How to get in situations to talk to girls

[fhkennedy]

At private boarding school (only monday-friday so at home weekends). Im fairly average/ slightly above average looking (but still short compared to others (5'11)). There are girls I think are cute but I literally never have an opportunity to speak to them. I do nerdy subjects so genuinely dont cross over with any good looking or popular girls. I dont have high status but I am friends with a good few popular people (but only very good friends with like 1). Basically if I could get the opportunity to talk to these girls preferably solo in a non awkward way then I could figure it out from there but I have no opportunities to do this. I need a way to either get her to approach me or for me to safely initiate a conversation (I lack confidence because of fear of embarrassment). For example this girl I like at my school is my age and we both play and really like cricket (she is pretty much professional and I am pretty average so she wont notice me), but I would never have an opportunity to speak to her, and forget just messaging her about it bcs I just find it embarassing and awkward. So how do I manufacture situations to talk to her or other girls

 

[VIGILIANT]

Be Chad or pray to the lord above

 

[bloodysummoningg]

what boarding school? is it US or International cuz i might know

go to social events alone, that helps big time

 

[levisko]

try to get close with any popular boy who has lots of girl friends around him you will get the chance to talk with them eventually

 

[fhkennedy]

what boarding school? is it US or International cuz i might know

go to social events alone, that helps big time

its in england. idk what you mean by social events but we dont have many anyway, also what is the method when ur at them

 

[bloodysummoningg]

its in england. idk what you mean by social events but we dont have many anyway, also what is the method when ur at them

at a boarding school bro just go around your dorm and TALK TO PEOPLE or use nootropics if your nt like me.

just saying good things will help them remember you you'll become so mich more socially active

 

[fhkennedy]

at a boarding school bro just go around your dorm and TALK TO PEOPLE or use nootropics if your nt like me.

just saying good things will help them remember you you'll become so mich more socially active

Why use nootropics for this situation specifically

 

[bloodysummoningg]

Why use nootropics for this situation specifically

it makes you more outgoing. im very nt and adderall and some substances make me so much more social and i barely get any fear