How to improve confidence?

[Deleted member 17585]

Im in the top 10k in clash Royale but that doesn’t give me confidence that just makes me feel ashamed

Try stuff in the real world if that shames you.

 

[incelest504]

there is no way bro

I think that’s the wrong way of going at it, a ugly guy with confidence is still better than one without, even if it won’t get you love it may get you friendships

 

[incelest504]

True, germans are kinda cool ngl

You have plenty to be proud of as a German. Even if you're not a national socialist, there is a lot more to German history. The Holy Roman Empire, German Empire, Kingdom of Prussia, etc.. Be proud that your culture invented people such as Wernher von Braun, for example.

 

[incelest504]

I think that’s the wrong way of going at it, a ugly guy with confidence is still better than one without, even if it won’t get you love it may get you friendships

I sound naive

 

[coispet]

I think that’s the wrong way of going at it, a ugly guy with confidence is still better than one without, even if it won’t get you love it may get you friendships

fuck friendships

 

[incelest504]

Try stuff in the real world if that shames you.

Yeah, I don’t really know what tho

 

[incelest504]

fuck friendships

True

 

[Deleted member 17585]

Yeah, I don’t really know what tho

Do you have parents/family in your life? If so, ask what they do. For example, I have family members that do woodworking.

 

[incelest504]

Do you have parents/family in your life? If so, ask what they do. For example, I have family members that do woodworking.

Woodworking is pretty cool, like carving stuff out of wood or like chopping down trees? Yeah but theyre all into stuff like football or celebrity’s which I’m wait to cool and edgy for

 

[rand anon]

I think I already got really good positive validation yet I can’t seem to take any of the validation, the only things that reach me are the negative validations

Looks like ur just genetically inclined to not hve much confidence then

 

[incelest504]

Looks like ur just genetically inclined to not hve much confidence then

It does feel like that but I really want to believe that that’s not the case

 

[Deleted member 17585]

Woodworking is pretty cool, like carving stuff out of wood or like chopping down trees? Yeah but theyre all into stuff like football or celebrity’s which I’m wait to cool and edgy for

Wood carving specifically, my uncle-in-law makes spoons from trees. If you think it would interest you I'd try it out. I think the best hobby for anyone to get into however is cooking since good food literally improves your SMV.

 

[incelest504]

Wood carving specifically, my uncle-in-law makes spoons from trees. If you think it would interest you I'd try it out. I think the best hobby for anyone to get into however is cooking since good food literally improves your SMV.

sounds pretty cool man, I wanna carve a spear out of wood and go hunting with it, or a bow, both are pretty cool, true cooking is such a smart hobby I think I’ll try to max my cooking skills thanks

 

[Deleted member 17585]

sounds pretty cool man, I wanna carve a spear out of wood and go hunting with it, or a bow, both are pretty cool, true cooking is such a smart hobby I think I’ll try to max my cooking skills thanks

Good! I am glad I could help, the best thing to do is to gtfo this site and to focus, because remember, the people with really high post counts are probably incel.

 

[incelest504]

Good! I am glad I could help, the best thing to do is to gtfo this site and to focus, because remember, the people with really high post counts are probably incel.

Yeah I don’t think this site is good for my mental health, there are a lot of people believing that everything is just genetics and that you can’t really improve on your own but even if that’s true I still don’t want to believe it

 

[Kirby7000]

acting a violent way will make you more confident thats why i recommend you be loud in public or do some public trolling such as dance in public... it will make you perseive the people around you as less of a threat and you will relax and stop being so axious... look at black people they are the ugliest but loudest and most confident race... this is because they are violent and high testosterone... and always ready to kill. You have to become a killer.

This. I'm black, just not the cool dangerous ones. In highschool I shit you not, I danced every single day with headphones in like a looney bc I thought girls liked dancers. alot of people thought I was weird, but I couldn't realize. I even had a girl say I was hot and I didn't understand

 

[incelest504]

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Wdym by dnp dinitrophenol?

