hairenjoyercel
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You know that corny line "hunt butterflys and they'll eventually run away, take care of your garden and they'll come naturally"? Yadda yadda bs? Thats NOT WHERE IM GOING NEITHER.
Happiness is most fertile in the most frictionless, seamless way, together with the most care free, living in the present, carpe diem way possible. Let me expand.
The most happy times i had with myself, were NEVER EVER attached to performance or when i proved my aptitude to whatever present activity i was engaging with, not at all (although it can happen that way).
It was when i simply had the most empty head possible. Just being, no burden to carry, no weight to lift and carry on.
It is in those moments when you: Simply. Dont. Care.
And i dont mean that in that performative cringy nonchalant aura farming gen Z BS NOR that boomer esque, dumbass, assholish "HE DOESNT A FUCK BRO!!" attitude. These are cheap copycats of people who present the quality itself.
It has more to do with free flowing, being in the zone, let it flow type of mentality.
It is when you so "deep in the trenches" of not trying, not performing, not putting on any front whatsoever, not caring about anything feasibly possible or impossible, that you cant feel anything but happy.
It cant, unfortunately, be taught or seeked out. It just... happens.
Im only describing it. Making it happen unfortunately beats the purpose of it, completely.
But... you'll remember this post once you feel it (if you do)...
Happiness is most fertile in the most frictionless, seamless way, together with the most care free, living in the present, carpe diem way possible. Let me expand.
The most happy times i had with myself, were NEVER EVER attached to performance or when i proved my aptitude to whatever present activity i was engaging with, not at all (although it can happen that way).
It was when i simply had the most empty head possible. Just being, no burden to carry, no weight to lift and carry on.
It is in those moments when you: Simply. Dont. Care.
And i dont mean that in that performative cringy nonchalant aura farming gen Z BS NOR that boomer esque, dumbass, assholish "HE DOESNT A FUCK BRO!!" attitude. These are cheap copycats of people who present the quality itself.
It has more to do with free flowing, being in the zone, let it flow type of mentality.
It is when you so "deep in the trenches" of not trying, not performing, not putting on any front whatsoever, not caring about anything feasibly possible or impossible, that you cant feel anything but happy.
It cant, unfortunately, be taught or seeked out. It just... happens.
Im only describing it. Making it happen unfortunately beats the purpose of it, completely.
But... you'll remember this post once you feel it (if you do)...
