How to know what people really think of you

[GetThatBread]

I don’t need others feedback, opinions, or validation to know where I stand in life, that’s a narcissist trait you need narcissist supply.

i already know I’m bottom of the barrel, all you need is a little self awareness.

You can’t be a narcissist with low self image/esteem; if you do have that then that’s the textbook definition of coping and compensation

 

[BigBoy]

Relatable. I still remember when my mum said all kinds of shit about me.

Jfl my mom tells me Ill be homeless all time and Ill never amount to anything

 

[Deleted member 3043]

false unless it's real sinceer good friends or family.

 

[Bewusst]

Happened to me again few days ago, i thought its worth mentioning

what did he/she/they say about you?

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

You can’t be a narcissist with low self image/esteem; if you do have that then that’s the textbook definition of coping and compensation

Narcissism is low self esteem, zero self esteem actually, you need narcissistic supply from other people to constantly affirm your grandiose overcompensating place in the world whether you’re that good or not.

also what are you talking about? Me or narcissism?

I don’t need to constantly ask people where I am in life to validate myself, I already know, that’s narcissism I’m not narcissistic or coping or overcompensating, like I said you just need some self awareness and intelligence to know who are where you are.
Narcissists don’t really have that in that aspect and need an external source to know who they are.

narcissists are in fact coping and cover compensating, they are broken bitter people inside, not healthy confidence.

A psychologist once said as a child they may have been over praised and spoiled as a child for things like looks or being good at school or in a sport, but when they need emotional support or affection the parents aren’t there.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

and if you are a basement dweller that hope on pop and mom help 24/7 despite beeing in your 20s, you deserve beeing treated like tbh, and i include myself in it, you can't imagine how much it's a sadness for your parents to see such a thing.

 

[GetThatBread]

Narcissism is low self esteem, zero self esteem actually, you need narcissistic supply from other people to constantly affirm your grandiose overcompensating place in the world whether you’re that good or not.

also what are you talking about? Me or narcissism?

I don’t need to constantly ask people where I am in life to validate myself, I already know, that’s narcissism I’m not narcissistic or coping or overcompensating, like I said you just need some self awareness and intelligence to know who are where you are.
Narcissists don’t really have that in that aspect and need an external source to know who they are.

narcissists are in fact coping and cover compensating, they are broken bitter people inside, not healthy confidence.

A psychologist once said as a child they may have been over praised and spoiled as a child for things like looks or being good at school or in a sport, but when they need emotional support or affection the parents aren’t there.

I wasn’t talking about you; just in general. But I like your input on it. Does Looksmaxxing mean that we all have low self esteem? Because if you truly felt complete you wouldn’t feel the need to get surgery

 

[PenileFacialSurgery]

I wasn’t talking about you; just in general. But I like your input on it. Does Looksmaxxing mean that we all have low self esteem? Because if you truly felt complete you wouldn’t feel the need to get surgery

Depends on the level of LooksMaxing, skincare hair work out is one thing, surgeries is another

most of us do indeed have low self esteem, me included.

but most all of us just want a better life and do what we want, better looks can get us there. Looks ofc are extremely important in life.

 

[einzigartig]

Doesn‘t matter if it‘s some psl aspie, your normie friend irl, or your parents. They‘ll never be 100% honest with you, because they don‘t wanna hurt your feelings or fear being countered by a quick-witted comeback. If you want to know what those people really think of you (the negative aspects about you), then all you have to do is being overly narcy, very unsympathetic, annoying etc. Hurt their ego, provoke them, annoy them, act overly confident. Trust me, most people react with the darkest thought about you. It‘s a technique to spot your failos or where you stand in life (not just looks based). It‘s eye-opening sometimes. Normies can be brutal, they do these commonly and then they apologize for saying the truth, jfl.

Happened to me again few days ago, i thought its worth mentioning

it definitely works on normies cause their ego is easy asf to hurt with like 1 or 2 simple comments on them

also it is something different if you annoy or provoke them for too long ofc they're gonna snap some day otherwise they would be soyboys ngl

 

[PostivityCore]

crazy that i think abt this then i see a thread on it. good shit