How to get a girlfriend with AuDHD

[atomstetic]

I started talking to this girl, but I genuinely don't know what to say because I don't have any interest in her life.

She had a boyfriend, but she became a lot more talkative after finding out I'm 6'5, she's still kinda meh in terms of enthusiasm when we're talking. Anyway, I'm still ND and don't care. I often miss social cues, frequently fail to detect sarcasm, and relationships seem to me as a waste of time and money.

How do I start conversations with her and so on? I ordered pregabalin and propranolol to lower my inhib, since drinking sucks.

I can't really send her snaps of myself because I'm not photogenic at all and look retarded in photos. I'm LMTN, but my skin is in shambles from crushed E2 and erda (I'll be stopping erda soon I fucking hate it).

We haven't hung out yet but my JBG homie knows her so we'll probably hang out with him.

 

[atomstetic]

Bumpity bump

 

[atomstetic]

I need help

 

[Rendezvous]

Just start talking about your day

 

[Thatsall101]

I started talking to this girl, but I genuinely don't know what to say because I don't have any interest in her life.

She had a boyfriend, but she became a lot more talkative after finding out I'm 6'5, she's still kinda meh in terms of enthusiasm when we're talking. Anyway, I'm still ND and don't care. I often miss social cues, frequently fail to detect sarcasm, and relationships seem to me as a waste of time and money.

How do I start conversations with her and so on? I ordered pregabalin and propranolol to lower my inhib, since drinking sucks.

I can't really send her snaps of myself because I'm not photogenic at all and look retarded in photos. I'm LMTN, but my skin is in shambles from crushed E2 and erda (I'll be stopping erda soon I fucking hate it).

We haven't hung out yet but my JBG homie knows her so we'll probably hang out with him.

if you ever find a solution lmk

 

[atomstetic]

Just start talking about your day

I just sit around and do random shit, no girl cares about that

 

[atomstetic]

if you ever find a solution lmk

It might be over for us especially because of the ADHD. Social media is definitely a huge part of the problem as we're more susceptible to become addicted to it hence we become bums and LDAR

 

[kjhcfad]

I just sit around and do random shit, no girl cares about that

Then start actually doing shit dude. Not even just to get attention from this girl, but it just makes you a more interesting person. Go outside and do more, like start playing a sport or something.

 

[Golf222]

I started talking to this girl, but I genuinely don't know what to say because I don't have any interest in her life.

She had a boyfriend, but she became a lot more talkative after finding out I'm 6'5, she's still kinda meh in terms of enthusiasm when we're talking. Anyway, I'm still ND and don't care. I often miss social cues, frequently fail to detect sarcasm, and relationships seem to me as a waste of time and money.

How do I start conversations with her and so on? I ordered pregabalin and propranolol to lower my inhib, since drinking sucks.

I can't really send her snaps of myself because I'm not photogenic at all and look retarded in photos. I'm LMTN, but my skin is in shambles from crushed E2 and erda (I'll be stopping erda soon I fucking hate it).

We haven't hung out yet but my JBG homie knows her so we'll probably hang out with him.

you should ask about her interests

 

[atomstetic]

Then start actually doing shit dude. Not even just to get attention from this girl, but it just makes you a more interesting person. Go outside and do more, like start playing a sport or something.

I go to the gym and, more often than not, I frolic around in nature. However, women like a man who is high in the social hierarchy, which I am not, as I don't necessarily like to connect and engage with other humans. I like being alone.

That may seem hypocritical of me, given that I'm pursuing engagement with this girl. However, I've spent my whole life searching for someone who understands me but I've never found them, not even in my friends and family. I am essentially chasing a connection that may not exist. Maybe aversion to human connection stems from my neurodivergence. The abscense of people which genuinely understand me left me not enjoying time with others.

 

[muhajudin21]

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