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This post is for all of my brothers who can't get rid of their subhumanity and still want to experience love.
NOTE : THIS POST DOES NOT PROMOTE THE RED PILL PHILOSOPHY AND IS NOT BASED ON COPE BUT LISTS OUT ACTUAL METHODS TO GET GIRLS DESPITE BEING FACIALLY UNFORTUNATE.
(THE FIRST 2 OR 3 POINTS ARE WATER SO YOU COULD DNR THEM IF YOU WANT)
So let us begin........
You're ugly and recessed ? the following things may help you attract women :-
1) BE TALL
not gonna explain this one, being tall is purely genetic and you can't do much to change it but for those who are facially ugly, being tall could somewhat make it easier for you to date coz there are women who would date literal anyone even if he looks like shrek just for the sake of him being tall, so if ur short getting a limb lengthening or investing in exogenous hormones that signal igf 1 or hopping on the primal diet (if ur still growing) maybe a good investment.
2) GYM-MAXX
You might hate me for this, but YES GOING TO THE GYM DOES INCREASE UR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID/FINDING LOVE even if ur ugly, is it worth investing so much time in the gym and stressing out ur body just to fuck a few bitches ? idk ...but is it worth it to do that when you have no options and can't even get surgeries to improve your face ? HELL YEAH.
Need an example to prove this ?
this guy above does not have the best frame, he was also kinda lean to begin with but the muscles in the after transformation pic are definitely contributing to his chances of getting a girl even if its on a very marginal basis.
3) GET RICH
Can't get a girl to love you ? Buy her out, sure no matter of money could help you escape from the mog and true love only happens coz of ur looks and despite you being rich there's still a huge chance of ur girl cheating on you with chad , atleast you would lead a better and a more loving life with money in ur bank account.
4) NICHE-MAXXING
Niche-maxxing refers to fitting in specific internet subcultures or archetypes or communities that only a particular group of people care about or follow.
Why niche maxx ? You should niche maxx because by fitting in a particular niche , instead of competing with better looking guys in the general market , you would compete in a different specific market which would be easier to survive in. You could choose a particular niche to fit into depending on ur personal interests and if you don't have a niche you could just larp your way out. For example :-
The guy above is fairly below avg looking and yet he pulls a lot of young girls coz he's the most famous in his own niche attracting tonnes of young girls who are fans of south korean bands. Similar to this , guys like Timothy chalamet (not prime) , Harry Styles , Troye Sivan have tonnes of girls wanting them.
Other examples of famous niches include, Rapper niche , goth niche , performative feminism niche , hippie niche ( the kind that do yoga, smoke weed and travel the world ) , etc.
Fame contributes a huge part too considering that guys like Adam Sandler would probably be incels if they were not famous lol.
Another really good way to nichemaxx is , if ur naturally good at something , let us suppose , basketball , be the best at it and outshine everyone. Even if the girl does not care about basketball , you being the best would still contribute a lot towards ur attractiveness.
You could still larp hobbies like painting , cooking , poetry, speaking multiple languages to impress foreign huzz , and be genuinely good at them. This would help a lot in attracting women coz they find certain hobbies like these very attractive.
Lastly , if ur good at certain stuff like gaming, you can approach girls with the same interests as you and the better you are at what you do the higher are your chances of attracting her.
Cons of Nichemaxxing
- You could be an outcast to the society and people who do not belong to ur niche may judge you and make you feel like you do not belong with them.
- If ur larping a niche , you could risk potentially loosing yourself which is kinda sad.
5) COLOGNE
This one is a cope and does not deserve to be on the list but I still put it here for the love of the game.
Scientific research identifies three specific molecules that measurably influence female attraction and mood: androstadienone, androstensol, and hedione. Androstadienone, found in male sweat, has been shown in clinical trials to improve women's mood and increase sustained eye contact, while androstensol subtly raises perceived masculinity and attractiveness. Hedione (methyl dihydrojasmonate) is particularly potent, with fMRI studies indicating it can triple activity in the female hypothalamus, the brain region tied to sexual attraction and hormone regulation.
Fragrances such as Cupids Hypnosis 2.0 , Dior Sauvage , Bleu de chanel , etc may increase ur chances of attracting a mate.
6) Neurotypical-Maxxing
Being neurodivergent severely affects your chances of attracting a mate considering that women literally hate people who are actually ND. They find ND people creepy and off-putting and even being attractive would still be of no use.
There is no actual solution to this considering that this is a neurological issue which is completely genetic however there are ways to be more approachable and 'normal' such as :-
.) Observational Learning: Observe nt people in social settings to learn how they interact, respond, and adapt to various situations.
.) Eye Contact: Maintain appropriate eye contact without staring or avoiding eye contact altogether
.) Gestures: Use natural and appropriate gestures that complement verbal communication.
.) Tone and Volume: Pay attention to tone and volume during speech to match the conversational context.
.) Non-Literal Language: Understand and use sarcasm, metaphors, and idioms appropriately.
Other then this you could always try out drugs such as Pregablin and Baclofen , or Adderal ,these have been proven to reduce anxiety and help with lowering inhibition but you gotta be smart about their usage , DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH.
I would personally suggest supplementing L-theanine (with caffeine) in the day and Melatonin before sleeping to reduce overall stress , make conversations smoother and provide a quick energy boost to enhance productivity.
7) Learn the science behind attracting women and women psychology :
I would suggest you to watch this youtube video I came across ;
I would also suggest you to learn basic manipulation techniques that would really help you , you could search em up online and do your own research regarding that.
So that is it guys , ik this post was pretty water but it was meant to be this way , let me know if i missed out on anything and thanks.....
