How to Get Laid a Practical Guide

[Part-Time Chad]

Step 1 : be handsome.

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With that said, I've read every words, good post.

Yeah, there's really no way around this inconvenient truth. There's a reason why James Bond, Jason Bourne, and every other 'hero' that's cast is good-looking. Same goes for soap operas, which are made specifically for foids. I've literally never seen an ugly male in one of them, unless he was a villain or bad person.

I should mention one caveat, though: good-looking men aren't all twinks, pretty boys, and/or overtly handsome. Sometimes, their facial appeal is more subtle. A certain 'rugged masculinity' (high T) is as appealing to toilets as the more obvious traits.

 

[GoodLookingAthlete]

What are ways you get them to come over other than offering them a drink at your place? What about getting them to invite you to their place?

I' basically say, let's go have a drink at my place, or let's go watch of movie, listen to some music. It's pretty basic. I always bring them to my place cause I feel more comfortable doing so, but you can try going to her place too. When I'm using dating apps I often frame the date like that :"Let's go on a walk and then split a bottle of wine/have a drink at my place afterwards". When I meet the girl on the date all I have to do is basically bring her straight to my place when I'm meeting her.

 

[GoodLookingAthlete]

but you wrote this

thats close enough.
I'm just trying to say that your vague statement is maybe good for cold approaching women if you have a certain looks level, but it's nonsense when making friends. You cant go from point a-where someone sees you as a loser to point b-where you have more friends at your age. The only thing I believe you is that thanks to your work and approaching you dont feel weird or like shit around people, because you dont give a fuck now.

Are you serious dude. I said most people saw me as a loser in high school. Keywords being most and high school. I still have a few friends that I know from high school and made some new friends in college and by meeting people at parties, when going out at bars, to the gym etc. I don't know why it is so hard for you to believe that. If you're a pretty cool, confident and fun dude to be around people will want to hang out with you without expecting to get some direct value exchange. Your comments make me think you’ve never been out of the house trying to socialize with other people.

 

[Deleted member 27729]

Dnrd , cope

@B1B2

 

[Deleted member 24410]

Dnrd , cope

@B1B2

Exactly I didn’t read but it’s obvious it only works for Chadlites and above

 

[Deleted member 27729]

Exactly I didn’t read but it’s obvious it only works for Chadlites and above

And for NT's only "Muh just be social and confident "

 

[forevermirin]

solid guide, the practicing hitting on girls is easily the most important part of it but also the hardest to actually do.

now gtfo off this site and never return.

 

[LipstickAlley]

This is the plan post-ascension. Ppl think once they ascend in looks everything they will just effortlessly come to them, but nothing short of going from LTN to Chad will achieve that. Looksmaxxing is just the key to unlock the maze - once that's done you need to navigate it.

This is partially because subhumans who ascend are so used to being treated like shit that they don’t realize that they have made it to a point where it’s okay to speak to women.

They assume the green light to start approaching is when girls come to them when in reality waiting for girls only leads to unattractive women approaching you.

 

[LipstickAlley]

Good guide op. Don’t listen to the morons who are trying to insult you.

They complain that they’ll die alone when in reality someone is giving them useful information and trying to help jfl

 

[GoodLookingAthlete]

This is partially because subhumans who ascend are so used to being treated like shit that they don’t realize that they have made it to a point where it’s okay to speak to women.

They assume the green light to start approaching is when girls come to them when in reality waiting for girls only leads to unattractive women approaching you.

That's totally true, only unattractive girls used to approach me or give me a lot of attention/validation back then. Even now it's not super often that a pretty girl would just "throw" herself at me (but it still happens every so often). Also girls typically communicate in a more subtle way than dudes and you really have to understand the sub communications to see that I girl is actually hitting on you or is attracted to you. There is no way of seeing all of that until you have hit on/talked to a decent amount of girls.

 

[GoodLookingAthlete]

Good guide op. Don’t listen to the morons who are trying to insult you.

They complain that they’ll die alone when in reality someone is giving them useful information and trying to help jfl

I know but I'm still hoping to be able to "expand their minds" somehow.

