How to gain confidence in yourself

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So after being bullied and made fun of for years even by my parents who called me a beaver and made fun of me when i had horrible anxiety things got better and i now pull girls and became pretty popular but even tho the looks changed the confidence didnt today my friend say her hg called me cute and to talk to her i kid you not i just couldnt i deadass cant be confident and speak to her in everything im not confident i dont fucking know what to do it anger me so much when i see a ugly ass fucking dude having confidence like bitch if i looked like that i would have blowed my shit straight off. my life is really good but internally i cant feel happy any solutions guys?
 
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So after being bullied and made fun of for years even by my parents who called me a beaver and made fun of me when i had horrible anxiety things got better and i now pull girls and became pretty popular but even tho the looks changed the confidence didnt today my friend say her hg called me cute and to talk to her i kid you not i just couldnt i deadass cant be confident and speak to her in everything im not confident i dont fucking know what to do it anger me so much when i see a ugly ass fucking dude having confidence like bitch if i looked like that i would have blowed my shit straight off. my life is really good but internally i cant feel happy any solutions guys?
Just find some easy ash foid and start slaying the f outta them and just see them all as free game if you work hard enough
 
So after being bullied and made fun of for years even by my parents who called me a beaver and made fun of me when i had horrible anxiety things got better and i now pull girls and became pretty popular but even tho the looks changed the confidence didnt today my friend say her hg called me cute and to talk to her i kid you not i just couldnt i deadass cant be confident and speak to her in everything im not confident i dont fucking know what to do it anger me so much when i see a ugly ass fucking dude having confidence like bitch if i looked like that i would have blowed my shit straight off. my life is really good but internally i cant feel happy any solutions guys?
confidence = trust in a belief.

"I'm confident" in a dating context is literally just a prediction ab what will happen when u approach.

The only way to gain confidence is to either change the chances of success when approaching (improving looks, money, status), or deceiving urself abt what will happen which requires high iq
 
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Just find some easy ash foid and start slaying the f outta them and just see them all as free game if you work hard enough
I reallt dont want to be seen as a hoe dude but yeah i might try that thx
 
So after being bullied and made fun of for years even by my parents who called me a beaver and made fun of me when i had horrible anxiety things got better and i now pull girls and became pretty popular but even tho the looks changed the confidence didnt today my friend say her hg called me cute and to talk to her i kid you not i just couldnt i deadass cant be confident and speak to her in everything im not confident i dont fucking know what to do it anger me so much when i see a ugly ass fucking dude having confidence like bitch if i looked like that i would have blowed my shit straight off. my life is really good but internally i cant feel happy any solutions guys?
120 mg of tren
 
confidence = trust in a belief.

"I'm confident" in a dating context is literally just a prediction ab what will happen when u approach.

The only way to gain confidence is to either change the chances of success when approaching (improving looks, money, status), or deceiving urself abt what will happen which requires high iq
the second part makes no sense high iq is legit a nerf if you have low confidence dude you see many different prespectives which in my case is a bad thing so you lose confidence and for the first part i already have high smv for my age im doing full scale real estate at 15 and pretty good looking its the internal part not the external part in this case
 
the second part makes no sense high iq is legit a nerf if you have low confidence dude you see many different prespectives which in my case is a bad thing so you lose confidence and for the first part i already have high smv for my age im doing full scale real estate at 15 and pretty good looking its the internal part not the external part in this case
people with higher iqs (like ME) r better at rationalization & self deception. Maximizes goal success so it sticks around as a strategy
 
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you gotta be good at something that trigger your insecurities
 
people with higher iqs (like ME) r better at rationalization & self deception. Maximizes goal success so it sticks around as a strategy
yeah i have a high iq too but in my case i just see so many cases too quick and the bad cases are what sticks to my brain.
 
if u get really good at the exact thing that triggers your insecurities, you’re basically proving your anxiety wrong
see thats the thing bro at the things im best at is what im most insecure like im really smart but sometimes i feel like i have more to prove to my parents and i feel like a dissapointment even tho im at the top of the charts for success and smartness.
 
