Before I start, let me make it known: this is for optimally high-schoolers or college students- this is from my personal experience growing up different from others. Do not replicate each step exactly, instead try to apply it to your own social life and skills and let it fluctuate depending on your circumstances.
Normied and their emotions are much more complex than you think; as much as looks are, obviously not on the same level of importance. To replicate them is not to establish immovable reactions and qualities on each emotion and enact them when socially demanded; emotions are fluid and difficult to understand if you cant express them or feel them, especially worse if you can’t react to them typically.
To understand individuals:
Your first interaction with an individual should go no different than an interaction with a store clerk: depending on how you want to control them, you either make them feel like they’re less than you or more. For most of you the best you can do is make them feel as if they are more than you. Ask questions, react to their answers or actions; not overly emotional, at a monotone level showing that your first interaction has you shelled up. Humans without noticing will fight for approval. Even if we’ve established they are more than you, subconsciously they are trying to prove themselves as superior. They’ll reveal interests as time goes on, things they dont like, trauma, but before that starts you will have to show you are less than them. That means sharing the same interests but at a lower level, or expressing an experience that you found scary or unpleasant or interesting that is smaller then most people’s experience. Example:
“The spiciest food I’ve aten is a Dorito”
N: “the spiciest food I’ve eaten is a ghost pepper.”
This is an obviously retarded thing because Doritos aren’t spicy at all, but your experience is less than theirs so we win.
As you build the relationship, even just watching or listening to them can give you a great understanding of who they are. Humans sometimes without noticing copy others: if you use a certain word around your friends and a new friend comes by, if they like you theres a chance they’ll begin to use that word. Before you mimic emotions, mimic their actions. Literally. Copy what they do, if they fix their hair fix yours. So on and so on.
HOW TO ACTUALLY MIMIC EMOTIONS
To be clear, you will never be normal. You will always be separate from normies if you want to be comfortable, because believe me being in the center of it all with all the normies is draining and makes me want to rope. The best you can do is be a close by person or group to the “popular” people. To assess how your emotion board will be: you need to know the most common race (even if it sounds dumb) the type of people you’re around and the environment in general. If you are in a white suburb things will be much easier. Whereas if your in a black neighborhood or ethnic area where school is more messy, things will be sort of harder (if you are not ethnic, if you are follow this guide and the extra step)
Step one obviously see how people handle crisis. If people go crazy over fights etc you literally can establish a group of people and lightly mask for a few minutes or hours with them to relax. If your school is literally the most peaceful thing ever like a suburban area or a college word will spread fast if your weird. You absolutely cannot stop masking. Most likely in this scenario id overtime establish myself as superior over this group of people since there isn’t much they can do and its easier to do whatever the fuck you want but that'll take well over a few months.
Step two get a group
These people should be either slightly weird typicals or people who aren’t problematic but are near the center. This is basically your headquarters. Parties: this group, issue with teachers or other students: this group, scared to be alone: this group. This is the closest you'll get to the center in a friendly way because when everyone thinks your superior of them people begin to avoid you or don't really try to make friends with you. Don’t look for this group, if you follows these steps they’ll show up alone. You’ll subconsciously pick and choose of your liking.
Step 3 is to copy
Yes its literally just follow shit like a sheep. You’ll blend in easier, people won’t point you out in a crowd and its not unbearable. Stay away from annoying trends and don't FOLLOW FOLLOW just copy. Copy. Thats basically this entire thing. Humans have this instinct where when they see a group of people doing something they sorta copy. So just do it. Buy fake balenciaga, post yourself doing stupid shit on your social media, DO NOT SHOW WEAKNESS. Don’t post about family, pets, money issues, don’t even tell your friends. Don’t tell them real trauma. Use fake trauma, see if they use it against you in a struggle. Very handy tool if you like having a safety net.
Step 4 is to notice social ques. If people are quiet shut the fuck up, people are angry act angry and if people are laughing even a smile can make people not look at you twice. If you pay close enough attention you’ll feel the color in the room shift. You wont even realize it you’ll smell the anger off of people.
EXTRA STEP FOR PEOPLE WITH HARDER ENVIRONMENTS:
This was my environment, so I have experienced it. You will most likely have to make bad choices. Your young after all, and all young people do stupid bullshit. Smoke weed, get into a fist fight, make a girl cheat on her boyfriend. Most people in your environment do that so blend in.
HOW TO LOSE YOUR KHHV
This is actually much easier if you look good or at least over like 5’8 and blend in. Your gonna get some low tier whore if your kinda ugly but its better than nothing. Just interact with females, pick one your not interested in/ugly and become friends with her, as long as shes near the center she’ll mention you, other girls will begin to know you, and before you know it some girl in your bio class got put at a table with you.
Wtf do you do though? Same thing I said before- this is no different, except you need to mimic more and show your similar instead of less. Do not raw dog it and ask for her number the first class you get. Wait a little, wait for an occupying event like the teachers doing stations around the classroom to take notes on how frogs make babies or something. While your near her just pop the question, with some charisma (I cant give you that your gonna have to figure it out). Get her to hang out with you, begin to normalize hand shakes or “dap ups” and hold her hand for a little longer, eventually after hanging out enough pull her into a hug, then you’ll kiss trust me it'll happen, and you’ll eventually hold hands. She might take things to the next level you just have to be patient, but wear protection don't do no kinky shit and make her comfortable like after care etc.
