how to escalate w girl

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so she likes me:

we were out yesterday and she was touchy asf. how do i escalate?
 
Not even gonna read the thread but how does this kind of stuff not just come naturally when you’re in the moment. like are you a diagnosed autist with looks or something
 
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Not even gonna read the thread but how does this kind of stuff not just come naturally when you’re in the moment. like are you a diagnosed autist with looks or something
well growing up i was like sub 5 so all this attention and shit came later on so never got to experience it. i’m not autist, im extremely nt, and low inhib in everything apart from females
 
well growing up i was like sub 5 so all this attention and shit came later on so never got to experience it. i’m not autist, im extremely nt, and low inhib in everything apart from females
I don’t know bro can’t you just like transfer your saved nt and low inhib progress from being a subhuman to your new current self with the ladies
 
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well growing up i was like sub 5 so all this attention and shit came later on so never got to experience it. i’m not autist, im extremely nt, and low inhib in everything apart from females
Just delude yourself into thinking you're an absolute chad, the girl is dying for you and would only give positive responses to anything you're trying to initiate.

If she likes you that will in reality be the case and you should be able to escalate with the least amount of effort, be bold
 
If you two were getting touchy already you have the green light. Tell her you wanna meet up and you guys can maybe get some coffee. No fucking clue how old you are but if you're young don't ask her to go for a coffee jfl. Anyway point is you guys meet up to do something (preferably near to your house or hers so you have an exit strategy if the kissing turns into a makeout sesh/she wants to fuck) and then go find somewhere nice to sit after you do w/e you guys were planning on. Sit really close to her and talk to her. Make her laugh for a bit and be kinda witty or w/e and then just look at her body language and facial expressions. After a while if you think she's giving you receptive body language, she isn't moving away from you, and she's not giving you and indicators of disinterest, you have two options from there:

Option 1) Girls pick up on body language very well. You can put your face closer to hers and talk a little slower and quieter. I do a trick where I look at their lips and almost act as if I'm distracted before I quickly pull my eyes up and look her in the eye when I talk. I'll repeat this a few times and usually they kinda get the hint and if your face is close enough, she'll go in closer for a kiss. At this point, you can just go in for the kiss (but don't just lunge for it lol do it slow)

Option 2) You literally just sit really close to her and make a move. I'll just put my hand on her cheek and kinda tilt her head towards mine and I'll go in 90% of the way and let her move the final half inch or w/e so it's not like she's just being grabbed out of nowhere and forced to kiss.

JFL I feel like Will Smith from that movie Hitch saying this shit. I think he even gave some advice like this in the movie.

Anyway, that should be all you need. Just make sure you take her somewhere nice that's not overflowing with people. Sit close to her and be funny and have good body language and she should be reciprocating with similar open body language. If you're very NT as you say, you shouldn't have an issue determining if she wants to kiss you. It sounds like she does based on what you've said about hanging out with her but then again, you might not be as NT as you think. Again, have an exit strategy. Don't get bummed if she doesn't wanna kiss you either. Nothing will ever ruin the chances of a slay if you act butthurt about anything. Smile it off if she snubs you. If you kiss her and it escalates to a makeout sesh that's basically when you know a slay is possible there (and if you took my advice, you met her near to your house)

Maybe more detail than you wanted but there you go.
 
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