how to fix being terrible at cold approaching? Being ND is brutal

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I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to cold approach girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
 
I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to go up to girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
if ur clubbing its worth drinking
 
if ur clubbing its worth drinking
to me drinking as an idea sucks. spending money to poison yourself and get a nights enjoyment is not worth it. also the fact that if I drink i get really tired and just wanna go home and sleep, worsening my inhib
 
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I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to cold approach girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
delete your account nigga wtf is this "being nd is brutal" "im 6'2 and a signed model" this is not character ai nigga you cant create your persona:lul:
 
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U wont see them ever again so dont be scared
 
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delete your account nigga wtf is this "being nd is brutal" "im 6'2 and a signed model" this is not character ai nigga you cant create your persona:lul:
its the truth, i wanted to make sure that it was clear im not bad looking so people didnt come on here and start saying its because im sub 5 etc.
 
to me drinking as an idea sucks. spending money to poison yourself and get a nights enjoyment is not worth it. also the fact that if I drink i get really tired and just wanna go home and sleep, worsening my inhib
Drink before the bar then get at least one drink at the bar and you should be chilling, you don’t waste sm money, then when you meet somone you can buy her a drink too
 
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Drink before the bar then get at least one drink at the bar and you should be chilling, you don’t waste sm money, then when you meet somone you can buy her a drink too
its just going up to girls that i procrastinate way too much. i am not really a super social person so this is one of my struggles
 
U wont see them ever again so dont be scared
i know and i think that i just struggle with thinking about shit like what will I talk to them about. sounds stupid but genuinely makes me super high inhib
 
its just going up to girls that i procrastinate way too much. i am not really a super social person so this is one of my struggles
Get a few drinks in your system that usually works for me, just say what’s up “you look good what’s ur name”? Sometimes I get approached too and go from there
 
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i know and i think that i just struggle with thinking about shit like what will I talk to them about. sounds stupid but genuinely makes me super high inhib
It dosent matter what u talk about do u really think any of these foids at a club will be high iq?
 
It dosent matter what u talk about do u really think any of these foids at a club will be high iq?
i understand what ur saying, i was thinking of using pregab. if you have any knowledge on the topic would u recommend?
 
I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to cold approach girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
pregab + nebivolol
 
I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to cold approach girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
Bahhaha why do they make you high inhib
 
I am 17 and reaching that peak age for clubbing and meeting new girls and shit like that. I have posted myself on here before and lets just say objectively I am far from ugly, not to mention I am also 6,2 and a signed model. Meeting girls online (only really snapchat as of now) then going irl I have no problems with girls and have been in multiple relationships and even slayed. But i struggle to gain confidence to cold approach girls at bars or clubs. Is there anything I can do? I don't really drink or abuse recreationals as they make me high inhib.
Also you’re either afraid of entitling your own face as your own, or you’re just a dumb larp in regard to the phrase “I’m 6’2 and a signed model” and neither of the guys you posted like 10+ threads about look above average :lul:
 
Also you’re either afraid of entitling your own face as your own, or you’re just a dumb larp in regard to the phrase “I’m 6’2 and a signed model” and neither of the guys you posted like 10+ threads about look above average :lul:
the only ones that are me are pretty obviously as it says "rate 6,2 17m" or something like that. All the rest are my mates trynna get rated and yes i know they are average. im not larping the contract is literally still in my emails
 
the only ones that are me are pretty obviously as it says "rate 6,2 17m" or something like that. All the rest are my mates trynna get rated and yes i know they are average. im not larping the contract is literally still in my emails
Well your contract being in your emails is just another blunt claim. I honestly don’t care but mate nobody is believing you 😭
 
Well your contract being in your emails is just another blunt claim. I honestly don’t care but mate nobody is believing you 😭
honestly could care less if you believe me pal. how is my contract being in my emails a blunt claim. im hardly going to send you my contract with all my personal details JFL
 
honestly could care less if you believe me pal. how is my contract being in my emails a blunt claim. im hardly going to send you my contract with all my personal details JFL
It’s always JFL until you think about how vain and pathetic your life is, that you’re rotting on this forum, larping height, seeking validation and lying about other things. The dumb ways of you coping with stuff like “personal information” that you can actually just blur out, shows, that you’re miserable and lying. I don’t even care about that, nor anything that you are doing. But it’s funny how your personality is so plain
 
It’s always JFL until you think about how vain and pathetic your life is, that you’re rotting on this forum, larping height, seeking validation and lying about other things. The dumb ways of you coping with stuff like “personal information” that you can actually just blur out, shows, that you’re miserable and lying. I don’t even care about that, nor anything that you are doing. But it’s funny how your personality is so plain
i think you are coping by trying to suggest that i am not what i say i am. im not larping, i have no reason to i just want to be clear. stop crying and leave this forum. if you cant accept there is always bigger fish in the sea then I dont think this world is right for you. for me I can accept that i am fortunate to be in my position but there are way better looking models, better slayers, taller people etc. stop coping and do something about it bhai
 

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