 

[incelest504]

This. I'm black, just not the cool dangerous ones. In highschool I shit you not, I danced every single day with headphones in like a looney bc I thought girls liked dancers. alot of people thought I was weird, but I couldn't realize. I even had a girl say I was hot and I didn't understand

I think dancing in Highschool like that is pretty cool cause it comes across like you wouldn’t care of what others think about you which is one of the coolest things to be imo

 

[incelest504]

This. I'm black, just not the cool dangerous ones. In highschool I shit you not, I danced every single day with headphones in like a looney bc I thought girls liked dancers. alot of people thought I was weird, but I couldn't realize. I even had a girl say I was hot and I didn't understand

So did dancing in Highschool get you bitches?

 

[Kirby7000]

So did dancing in Highschool get you bitches?

Nah it makes you seem like a weirdo and people began to be turned off bc I did it so much. The only thing it did was make me not give af about dancing in public or doing something weird in public now.

 

[incelest504]

Nah it makes you seem like a weirdo and people began to be turned off bc I did it so much. The only thing it did was make me not give af about dancing in public or doing something weird in public now.

Damn not giving a fuck about doing weird things in public sounds pretty cool tho, I always find it cool when I see people who do stuff like that cause I admire them for not caring or atleast looking like they wouldn’t care

 

[sam12344343]

acting a violent way will make you more confident thats why i recommend you be loud in public or do some public trolling such as dance in public... it will make you perseive the people around you as less of a threat and you will relax and stop being so axious... look at black people they are the ugliest but loudest and most confident race... this is because they are violent and high testosterone... and always ready to kill. You have to become a killer.

red pill advice

 

[applesrgreat]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

confidence is directly correlated on how competent you are so if you are competent in alot of areas (obviously you cant change things you cant control like the size of your nose or your eyelid shape unless you do surgery)

so things like weightlifting ( massive confidence booster),

going to a fight gym (massive confidence booster),

groom yourself even if your ugly

most people wont do these things and just rot on this forum but if your different and do these things youll be way more confident and competent than most people here.

 

[applesrgreat]

I’ve always hoped that a wide 6‘4 frame could balance out but I dont think it’s enough, I do feel like I maybe could get women if I had confidence and would loose weight

tbh in your situation the only way is to go redpill because you got massive potential but your not doing shit to achieve it if your actually serious get off this forum and go grind cus otherwise your going to waste hours. you said you wanted to lose weight so stop eating junk food.

 

[incelest504]

confidence is directly correlated on how competent you are so if you are competent in alot of areas (obviously you cant change things you cant control like the size of your nose or your eyelid shape unless you do surgery)

so things like weightlifting ( massive confidence booster),

going to a fight gym (massive confidence booster),

groom yourself even if your ugly

most people wont do these things and just rot on this forum but if your different and do these things youll be way more confident and competent than most people here.

Thanks, I wanna start going to the gym more often but my mind is constantly finding dumb excuses to not go

 

[incelest504]

tbh in your situation the only way is to go redpill because you got massive potential but your not doing shit to achieve it if your actually serious get off this forum and go grind cus otherwise your going to waste hours. you said you wanted to lose weight so stop eating junk food.

I think your right, I’m just crying about being ugly without really trying to change anything, your comment actually gave me a will in trying to achieve my goals thanks

 

[applesrgreat]

Thanks, I wanna start going to the gym more often but my mind is constantly finding dumb excuses to not go

aight very easy problem. Just listen to andrew tate he is literately a source of unlimited motivation trust me.

 

[incelest504]

aight very easy problem. Just listen to andrew tate he is literately a source of unlimited motivation trust me.

Nah I’ll have to disagree with Andrew tate, he doesn’t really project the things I think are right but expect from that I think your other advice helped me a lot thanks man

 

[applesrgreat]

I think your right, I’m just crying about being ugly without really trying to change anything, your comment actually gave me a will in trying to achieve my goals thanks

i dont know what you look like but if your fat you have a good glowup ahead of you i believe in you i hope you succeed and dont get complacent like the others on this forum

 

[incelest504]

i dont know what you look like but if your fat you have a good glowup ahead of you i believe in you i hope you succeed and dont get complacent like the others on this forum

Thanks for your help and advice I think it seriously helped me a lot

 

