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Going over how from a purely biological perspective how you can be pleasured and pleasure the foid you are digging into.
Penis LENGTH
You've heard it 1000x that Girth is more important than length, and this is true, but what is the length MINIMUM to reach the important parts of the vaginal cavity?
Depending on sex position, you'll need at LEAST 4 INCHES in length to reach the women's Gspot, which is between 2-3 inches inside the vagina, and upwards. Most men have an upwards dick that curves upwards similar to a banana, this is the most ideal angle for stimulating that region.
4 inches will get you there in some position where the butt does not get in the way, which depending on the size of her ass will determine how deep you can go from a backwards position.
Penis GIRTH
You've heard girth is important, but why?
Women love the "feeling full" that they get from a dick with girth, the sensation of fullness or being "stretched" during penetration.
Good News for men, Vagina's ADAPT to the girth, big or slightly below average, and the women can squeeze the penis while inside, so there's that... But ideally you want your member to do the work by the sheer size alone.
AVERAGE Resting non-Aroused Vaginal Dimension:
- 8–10 cm (circumference) which 3.1–3.9 inches
AVERAGE Aroused Vaginal Dimension:
- 12–22 cm (circumference) which is 4.7-8.7 inches
AVERAGE Erect Penis:
- 11.6 cm which is 4.6 inches
When women were given a PHYSICAL model of a penis, they said the ideal girth was 4.7–5.1 inches, but the sample size was American whores so take this data with little value.
Thankfully, Girth is one of the easier things to fix. With a penis pump you can get roughly around 0.5-1 inch girth over 1-2 years of pumping consistently. 2-6 months you'll get around 0.3-0.5 inches in erect girth.
Women's Orgasm
2018 US Study 1,055 women 18.4% from vaginal intercourse alone
2023 descriptive study with 119 young heterosexual women found 22% from vaginal intercourse alone
What does this mean? Firstly, if you got a woman who actually orgasms from penetration alone, you struck gold. For the rest of the unlucky men, they must focus o n the button, the Clitoris.
For context, the Clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, the same ones on your fingers. You can rub your fingers together to gauge the sensivitivy.
For the unmutilated men with Foreskin, you have 20,000 of those same nerves on your foreskin. So 8,000 on a small surface area quite literally makes it a pleasure button.
DO NOT let her use a vibrator on her clitoris during intercourse, it's emasculating. What you can do is:
- Rub your penis on the Clitoris before insertion to "edge" her. Women love to be teased. This grinding motion had 76% of women in a 2021 study as making penetration more pleasurable.
- Put a PILLOW under he lower back, this perfectly aligns your penis to hit her upper vaginal wall stimulating her like no other position can. This is probably THEE best position for hitting her pleasure spots. It tilts her pelvis for better G-spot/upper wall contact + easier clit grinding from pubic bone.
- Stimulate the clitoris throughout intercourse, 1-2 fingers around the clitoris in a circular motion, grow some balls, and talk to her while you do it. Dirty talk activates brain "erogenous zones" it'll make her feel desired and increase her libido/horniness. There was actually a recent study in 2025 where women and their partner used vulgar terms like "pussy" in sexual context, there was an INCREASE in frequent orgasms. Justin Lehmiller's survery's have it at 93% of all women wanting dirty talk, and 57% of women DO DIRTY talk with their partners often.
Summary of everything
Penis LENGTH
You've heard it 1000x that Girth is more important than length, and this is true, but what is the length MINIMUM to reach the important parts of the vaginal cavity?
Depending on sex position, you'll need at LEAST 4 INCHES in length to reach the women's Gspot, which is between 2-3 inches inside the vagina, and upwards. Most men have an upwards dick that curves upwards similar to a banana, this is the most ideal angle for stimulating that region.
4 inches will get you there in some position where the butt does not get in the way, which depending on the size of her ass will determine how deep you can go from a backwards position.
Penis GIRTH
You've heard girth is important, but why?
Women love the "feeling full" that they get from a dick with girth, the sensation of fullness or being "stretched" during penetration.
Good News for men, Vagina's ADAPT to the girth, big or slightly below average, and the women can squeeze the penis while inside, so there's that... But ideally you want your member to do the work by the sheer size alone.
AVERAGE Resting non-Aroused Vaginal Dimension:
- 8–10 cm (circumference) which 3.1–3.9 inches
AVERAGE Aroused Vaginal Dimension:
- 12–22 cm (circumference) which is 4.7-8.7 inches
AVERAGE Erect Penis:
- 11.6 cm which is 4.6 inches
When women were given a PHYSICAL model of a penis, they said the ideal girth was 4.7–5.1 inches, but the sample size was American whores so take this data with little value.
Thankfully, Girth is one of the easier things to fix. With a penis pump you can get roughly around 0.5-1 inch girth over 1-2 years of pumping consistently. 2-6 months you'll get around 0.3-0.5 inches in erect girth.
Women's Orgasm
2018 US Study 1,055 women 18.4% from vaginal intercourse alone
2023 descriptive study with 119 young heterosexual women found 22% from vaginal intercourse alone
What does this mean? Firstly, if you got a woman who actually orgasms from penetration alone, you struck gold. For the rest of the unlucky men, they must focus o n the button, the Clitoris.
For context, the Clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings, the same ones on your fingers. You can rub your fingers together to gauge the sensivitivy.
For the unmutilated men with Foreskin, you have 20,000 of those same nerves on your foreskin. So 8,000 on a small surface area quite literally makes it a pleasure button.
DO NOT let her use a vibrator on her clitoris during intercourse, it's emasculating. What you can do is:
- Rub your penis on the Clitoris before insertion to "edge" her. Women love to be teased. This grinding motion had 76% of women in a 2021 study as making penetration more pleasurable.
- Put a PILLOW under he lower back, this perfectly aligns your penis to hit her upper vaginal wall stimulating her like no other position can. This is probably THEE best position for hitting her pleasure spots. It tilts her pelvis for better G-spot/upper wall contact + easier clit grinding from pubic bone.
- Stimulate the clitoris throughout intercourse, 1-2 fingers around the clitoris in a circular motion, grow some balls, and talk to her while you do it. Dirty talk activates brain "erogenous zones" it'll make her feel desired and increase her libido/horniness. There was actually a recent study in 2025 where women and their partner used vulgar terms like "pussy" in sexual context, there was an INCREASE in frequent orgasms. Justin Lehmiller's survery's have it at 93% of all women wanting dirty talk, and 57% of women DO DIRTY talk with their partners often.
Summary of everything
- Full arousal first (foreplay) = vagina tents/expands for better fit/stretch.
- Use girth for natural "full" pressure (4.7–5+ inches is best but AIM THE HIGHEST possible).
- Hit G-spot with 4+ inches + good angle/curve.
- Add constant clit contact via rocking/grinding/finger(s)
- Pillow tilt for optimal pleasure for her.
- Learn or start doing dirty talk for CLEAR amplification you will BOTH get.