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see thats the thing bro at the things im best at is what im most insecure like im really smart but sometimes i feel like i have more to prove to my parents and i feel like a dissapointment even tho im at the top of the charts for success and smartness.
ill talk like a dumbaa but you need to stop that slave mentality, do things for yourself and dgaf ab other ppl opinion
 
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im miles smarter than u and most likely have higher accomplishments than you i just happen to have the confidence of a fucking disabled autist but its ok cuz once we start taking adderal and cocaine things will turn for the better
 
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im miles smarter than u and most likely have higher accomplishments than you i just happen to have the confidence of a fucking disabled autist but its ok cuz once we start taking adderal and cocaine things will turn for the better
talking to a cold hhtn with phd in neuroscience btw :forcedsmile:
 
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so debate about if billionares are evil by default i wann see this convo if your so smart .
anyone with too much power becomes "evil" bc people are fundamentally self interested and only cooperate bc of reciprocation and incentives from empathy (mirror neurons). #iqmaxx
 
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talking to a cold hhtn with phd in neuroscience btw :forcedsmile:
yeah and your talking to a mmtn 15 year old with about 1.3 million in assets across properties , llc , and investments and about 20,000 in his checkings
 
If you naturally unconfident you can’t force yourself to be confident because if you’ve been exposed to abuse or bullying then your biochemistry has changed, which causes you to literally change your personality

most people you see who are confident aren’t actually confident because in order to be confident you still need to have your adolescence soul in tact
 
yeah and your talking to a mmtn 15 year old with about 1.3 million in assets across properties , llc , and investments and about 20,000 in his checkings
my dad is king of Dubai with total net worth of 6 million, I don't even have to work but keep slaving JFL
 
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my dad is king of Dubai with total net worth of 6 million, I don't even have to work but keep slaving JFL
horrible fucking lying if he truly was a king of dubai then it would be far more than 6m thats the avarage american inbred net worth also i dont work a job ppl work for me gng you think i would ever be dumb enough to be someones fagot little employe
 
horrible fucking lying if he truly was a king of dubai then it would be far more than 6m thats the avarage american inbred net worth also i dont work a job ppl work for me gng you think i would ever be dumb enough to be someones fagot little employe
he is a king in my eyes
 
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If you naturally unconfident you can’t force yourself to be confident because if you’ve been exposed to abuse or bullying then your biochemistry has changed, which causes you to literally change your personality

most people you see who are confident aren’t actually confident because in order to be confident you still need to have your adolescence soul in tact
first part makes sense but second part i dont really know that could be the case for some ppl but theres examples like this subhuman in this class who post himselfs every day and has never been bullied in his life like fuck this nigga i am geniunley disgusted by him.
 
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he is a king in my eyes
lucky you my dad called me a fucking beaver when i had a overbite beat me constantly and bulllied me for my insecurities even has humilaited me infront of whole crowds of people .
 
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lucky you my dad called me a fucking beaver when i had a overbite beat me constantly and bulllied me for my insecurities even has humilaited me infront of whole crowds of people .
deserved.
 
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deserved.
yeah a innocent kid who just wanted to feel loved he definetley deserved it he should honestly kill himself and shoot himself in the head and maybe the innocent kid will finnaly not feel like shit all the time just maybe but yeah what a fucking dumbass ugly son of a bitch whos a fucking nobody degenerate who should splatter his brain across the wall deserves it
 
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yeah a innocent kid who just wanted to feel loved he definetley deserved it he should honestly kill himself and shoot himself in the head and maybe the innocent kid will finnaly not feel like shit all the time just maybe but yeah what a fucking dumbass ugly son of a bitch whos a fucking nobody degenerate who should splatter his brain across the wall deserves it
crash out king
 
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