How to get friends?

Zakamg said:

Download book from the first link it helped me hope it helps u
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That book is cope imo, I’ve read it and it’s generic obvious advice, everyone knows that listening to people, smiling and that sorts of bluepilled advice work for the average person, but if you’re a fucking subhuman with shitty status/reputation there’s no way that it works. It’s also filled with repetitive advice that was like already mentioned before. Reading it felt like a chore to me at least.
If you want actual redpill advice (only works if you’re +~3 PSL), then read Robert Greene (don’t @ me) who is actually at least decent.
 
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fvolkek said:
That book is cope imo, I’ve read it and it’s generic obvious advice, everyone knows that listening to people, smiling and that sorts of bluepilled advice work for the average person, but if you’re a fucking subhuman with shitty status/reputation there’s no way that it works. It’s also filled with repetitive advice that was like already mentioned before. Reading it felt like a chore to me at least.
If you want actual redpill advice (only works if you’re +~3 PSL), then read Robert Greene (don’t @ me) who is actually at least decent.
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i was about to say the same.

I Read that book along with countless of others.

It taught me to show interest in people, and remember their name's or birthdays, but I got nothing in return. just one worded answers and zero people asked questions in return.

You have to have childhood or school/college friends. the rest is nonsense and cope.
people are closed off after a certain age or when they have enough people in their circle.

what could work however is joining a group that fights for something, a common cause.
 
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eduardkoopman said:
don't low down on men, for their lack of sexual success or up because they have alot of dating success.
some of the greatest dudes, are incels.
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yeah newton & tesla changed society but didnt have great success in that aspect
 
ReignsChad said:
uglies can’t make friends. If you’re gl - which you must be since you’re 6’7 - you should have no problem. The bluepilled, “just smile and say hello” should work for u tbh
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if you are trucel then maybe not. but LTNs and up can, its just not as easy as it is for chads
 
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LooksOverAll said:
I have 0 friends. Everyone in my college class is an incel cuck. I get respect at the gym from every guy due to my size (6'7" 220/100kg). Problem is, I don't have any friends outside of small talk at the gym. What do I do?
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why do you want friends in the first place? it seems like you have the ability to get some friends in college (those incel cucks you are talking about) but you chose to not associate with them.

1-) Are you lonely and are in need of attention from real people?
2-) Do you need validation in real life? (you were talking about getting "respect" in the gym)
3-) You want to share your experiences with like minded people?

You need to know what you want in the first place, otherwise you won't even be able to help yourself. What i believe is that you are looking for a combination of those 3 things, but you want to associate with people that behave like in this forum and if you want that, then i'm sorry to tell you that you are probably going to fail, the population of this forum is extremely small in comparison to the real world and not many people think like you do, what i would advice you is to lower your standards and try associating for a while with those "incel cuck people" and maybe you will find some good friends from that bunch.
 
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volcel3 said:
why do you want friends in the first place? it seems like you have the ability to get some friends in college (those incel cucks you are talking about) but you chose to not associate with them.

1-) Are you lonely and are in need of attention from real people?
2-) Do you need validation in real life? (you were talking about getting "respect" in the gym)
3-) You want to share your experiences with like minded people?

You need to know what you want in the first place, otherwise you won't even be able to help yourself. What i believe is that you are looking for a combination of those 3 things, but you want to associate with people that behave like in this forum and if you want that, then i'm sorry to tell you that you are probably going to fail, the population of this forum is extremely small in comparison to the real world and not many people think like you do, what i would advice you is to lower your standards and try associating for a while with those "incel cuck people" and maybe you will find some good friends from that bunch.
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Invited to parties --> get pussy.
 
