How to get touchy with a girl? [Possible first date of a KHHV]

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I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
 
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300 mg of methaqualone
 
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what better place than an incel forum to ask that question
 
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bro ur 15 chill
 
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bro, just touch her, it sounds like a meme, but just touch her. im assuming its your first time, so dont go straight for the pussy.
and tbh you should notice if shes open to groping and shit from the vibes alone, if not youre ND and its over.
 
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I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
just get both of you a drink

like bubble tea or some shit 15 year olds like

then just hug her later, dont grab her ass, thats how you fuck up
 
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Do I grab her ass while hugging her?
No nigga what the fuck?
You put your hands just behind her waist while hugging. Do not go down further from there
 
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If ur on 2 man and the other guy has experience just copy him tbh and dobt overthink it just be horny
 
I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
nigga do not grab her ass once you hug her😭😭, if you guys are watching a movie or sum just put your arm around her, eventually make out will happen you just gotta feel the vibes and see if she wants to, from their you could grab her ass while your kissing, she might be weirded out if she’s not a whore, worst case scenario she is taking one for the team and you are just going to watch a movie.
 
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Get ice creams, buy cola, Haribos as snacks go to your place, chill drink eat, kiss kiss touch
 
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Do this to her..
 
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You're 15 and already dating, you're on a good track dw bro, you don't have to have to smash, kiss, hug, or even hold hands. I was 16 when I lost my virginity and I was in such a rush because I felt like I'd be a joke of a man if I couldn't do it before 18. But the first time was just ass, no chemistry or anything I just picked a ltb and did my thing, and I felt no different afterwards. Now I regret it and wish it was with a girl I actually liked, it actually kind of worsened my confidence for a few months because it was so stale and awkward.

Go into the date with the mindset to just have a fun chill time, have some jokes or maybe an interesting discussion, see something interesting etc.
 
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bro, just touch her, it sounds like a meme, but just touch her. im assuming its your first time, so dont go straight for the pussy.
and tbh you should notice if shes open to groping and shit from the vibes alone, if not youre ND and its over.
Hmmm I am not ND as far as I can tell so I should pick up on the social cues.
 
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No nigga what the fuck?
You put your hands just behind her waist while hugging. Do not go down further from there
Man you're right now that I think about it.
That would be a grave mistake.
 
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just get both of you a drink

like bubble tea or some shit 15 year olds like

then just hug her later, dont grab her ass, thats how you fuck up
You're right bro... I think I will take care of my little johhny at home... I don't think she's open to anything that sexual. Maybe if I get to know when she is on her period I will strike while she's ovulating.
 
nigga do not grab her ass once you hug her😭😭, if you guys are watching a movie or sum just put your arm around her, eventually make out will happen you just gotta feel the vibes and see if she wants to, from their you could grab her ass while your kissing, she might be weirded out if she’s not a whore, worst case scenario she is taking one for the team and you are just going to watch a movie.
I thought if I had a girlfriend she would act like in porn movies.... I think I was wrong and this is a reality check
 
You're right bro... I think I will take care of my little johhny at home... I don't think she's open to anything that sexual. Maybe if I get to know when she is on her period I will strike while she's ovulating.
bro just have a good time with her

literally all you supposed to do is, offer to get drinks, go somewhere that has a nice view, and then start taking about random shit

if it goes really well just say you like her and give her a hug or something, dont do anything sexual or stupid

you should seem genuine,
if you were a girl would you still hangout with a dude if you know the only thing hes thinking about is fucking you?
 
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You're 15 and already dating, you're on a good track dw bro, you don't have to have to smash, kiss, hug, or even hold hands. I was 16 when I lost my virginity and I was in such a rush because I felt like I'd be a joke of a man if I couldn't do it before 18. But the first time was just ass, no chemistry or anything I just picked a ltb and did my thing, and I felt no different afterwards. Now I regret it and wish it was with a girl I actually liked, it actually kind of worsened my confidence for a few months because it was so stale and awkward.

Go into the date with the mindset to just have a fun chill time, have some jokes or maybe an interesting discussion, see something interesting etc.
Hmmmmmm. That seems like good advice. I am kinda rushing here.

Defenitly if I were to lose my virginity with her I should test the waters to see if it's actually worth it. Otherwise I risk drowning...
 
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bro just have a good time with her

literally all you supposed to do is, offer to get drinks, go somewhere that has a nice view, and then start taking about random shit

if it goes really well just say you like her and give her a hug or something, dont do anything sexual or stupid

you should seem genuine,
if you were a girl would you still hangout with a dude if you know the only thing hes thinking about is fucking you?
Hmm defenitly not. The problem is that if we take apart the sexual satisfaction that a girl can give, it would be a no brainer to have to choose between ur bros and the girl. The bros are way funnier than the girl.