 

[LipstickAlley]

I know but I'm still hoping to be able to "expand their minds" somehow.

I’ve noticed your advice is pretty similar to most successful dating coaches

I’m not sure if you’ve heard of “goodlookingloser” before. I’m assuming you have because your name and site are similar in title

But essentially he says the formula to getting laid is simple: good looks+talking to lots of girls+good style= good high quality lays

Anyways thanks for the guide. Will definitely use it.

 

[escortcel]

Here's the thing bro. You're handsome. I'm ugly as fuck. As in, surgery can only make me from subhuman to LTN/MTN. Yes maybe I could get laid with herculean amounts of effort, but why would I do that when escorts exist? I've been able to fuck so many hot women and it barely dents my wallet.

Problem is it's not satisfying. I never regret an escort but it doesn't make me happy like I thought it would. I never wanted to be a fuckboy, I just wanted one girl who I can love and who loves me and we try to have a normal long relationship. And yes looks matter a lot, enough that I plan to get surgery to ascend, but if a girl is only in a relationship with you for your looks then the very split second your looks fade, you get in a car accident or something or go above 15% body fat or something stupid, she will leave. What kind of relationship is that?

 

[infini]

You will literally get arrested cold approaching in the UK outside of settings like clubs which are pretty much VR dating apps anyway.

How can you say that whilst having a registered slay count? Whenever I've skimmed past you, you're always being doomer without having a single riff.

Yeah, there's really no way around this inconvenient truth. There's a reason why James Bond, Jason Bourne, and every other 'hero' that's cast is good-looking. Same goes for soap operas, which are made specifically for foids. I've literally never seen an ugly male in one of them, unless he was a villain or bad person.

I should mention one caveat, though: good-looking men aren't all twinks, pretty boys, and/or overtly handsome. Sometimes, their facial appeal is more subtle. A certain 'rugged masculinity' (high T) is as appealing to toilets as the more obvious traits.

Villains are changing more into being good-looking overall, probably ever since the likes of Patrick Bateman, or Heath Ledger's Joker.

 

[thecel]

how to be happy?

transition with HRT

 

[currywhowillascends]

Make a thread on body language

 

[infini]

Good read, good mindset. Thank you for sharing. Didn't realise until I saw myself I that I had been here before at the last second. Perhaps perfect reflection for 6's and MTN's who are so close yet so far. Also cheers for introducing me to RU58841 since the hesitance with Fin or Minox are the dick complaints which in itself, goes to show how that separates the incels from the few.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Good read, good mindset. Thank you for sharing. Didn't realise until I saw myself I that I had been here before at the last second. Perhaps perfect reflection for 6's and MTN's who are so close yet so far. Also cheers for introducing me to RU58841 since the hesitance with Fin or Minox are the dick complaints which in itself, goes to show how that separates the incels from the few.

some statts, I collected from older times.

Name dude	Paul Janka (psl 5.5 to 6-)	eduardkoopman (psl 3.5)	@mikeock (psl 6)	@Tenshi (PSL 4. 5'7 latino)	@OCDMaxxing (PSL ?)
(random) chatted up women	100/100	100/100	100/100	100/100	100/100
convo (wanted to talk)		35/100	50/100	?	?
telephone numbers		15/100	45/100	32/100	?
non-flaky telephone numbers		13/100	22/100	?	?
Dates/meetups		10/100	11/100	5/100	?
Sex	4.4% -> 4/100	1/100	5/100	1/100	0.75 / 100

source: https://looksmax.org/threads/pua-cold-approaching-is-fundamentally-flawed.53114/page-4#post-8184180

maybe add your statts, to the above table. for the dudes having them?

 

[Pakicel]

But you are a @GoodLookingAthlete. This won't work for everyone.

 

[lebesgue]

When I look at stuff on the internet about how to get laid (for men), most of the time I end up seeing some really cringy stuff. Because of all this BS about this topic it can be difficult to know what direction to take and where to start to get better with women. This is why as a guy who used not to get laid and now does, I felt that I could give a unique and valuable perspective on this topic.