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LooksOverAll said:
Invited to parties --> get pussy.
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You mentioned you are Russian, i don't know how groups that revolve around parties are in Russia but i will assume they are equivalent to the western ones, in that case, what you need is to live in some city, the more populated, the best, then get some status, be it money, online presence or social influence, i can't give you advice on how to get money in Russia, if you want social presence, just look at any normie "online influencer" that you like and make some content to build your "fanbase", you mentionen you are tall (6'7 feet) and go to the gym so, maybe make bodybuilding content online? if you manage to become semi relevant people will come to you and you won't have to go to them. For social influence maybe you can try joining some sports team you are GOOD (necessary) and you will make social connections there, you are tall and i believe you are also somewhat fit, have you tried basketball?
 
volcel3 said:
You mentioned you are Russian, i don't know how groups that revolve around parties are in Russia but i will assume they are equivalent to the western ones, in that case, what you need is to live in some city, the more populated, the best, then get some status, be it money, online presence or social influence, i can't give you advice on how to get money in Russia, if you want social presence, just look at any normie "online influencer" that you like and make some content to build your "fanbase", you mentionen you are tall (6'7 feet) and go to the gym so, maybe make bodybuilding content online? if you manage to become semi relevant people will come to you and you won't have to go to them. For social influence maybe you can try joining some sports team you are GOOD (necessary) and you will make social connections there, you are tall and i believe you are also somewhat fit, have you tried basketball?
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I live in the US. The guys I'm friends with in basketball are only acquaintances a the gym. Not friends.
 
Getting friends in some ways is even harder than getting a gf. At least there are methods for achieving a GF directly (dating apps/sites), and that looks play more of a factor. Getting friends is almost impossible if you have none.

I’ve had the same friends since I was 10 years old - we’ve now know each other for more than 15 years. We legit have very little in common, we’ve just been friends forever. That’s it. Commonality between friends is meme-tier analysis.

The only way to make friends past middle school in my observation is through a 3rd party catalyst - that is - an existing friend, or an authority figure. You make friends through people, not yourself. Being good looking does help (especially tall), but in the end it’s fairly moot. Lookism is a factor in everything in life, but thankfully here it’s not as prevalent. If you’ve legit got nobody, you’re kinda effed. Maybe parents can help, but that does look pathetic.

As a bit of an anecdote, The only friend I’ve made past the age of 14 was at church. I didn’t even do anything. The pastor told me to go talk to some guy because we both like death metal so I did and we’re still friends. Just another example of needing a 3rd party catalyst. Wish I could talk to him more but he lives a state over now.
 
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fvolkek said:
That book is cope imo, I’ve read it and it’s generic obvious advice, everyone knows that listening to people, smiling and that sorts of bluepilled advice work for the average person, but if you’re a fucking subhuman with shitty status/reputation there’s no way that it works. It’s also filled with repetitive advice that was like already mentioned before. Reading it felt like a chore to me at least.
If you want actual redpill advice (only works if you’re +~3 PSL), then read Robert Greene (don’t @ me) who is actually at least decent.
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what book of Robert Greene do you recommend? can you give a link?
 
(1) Be at least decent-looking
(2) Standard conventionally ‘masculine’ behaviour: no emotional reactivity, be extraverted, stand up for yourself calmly, fight banter with banter
(3) ‘Collaborative’ rather than ‘strategic’ frame (i.e. don’t mention looksmaxing or changing other people’s behaviours
(4) High contextual status: have access to sth people want, be talented at something relevant, etc.
(5) Partake in painful levels of small talk about nothing, wasting valuable time you could use to, idk, softmax or make money
(6) Realise that deep down it’s probably not worth it, get some based friends who will truly ‘get’ what you’re about and walk along your path with you
 
StormlitAqua said:
Getting friends in some ways is even harder than getting a gf. At least there are methods for achieving a GF directly (dating apps/sites), and that looks play more of a factor. Getting friends is almost impossible if you have none.

I’ve had the same friends since I was 10 years old - we’ve now know each other for more than 15 years. We legit have very little in common, we’ve just been friends forever. That’s it. Commonality between friends is meme-tier analysis.

The only way to make friends past middle school in my observation is through a 3rd party catalyst - that is - an existing friend, or an authority figure. You make friends through people, not yourself. Being good looking does help (especially tall), but in the end it’s fairly moot. Lookism is a factor in everything in life, but thankfully here it’s not as prevalent. If you’ve legit got nobody, you’re kinda effed. Maybe parents can help, but that does look pathetic.