But hanging out with a girl is a new experience..... I will defenitly have to watch my step as I go into new grounds.
 
do whatever but the moment you stutter when you try to get close to her and stop halfway the moment is ruined and her attraction to you probably lost too.
 
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Hmm defenitly not. The problem is that if we take apart the sexual satisfaction that a girl can give, it would be a no brainer to have to choose between ur bros and the girl. The bros are way funnier than the girl.

But hanging out with a girl is a new experience..... I will defenitly have to watch my step as I go into new grounds.
once you get to know her you might start to prefer hanging out with her over the bros

even if you know your not fucking,

girls can be really good friends if you have stuff in common
 
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Make sure to fuck the girl as hard as possible
 
do whatever but the moment you stutter when you try to get close to her and stop halfway the moment is ruined and her attraction to you probably lost too.
That would be horrible bro.
 
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Life is like a woman, you have to take it.

Meaning, when an opening presents itself naturally, you just have to be bold, go in, and initiate, never overthink shit like that. If at least some baseline attraction is present when you are close to each other, she will reciprocate anyway.

And even if she doesn't reciprocate, it's still better to try and fail than to be a pussy and not try/initiate at all. Women also expect these things from men, so you should always go for it, it's only natural.
 
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I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
If she goes in for a hug at the beginning: do whatever you want bro:feelskek:.
You kinda have to keep escalating, sitting close together, joking and shit, or feeding her just for fun, idk bro I'm an 18yo KHHV:lul:. I just know from experience (I was 174cm at 15 too and had girls crushing over me at that point of my live), you just have to do something. You don't even have to say anaything meaningful.

Just keep the Momentum going, and LOWKEY Touch her, moving from "savezones" like shoulders, hands and forearms, upper back (when she doesnt even like this it's over),
to "sus zones" like lower back, head, outer thighs, but keep it lowkey. You can act playfull and shit for this and work your way to where you want.

It's like boiling a frog: if you put a frog in boiling water, he will jump out.
But if you put im in water and slowely hest it up, he will die from the boiling water:lul:.

Autist metaphor:
In ancient roman battles the majority of casualtys occured at the END of the battle, as soon as the shield formation of one side broke.
You basicly have play this game of joking around and just having playful fun until her guard is down and she is in this trance like state of trusting you and enjoing the time.
This is where you need to act to not let the momentum die out.
But the majority of the time you're just going to be "fighting" until the shieldwall is broken.
Or just be chad:lul:

You don't have to pay for her btw, but it's kind of a bonus ngl. Just buy small stuff for the gesture (like snacks).

Hope you crack, just be fun but persistent if she likes you.:feelsyay:
 
Life is like a woman, you have to take it.

Meaning, when an opening presents itself naturally, you just have to be bold, go in, and initiate, never overthink shit like that. If at least some baseline attraction is present when you are close to each other, she will reciprocate anyway.

And even if she doesn't reciprocate, it's still better to try and fail than to be a pussy and not try/initiate at all. Women also expect these things from men, so you should always go for it, it's only natural.
Hmmmm.............. So listening to my instincts.. Thanks for the advice.
 
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If she goes in for a hug at the beginning: do whatever you want bro:feelskek:.
You kinda have to keep escalating, sitting close together, joking and shit, or feeding her just for fun, idk bro I'm an 18yo KHHV:lul:. I just know from experience (I was 174cm at 15 too and had girls crushing over me at that point of my live), you just have to do something. You don't even have to say anaything meaningful.

Just keep the Momentum going, and LOWKEY Touch her, moving from "savezones" like shoulders, hands and forearms, upper back (when she doesnt even like this it's over),
to "sus zones" like lower back, head, outer thighs, but keep it lowkey. You can act playfull and shit for this and work your way to where you want.

It's like boiling a frog: if you put a frog in boiling water, he will jump out.
But if you put im in water and slowely hest it up, he will die from the boiling water:lul:.

Autist metaphor:
In ancient roman battles the majority of casualtys occured at the END of the battle, as soon as the shield formation of one side broke.
You basicly have play this game of joking around and just having playful fun until her guard is down and she is in this trance like state of trusting you and enjoing the time.
This is where you need to act to not let the momentum die out.
But the majority of the time you're just going to be "fighting" until the shieldwall is broken.
Or just be chad:lul:

You don't have to pay for her btw, but it's kind of a bonus ngl. Just buy small stuff for the gesture (like snacks).

Hope you crack, just be fun but persistent if she likes you.:feelsyay:
Pretty funny response bro. :lul::lul::lul:

The problem is, that she asked if I wanna go out with her.