NOTE : THIS POST DOES NOT PROMOTE THE RED PILL PHILOSOPHY AND IS NOT BASED ON COPE BUT LISTS OUT ACTUAL METHODS TO GET GIRLS DESPITE BEING FACIALLY UNFORTUNATE.
(THE FIRST 2 OR 3 POINTS ARE WATER SO YOU COULD DNR THEM IF YOU WANT)
So let us begin........
You're ugly and recessed ? the following things may help you attract women :-
1) BE TALL
not gonna explain this one, being tall is purely genetic and you can't do much to change it but for those who are facially ugly, being tall could somewhat make it easier for you to date coz there are women who would date literal anyone even if he looks like shrek just for the sake of him being tall, so if ur short getting a limb lengthening or investing in exogenous hormones that signal igf 1 or hopping on the primal diet (if ur still growing) maybe a good investment.
2) GYM-MAXX
You might hate me for this, but YES GOING TO THE GYM DOES INCREASE UR CHANCES OF GETTING LAID/FINDING LOVE even if ur ugly, is it worth investing so much time in the gym and stressing out ur body just to fuck a few bitches ? idk ...but is it worth it to do that when you have no options and can't even get surgeries to improve your face ? HELL YEAH.
Need an example to prove this ?
this guy above does not have the best frame, he was also kinda lean to begin with but the muscles in the after transformation pic are definitely contributing to his chances of getting a girl even if its on a very marginal basis.
3) GET RICH
Can't get a girl to love you ? Buy her out, sure no matter of money could help you escape from the mog and true love only happens coz of ur looks and despite you being rich there's still a huge chance of ur girl cheating on you with chad , atleast you would lead a better and a more loving life with money in ur bank account.
4) NICHE-MAXXING
Niche-maxxing refers to fitting in specific internet subcultures or archetypes or communities that only a particular group of people care about or follow.
Why niche maxx ? You should niche maxx because by fitting in a particular niche , instead of competing with better looking guys in the general market , you would compete in a different specific market which would be easier to survive in. You could choose a particular niche to fit into depending on ur personal interests and if you don't have a niche you could just larp your way out. For example :-
The guy above is fairly below avg looking and yet he pulls a lot of young girls coz he's the most famous in his own niche attracting tonnes of young girls who are fans of south korean bands. Similar to this , guys like Timothy chalamet (not prime) , Harry Styles , Troye Sivan have tonnes of girls wanting them.
Other examples of famous niches include, Rapper niche , goth niche , performative feminism niche , hippie niche ( the kind that do yoga, smoke weed and travel the world ) , etc.
Fame contributes a huge part too considering that guys like Adam Sandler would probably be incels if they were not famous lol.
Another really good way to nichemaxx is , if ur naturally good at something , let us suppose , basketball , be the best at it and outshine everyone. Even if the girl does not care about basketball , you being the best would still contribute a lot towards ur attractiveness.
You could still larp hobbies like painting , cooking , poetry, speaking multiple languages to impress foreign huzz , and be genuinely good at them. This would help a lot in attracting women coz they find certain hobbies like these very attractive.
Lastly , if ur good at certain stuff like gaming, you can approach girls with the same interests as you and the better you are at what you do the higher are your chances of attracting her.
Cons of Nichemaxxing
- You could be an outcast to the society and people who do not belong to ur niche may judge you and make you feel like you do not belong with them.
- If ur larping a niche , you could risk potentially loosing yourself which is kinda sad.
5) COLOGNE
This one is a cope and does not deserve to be on the list but I still put it here for the love of the game.
Scientific research identifies three specific molecules that measurably influence female attraction and mood: androstadienone, androstensol, and hedione. Androstadienone, found in male sweat, has been shown in clinical trials to improve women's mood and increase sustained eye contact, while androstensol subtly raises perceived masculinity and attractiveness. Hedione (methyl dihydrojasmonate) is particularly potent, with fMRI studies indicating it can triple activity in the female hypothalamus, the brain region tied to sexual attraction and hormone regulation.
Fragrances such as Cupids Hypnosis 2.0 , Dior Sauvage , Bleu de chanel , etc may increase ur chances of attracting a mate.
6) Neurotypical-Maxxing
Being neurodivergent severely affects your chances of attracting a mate considering that women literally hate people who are actually ND. They find ND people creepy and off-putting and even being attractive would still be of no use.
There is no actual solution to this considering that this is a neurological issue which is completely genetic however there are ways to be more approachable and 'normal' such as :-
.) Observational Learning: Observe nt people in social settings to learn how they interact, respond, and adapt to various situations.
.) Eye Contact: Maintain appropriate eye contact without staring or avoiding eye contact altogether
.) Gestures: Use natural and appropriate gestures that complement verbal communication.
.) Tone and Volume: Pay attention to tone and volume during speech to match the conversational context.
.) Non-Literal Language: Understand and use sarcasm, metaphors, and idioms appropriately.
Other then this you could always try out drugs such as Pregablin and Baclofen , or Adderal ,these have been proven to reduce anxiety and help with lowering inhibition but you gotta be smart about their usage , DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH.
I would personally suggest supplementing L-theanine (with caffeine) in the day and Melatonin before sleeping to reduce overall stress , make conversations smoother and provide a quick energy boost to enhance productivity.
7) Learn the science behind attracting women and women psychology :
I would suggest you to watch this youtube video I came across ;
I would also suggest you to learn basic manipulation techniques that would really help you , you could search em up online and do your own research regarding that.
So that is it guys , ik this post was pretty water but it was meant to be this way , let me know if i missed out on anything and thanks.....