1. My Backstory

Before delving into what I think truly matters to get laid a ton let me give you a bit of context about why my advice is relevant to this topic by sharing my backstory.

I used to be an extremely shy and socially retarded person (I could not for the life of me get social cues). Because of that I used to be very uncomfortable around people I would not know, and I would not be that comfortable even around people I knew. I was basically seen as a shy little bitch. And guess what? People treated me as the little bitch they fought I was. A lot of people (weak and pathetic people even) would allow themselves to make fun of me and overtly disrespect me and would not stop even when it made me noticeably uncomfortable. My life resembled a constant hell from a social aspect. To give an example, most people I went to high school with either hate me, consider me to be a loser or at the very least have a pretty negative opinion about me.

Why? Because I was seen as a little bitch (mainly due to the fact that I was very insecure about literally everything and anything and felt like I could not “fit in”).

You often hear people say that high school was the best time of their life or maybe you hear “late bloomers” say that their early twenties were amazing.

For me my late teens and early twenties were pretty depressing and felt like a huge waste of time and a big disappointment where I experienced mostly pain with some few moments here and there where I felt some temporary happiness (mostly when playing sports or when being drunk). I could not get laid (even though I was a pretty handsome dude even back then), I had almost zero friends (but was still fortunate to have a few very good and valuable friendships), I had zero social skills, zero game, I was studying to do a job that I hate (I was in law school in France), and was also living in a pretty small town were there wasn’t that much social life going on.

Also by the time I entered my early twenties I became fat after quitting cigarettes and started to lose my hair.

When I look back on that period of my life, I feel like I’ve lost five years of my life where I ended up in a worse situation than I started in. I was still a virgin, feeling even more insecure about being a virgin than before, I was now balding and fat, I had still very weak social skills, I was still studying something I did not give a flying fuck about, I was broke, most of the optimism and hopefulness I had back in high school had left me.

Well, when you realize that what the fuck do you do? Short answer is I tried a lot of stuff, some stuff that might be considered extreme by most people and turned this shit around. This includes:

-doing some cringe pick up artist cold approach tactics
-spending my nights approaching all the “hot” women I could find in bars (and trying to seduce them)
-cold approaching girls at the park or during the daytime (and trying to seduce them)
-getting into sales and trying to become a good salesman (which I succeeded at)
-losing 20kg of fat in 5 months and becoming lean again
-starting working out and taking performance enhancing drugs to speed up the process (and make sure I get there).
-start treating my male pattern baldness with experimental drugs (RU58841)
-spending thousands of hours looking and analyzing people who were considered very charismatic and confident (like famous actors) and trying to mimic their body language and mannerisms
-going on dates with ugly girls I did not want to bang just to get “used to the process” of going on dates
-learning how to take good pictures of me for tinder and dating apps
-learning how to text girls on dating apps so I could get them to come straight to my apartment or near my apartment under a sexual pretense.

Nowadays people generally perceive me as this handsome masculine, confident dude that gets a ton of pussy. And even though I do not get laid as often as most people might think I still get laid pretty consistently and with very attractive girls. Most of the girls I end up banging, I bang on the first date. Women generally have positive reactions around me but some feel I’m an asshole or a bit of a creep. Something to note is that I also really enjoy spending time with women and flirting with them.

To be honest I don’t necessarily consider myself to be “that” good with women even today. But I get laid as much, or almost as much I want to and with hot chicks. I have way above average social skills and became amazingly good at “holding” frame and communicating in a confident manner. This is why I think my advice is unique and has value and if you feel like an underachiever with girls, you should at least consider my advice and the following practical steps I’m going to lay out.

2. Start Hitting on Girls, and Go Hit on a Ton of Girls

You may think it’s a joke, but I’m serious. The first step you should take is going to hit on girls and lots of them. Go hit on girls you find attractive, go hit on girls you find ugly. Just go hit on them.

And when I say go hit on girls, I don’t mean go “talk” to girls, I mean go talk to girls like you want to seduce them. Out of all the things that lead me to where I am today I think this is the most important one.