I immediatelly texted one of my bros asking if he wants to go on a double date tommorow

He told me that I should go by myself on a date with her.

That sounds horrific dude.

I am genuinely afraid of such an encounter... All by myself with a girl....

I think I would much rather LDAR than go on a date with her. Sounds way safer than going out with a foid

But at the same time if you don't risk you don't win.
 
I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
Just drink alcohol, take her to the movies, and start grabbing on her, buy her a drink and popcorn. Just joke ur way into them panties, haha
 
Pretty funny response bro. :lul::lul::lul:

The problem is, that she asked if I wanna go out with her.

I immediatelly texted one of my bros asking if he wants to go on a double date tommorow

He told me that I should go by myself on a date with her.

That sounds horrific dude.

I am genuinely afraid of such an encounter... All by myself with a girl....

I think I would much rather LDAR than go on a date with her. Sounds way safer than going out with a foid

But at the same time if you don't risk you don't win.
I fucked up my last 1on 1 date. She was introverted though and my nd got the better of me. You need to have a plan, maeby if she's more outgoing, you'll be fine... just take the xp
 
I fucked up my last 1on 1 date. She was introverted though and my nd got the better of me. You need to have a plan, maeby if she's more outgoing, you'll be fine... just take the xp
Yeah bro this is massive exp farm. It could level me up high af
but I also have my exams coming up so I better not fall in lust and act more like patrick bateman than a simp
 
nigga do not grab her ass once you hug her😭😭, if you guys are watching a movie or sum just put your arm around her, eventually make out will happen you just gotta feel the vibes and see if she wants to, from their you could grab her ass while your kissing, she might be weirded out if she’s not a whore, worst case scenario she is taking one for the team and you are just going to watch a movie.
its good to do if your chad tho
 
how was that date pal
 
No nigga what the fuck?
You put your hands just behind her waist while hugging. Do not go down further from there
poor kid could have have caught a charge

thanks for the correcting the chap
 
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I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
just her a drink. Maybe food. Don’t touch her. You can hug or hand her hand or smth. SPIECALLY on the first date don’t touch her ass or anything. Act as NT as possible
 
how was that date pal
She asked if I wanna go
I was so scared, I decided to go with my bros to the mall instead.

If I didn't have my exams coming up (22 june and 24 june) I would have sure went out with her.
I just can't risk falling in love with her and getting all of these new emotions which I have never experienced right before this exam. It literally determines my quality of life for the next 4 years.
 
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She asked if I wanna go
I was so scared, I decided to go with my bros to the mall instead.

If I didn't have my exams coming up (22 june and 24 june) I would have sure went out with her.
I just can't risk falling in love with her and getting all of these new emotions which I have never experienced right before this exam. It literally determines my quality of life for the next 4 years.
sounds serious

quit going to the mall and focus on the exams den
 
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I plan on going on a 2 man with one of my friends at the mall . I have texted a girl for a few days now. I can tell she is into me. She wanted to get to know me when she saw a group picture which had me in, (she saw the pic like 2 months ago. ) She seems pretty understanding and chill. She even made some girl dm me to see if I'm loyal. (We live in the same city and she wants us to be together)

This is a once in a life time for a 15 year old 175cm LMTN KHHV.

Upon further examination I have come to the conclusion that she is not overweight.
She is 157 CM tall at 14 years old, turning 15 next month (manlet spawner)
She is atleast LTB. If she has an attractive body, this is all that's needed
I will need an in real life examination aswell. Maybe this weekend.

I know a good place. The last floor of the mall is an out door parking. It has a pretty secluded bench.

That is the best place to initiate once in a life time touch with a woman.

My question is... How do I initiate said contact? Do I just put my hand on her thigh
Do I grab her ass while hugging her?

I am low inhib, but I'm scared of her calling the police on me saying I sa'ed her.

Do I have to spend money on her? Do I have to buy her a drink or food?
???? What the actual fuck this is my exact situation rn. Like to every detail
 
TEEN LOVE PILL IS BRUTAL
WHY CANT IT BE MEEEEEEEEEEE
 
???? What the actual fuck this is my exact situation rn. Like to every detail
Damn bro. Did she also find another guy? She found a manlet from her village. It's not that he has a higher SMV, but that he met her before me. I didn't wanna go on that date. I was scared.
 
Damn bro. Did she also find another guy? She found a manlet from her village. It's not that he has a higher SMV, but that he met her before me. I didn't wanna go on that date. I was scared.
Not yet thankfully... But i can't really see this going that much longer anymore
 
Not yet thankfully... But i can't really see this going that much longer anymore
Damn. What are ur stats and what are her stats?
Height, weight and facial rating.
And what went wrong?
 
bro good luck is all ima say
 

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