[applesrgreat]

Nah I’ll have to disagree with Andrew tate, he doesn’t really project the things I think are right but expect from that I think your other advice helped me a lot thanks man

yeah bro i wanted to be more positive after i saw this forum and people thinking its over

i went from a 4/10 sad delusional narccissist to a 7/10 chadlite and very humble in that im very happy with my life and you can definitely change too

 

[incelest504]

yeah bro i wanted to be more positive after i saw this forum and people thinking its over

i went from a 4/10 sad delusional narccissist to a 7/10 chadlite and very humble in that im very happy with my life and you can definitely change too

Nice man, I hope I’ll be able to also achieve that happiness one day

 

[incelest504]

Edit cause I’m to dumb to delete message

 

[applesrgreat]

Nice man, I hope I’ll be able to also achieve that happiness one day

i hope i can hear from you in a couple months to see how your doing and if you need help private chat me good luck bro

 

[incelest504]

Thanks I will once I’ve improved, good luck to you to man

i hope i can hear from you in a couple months to see how your doing and if you need help private chat me good luck bro

 

[incelest504]

Im my opinion confidence is internal. You percieve others as more confident you, more valuable of coversation.

Erase this belief from your head.

Either by carefully observing their opinions not align with their actions. Which makes them look more human. Or by becoming better than the average person at anything.

You will realize how confidence is actually a way of looking at everyone as not better or worse than u. But rather equal and deserving of what u offer.


But if u want the confidence to pickup chicks on the streets, u need to become an actor and “fake it till u make it” which surprisingly requires no confidence

Looking at their actions to see once they don’t align with their opinions to see the humanity in them sounds really smart thanks

 

[Deleted member 16970]

good post, too mad i cant practice "fake it you make it" because i dont even have a place to meet girls without being a creep, maybe the gym is the only place i could posibily talk to a girl. not having a social circle is death

its very hard these days. my close friends who would be normie, and NT, are not getting LTRs. Such strange times fr fr

 

[rand anon]

groom yourself even if your ugly

most people wont do these things and just rot on this forum but if your different and do these things youll be way more confident and competent than most people here

Absolutely brootal. I’ve softmaxxed to oblivion but am still extremely unconfident due to my shit genetics

 

[applesrgreat]

Absolutely brootal. I’ve softmaxxed to oblivion but am still extremely unconfident due to my shit genetics

would you mind sending a picture of what you ll in dms?

 

[szolliontaraelis]

Height/Dick size = Confidence

 

[AspiringMogger]

Im wondering how I can improve my confidence even if someone’s ugly there’s gotta be a way to get more confidence I just don’t know how

Go into sales and get rejected a lot. If you good at it you become more confident and you grow thicker skin. Cold calls is the best way.

 

[incelest504]

Height/Dick size = Confidence

Im over average in both yet I’m unconfident as hell, doesn’t get me anywhere without a good mindset

 

[incelest504]

Go into sales and get rejected a lot. If you good at it you become more confident and you grow thicker skin. Cold calls is the best way.

That sounds pretty smart, does it gotta be with rejection or can I also just like talk to strangers about random stuff to umtobe small talk and confidence?

 

[AspiringMogger]

That sounds pretty smart, does it gotta be with rejection or can I also just like talk to strangers about random stuff to umtobe small talk and confidence?

No try sales as a job. Rejections comes with the job and you are naturally gonna grow a thick skin.

 

[IsItOver?]

Read “the prince”

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Try and find confidence through copes (hobbies/skills) if you can't find them in your looks. I personally get my confidence from my blood and skin color, and all people should be proud of their background.

Acquire skills

 

[incelest504]

Acquire skills

Im a semi pro at clash Royale but I don’t think hoes are into that even tho back then a girl said how can someone get even cooler after I told her that I’m pretty good at clash Royale so maybe I’m wrong and videogames actually are attractive

 

[incelest504]

Read “the prince”

You mean the one from the 16th century or am I looking at the wrong one?

 

[rand anon]

would you mind sending a picture of what you ll in dms?

My face isn’t rly the issue, it’s my manletism and non NT brain

 

[applesrgreat]

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