Why is it important to go hit on girls and to actually try your best each and every time?

It’s important because it is the only way to learn how women generally behave and how to behave around them.

What is going to happen initially? Well you will get rejected a ton because a lot of your “early” approaches will be sloppy, uncalibrated, or you would not be able to pick up on some socials cues that would then lead to some weird interactions, or you would not know how to move the interaction forward properly.
When you “mass approach” you will learn a lot of stuff about approaching women and how they react to different types of approaches and how their behavior changes. You will then subconsciously do things a little bit differently and better every new approach. You will also become desensitized to what people might think of you and you will care less and less about rejection and being seen as a creep. This will result in you being more confident.

At some point (even if it takes a while) you will see some success. I.E get laid and this will start the ball rolling. Once you start getting a bit of success it’s going to be easier to keep going and you will have even more success and at some point you will make up and realize “damn I actually think I’m pretty decent with girls”.

Something else that will help a lot is getting into sales and becoming good at it. Becoming a successful salesperson is a difficult thing to do, but it will teach you a lot of things in terms of how to maintain frame during interactions, how to become socially “savy”, how to convince people, how to move things forward in every interaction. Also if you’re good at sales, this can open the possibility to make good money and help you with girls at the same time.

Starting off is difficult but it gets easier and easier. If you’re in the early steps just know that it is not always going to be that hard and that it gets easier over time.

3. Don’t Listen to What People Close to you Might Think

When you will start spending most of your time hitting on girls, people close to you will likely start having a negative opinion about all of this. This was the case for me. My few close friends and my parents even (people who really knew me), basically shared their unsolicited “2 cents” on what I was doing. Basically, they thought that it is not a serious ambition, that it is a waste of time, that it is cringy and bad. These are the people who would tell me things like “just be yourself bro”, “the women part will take care of itself”.

Why should you not listen to them?

Well before answering this question to drive a point home, let just say I write an article on how to quit heroin, but I’ve never taken heroin or taken any hard substance that is similar to it in my entire life, do you think my advice will be valuable?

The answer is probably no. Because I will not know how taking the drug feels like, and how trying to quit feels like or what are the practical steps to take to quit taking this substance.

In the same way people who will give you their “unsolicited” opinion don’t know how bad you feel inside, how not being able to receive any affection from any girl or any girl you find at least decent looking, feels like. They don’t know the desperation you might be feeling by being bad with girls or with people in general. They don’t know how it feels not to get the respect and “human decency” you think you deserve from other people. They simply don’t get it. Most people have very average lives, with very low ambitions or goals and can’t understand why other people might have ambitions that are not considered “normal” within society. Because of that people might start shaming you for trying to get better, or shame you for not being good at it.

If you want to truly improve in terms of getting girls, you must not listen to anybody that has a negative opinion about it. What makes it a bit easier is trying to befriend people, or get into communities with people that share the same ambitions and struggles as you.

4. Realize You Don’t Have a Choice

If you truly feel as bad about yourself than how I used to feel like, any moment of your life will have a subtle but persistent aftertaste of shit. It will feel as if you’re not able to truly feel any happiness until something changes.

Personally, if more than 3 years ago I did not start changing anything about myself or my life, I would have maybe become an alcoholic, a substance abuser or maybe even worse.

This is probably what being in the shittiest spot feels like. There is probably not that much worse that can happen to you. It can either get better or stay the same. You probably have nothing to lose. You don’t have a choice but to improve.

5. Start Improving Your Looks

The dating marketplace has become very competitive for us men. If you’re serious about trying to get laid consistently with hot women you have to improve your looks, there is just no way around it. If you want to improve your looks but don't know where to start, have a look at my article I did on this topic.

6. Be Patient!

I know it sucks but be patient. You’re not going to go from being afraid to talking to girls, to being an ultra-confident and smooth dude in a matter of weeks or months. You’re not going to go from being obese to having a fitness model body in a matter of weeks either. This shit takes time, and it is exactly why it fucking works, it’s because more than 90% of people who will try will not stick for long enough to reach the other end of the road.

I love you