How to get more social?

[Deleted member 103969]

I'm 15 and I've had 0 friends for like 2 years. I am not even ugly, I've been rated high ltn/low mtn, but personally, I think I'm like high mtn/low htn (if I would take good care of myself), I'm not short (5'8 which is above average for my age), not autistic (was never diagnosed, but I don't think I am) + white. The problem is that I just have no social skills and a severe case of social anxiety. I've tried geting more social + reconnecting with my old friends, but it just didn't work out. I feel like I've lost crucial years of my life that will affect me in adulthood greatly and I really want to fix that.

 

[Deleted member 77964]

Nah real sauce if your like going into highschool especially or if your already in it play as many sports as possible. It might be bad at first but start trying to talk to your teammates and after a while they’re always gonna be with you since you’re on their team so they really have no choice but to talk to you and befriend you

 

[NVM_Ignacio]

Nah real sauce if your like going into highschool especially or if your already in it play as many sports as possible. It might be bad at first but start trying to talk to your teammates and after a while they’re always gonna be with you since you’re on their team so they really have no choice but to talk to you and befriend you

you are not the most brilliant if you are asking this on org

just go out and talk to people nigga, if that is fucking hard for you read a book about it and make some friends

 

[Deleted member 77964]

Why are you telling me bro? I guarantee I’m more popular than you’ll ever be

 

[Deleted member 109485]

I'm 15 and I've had 0 friends for like 2 years. I am not even ugly, I've been rated high ltn/low mtn, but personally, I think I'm like high mtn/low htn (if I would take good care of myself), I'm not short (5'8 which is above average for my age), not autistic (was never diagnosed, but I don't think I am) + white. The problem is that I just have no social skills and a severe case of social anxiety. I've tried geting more social + reconnecting with my old friends, but it just didn't work out. I feel like I've lost crucial years of my life that will affect me in adulthood greatly and I really want to fix that.

tbh this is the one question i can’t think of anything for because being social just comes naturally to me. i mean you can train yourself to put on an act but what will u do when your faced with a weird social situation or something you aren’t prepared for. you won’t be able to adapt.