone. It's worse if she is a "known" or "popular" girl. I have never been screenshotted or been the subject of gossip, but the anxiety is still there.

I much prefer speaking to girls in person, but it's nice to just send a message every now and then and get an easy slay from it.

What are your experiences with DMing girls on insta? I already have a good profile and have been successful in the past by getting slays from insta.

What are your opening liners? What are your tips? How do you guys do it?
Write "hey" if she is into you she is into you stop overthinking
Most womenare insecure about themselves so unless she is very very popular she would give you a chance
 
Ur already at a disadvantage if ur dming lol. My dms are all girls reaching out first 90% of time . Or if I dm first cuz she liked my story
Tru, but idc. If I shoot out 100 heys at least 10 of them will respond, probs more. Even if 1 so be it. I don't understand why DMing girls is more anxiety inducing to me than walking up to them. In person they are all real and shy and shit on insta they have this dumb ass facade on.
 
Tru, but idc. If I shoot out 100 heys at least 10 of them will respond, probs more. Even if 1 so be it. I don't understand why DMing girls is more anxiety inducing to me than walking up to them. In person they are all real and shy and shit on insta they have this dumb ass facade on.
Girls are hip these days they know guys screenshot and share convos , plus their attention span is shortened. They watch reels got dms from their girls and other guys going on
 
Just cope and say like saw you yesterday in the town. And she will be like sure it was me? And there is a conversation just there.
 
Just cope and say like saw you yesterday in the town. And she will be like sure it was me? And there is a conversation just there.
That's crazy I might as well say Hey baby I am in your closet come see me!
 

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