As a bit of an anecdote, The only friend I’ve made past the age of 14 was at church. I didn’t even do anything. The pastor told me to go talk to some guy because we both like death metal so I did and we’re still friends. Just another example of needing a 3rd party catalyst. Wish I could talk to him more but he lives a state over now.
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I wonder if Bumble BFF is actually any good. Unlikely to work but might be worth a shot
 
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koalendo said:
what book of Robert Greene do you recommend? can you give a link?
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Don‘t read them thinking that it will make you be more succesful or whatever, just read it as if it was something interesting, don‘t go with high expectations
- 48 Laws of Power (really good imo despite having some contradictory laws) - My personal favorite, it’s basically 48 rules for social power, most things seem obvious but the examples the author uses are amazing and really entertaining tbh, it might be useful but just see it as a good read, go with that mindset.
-Mastery (about the life of Henry Ford and Darwin)
- The Art of Seduction - It’s not what you think, it’s not about how to get pussy, it’s kind of like a way of seeing social power through the lenses of seduction. It’s pretty based because it kinda recognizes the blackpill up to some extent, like how women have power over men in terms of sexuality.
-The 33 Strategies of War - My personal favorite after 48 Laws of Power, it’s basically the same thing but with another format and different ‘rules’ per se
-The Laws of Human Nature - Some people I know said it’s pretty good but I haven’t read it yet
 
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Hard to believe you’re 6’7 and can’t make friends
 
looksmaxxer234 said:
Hard to believe you’re 6’7 and can’t make friends
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Well believe it. I used to be extremely subhuman. I'm now a (low tier?) normie and aiming to be a chadlite after 1 more surgery and fillers.
 
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APJ said:
I wonder if Bumble BFF is actually any good. Unlikely to work but might be worth a shot
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I tried it as well. I only met homosexual men on there who use it in a sneaky way to meet men.

Like another person mentioned before, you need to meet people through a 3rd party or through a common goal. Like a political party or some activist bullshit.
 
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6ft8InTheNetherlands said:
I tried it as well. I only met homosexual men on there who use it in a sneaky way to meet men.

Like another person mentioned before, you need to meet people through a 3rd party or through a common goal. Like a political party or some activist bullshit.
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Most people’s friendship groups (in adulthood) in large urban areas are through work, so that sounds correct to me.

Kind of weird that gay men use it to meet men, imagine the time they waste trying to find out if a guy is gay instead of setting their dating profile filter to ‘men only’ lol
 
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A good way to make friends is at work. Work on your personality dude…you’re a big fuck so you need to reduce the intimidation factor. Be funny, friendly and entertaining.

You say you get girls right…hang out with her social circle instead of just ploughing her behind the bushes.
 
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treveo said:
A good way to make friends is at work. Work on your personality dude…you’re a big fuck so you need to reduce the intimidation factor. Be funny, friendly and entertaining.

You say you get girls right…hang out with her social circle instead of just ploughing her behind the bushes.
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i dont need to work. working is for lazy 9-5 normies with no work ethic.
 
LooksOverAll said:
i dont need to work. working is for lazy 9-5 normies with no work ethic.
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did u make any new friends in that 1.5 years since u opened this thread?
if yes- how?
if not - why?
 
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Do you feel superior to all the niggas you heightmog?
Just join a sports team at that point tbh, its fun and will probably improve your life generally too
 
apemaxxed said:
Do you feel superior to all the niggas you heightmog?
Just join a sports team at that point tbh, its fun and will probably improve your life generally too
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i literally played pro sports. jfl at this asktrp advice.
 
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LooksOverAll said:
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Tbh.

Friends at teens and college uni years. Is about and formed around fun, hobbies, parties and stuff mostly.
At older age, like 31. It seems more build around the guys you can work with to make money, hobbies to a less extend, also a good amount of same aged guys are family life. So that will not be a good match to build Friends with in general.
 
newperson said:
be friend with amnesia, both of u around the same age, blackpilled, moneymaxxed, from the us
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Gonna be tough for you because when you meet new people they are going to assume you've already got friends/a separate group of people they haven't meet yet. When your hanging with them your going to have start getting on the phone and acting like your choosing to hang with them instead of the others. OR you could try the 'I'm new in town' routine.
 
You're not gl and NT enough
 
LooksOverAll said:
Probably right. People look at me to be the alpha of the group. They don't expect me to be a socially anxious incel.
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Imagine being a socially anxious incel at 6’7 JFL 🤣
 
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