Congrats, your no longer a virgin, and blend in pretty well to regular people. This is the best case scenario, where you do it all right, be patient and obviously look good. Tlpur always. Again this is not for everyone just my personal experience. Yes the bio class story is real and yes i still haven't forgotten its been years.
Normied and their emotions are much more complex than you think; as much as looks are, obviously not on the same level of importance. To replicate them is not to establish immovable reactions and qualities on each emotion and enact them when socially demanded; emotions are fluid and difficult to understand if you cant express them or feel them, especially worse if you can’t react to them typically.
To understand individuals:
Your first interaction with an individual should go no different than an interaction with a store clerk: depending on how you want to control them, you either make them feel like they’re less than you or more. For most of you the best you can do is make them feel as if they are more than you. Ask questions, react to their answers or actions; not overly emotional, at a monotone level showing that your first interaction has you shelled up. Humans without noticing will fight for approval. Even if we’ve established they are more than you, subconsciously they are trying to prove themselves as superior. They’ll reveal interests as time goes on, things they dont like, trauma, but before that starts you will have to show you are less than them. That means sharing the same interests but at a lower level, or expressing an experience that you found scary or unpleasant or interesting that is smaller then most people’s experience. Example:
“The spiciest food I’ve aten is a Dorito”
N: “the spiciest food I’ve eaten is a ghost pepper.”
This is an obviously retarded thing because Doritos aren’t spicy at all, but your experience is less than theirs so we win.
As you build the relationship, even just watching or listening to them can give you a great understanding of who they are. Humans sometimes without noticing copy others: if you use a certain word around your friends and a new friend comes by, if they like you theres a chance they’ll begin to use that word. Before you mimic emotions, mimic their actions. Literally. Copy what they do, if they fix their hair fix yours. So on and so on.
HOW TO ACTUALLY MIMIC EMOTIONS
To be clear, you will never be normal. You will always be separate from normies if you want to be comfortable, because believe me being in the center of it all with all the normies is draining and makes me want to rope. The best you can do is be a close by person or group to the “popular” people. To assess how your emotion board will be: you need to know the most common race (even if it sounds dumb) the type of people you’re around and the environment in general. If you are in a white suburb things will be much easier. Whereas if your in a black neighborhood or ethnic area where school is more messy, things will be sort of harder (if you are not ethnic, if you are follow this guide and the extra step)
Step one obviously see how people handle crisis. If people go crazy over fights etc you literally can establish a group of people and lightly mask for a few minutes or hours with them to relax. If your school is literally the most peaceful thing ever like a suburban area or a college word will spread fast if your weird. You absolutely cannot stop masking. Most likely in this scenario id overtime establish myself as superior over this group of people since there isn’t much they can do and its easier to do whatever the fuck you want but that'll take well over a few months.
Step two get a group
These people should be either slightly weird typicals or people who aren’t problematic but are near the center. This is basically your headquarters. Parties: this group, issue with teachers or other students: this group, scared to be alone: this group. This is the closest you'll get to the center in a friendly way because when everyone thinks your superior of them people begin to avoid you or don't really try to make friends with you. Don’t look for this group, if you follows these steps they’ll show up alone. You’ll subconsciously pick and choose of your liking.
Step 3 is to copy
Yes its literally just follow shit like a sheep. You’ll blend in easier, people won’t point you out in a crowd and its not unbearable. Stay away from annoying trends and don't FOLLOW FOLLOW just copy. Copy. Thats basically this entire thing. Humans have this instinct where when they see a group of people doing something they sorta copy. So just do it. Buy fake balenciaga, post yourself doing stupid shit on your social media, DO NOT SHOW WEAKNESS. Don’t post about family, pets, money issues, don’t even tell your friends. Don’t tell them real trauma. Use fake trauma, see if they use it against you in a struggle. Very handy tool if you like having a safety net.
Step 4 is to notice social ques. If people are quiet shut the fuck up, people are angry act angry and if people are laughing even a smile can make people not look at you twice. If you pay close enough attention you’ll feel the color in the room shift. You wont even realize it you’ll smell the anger off of people.
EXTRA STEP FOR PEOPLE WITH HARDER ENVIRONMENTS:
This was my environment, so I have experienced it. You will most likely have to make bad choices. Your young after all, and all young people do stupid bullshit. Smoke weed, get into a fist fight, make a girl cheat on her boyfriend. Most people in your environment do that so blend in.
HOW TO LOSE YOUR KHHV
This is actually much easier if you look good or at least over like 5’8 and blend in. Your gonna get some low tier whore if your kinda ugly but its better than nothing. Just interact with females, pick one your not interested in/ugly and become friends with her, as long as shes near the center she’ll mention you, other girls will begin to know you, and before you know it some girl in your bio class got put at a table with you.
Wtf do you do though? Same thing I said before- this is no different, except you need to mimic more and show your similar instead of less. Do not raw dog it and ask for her number the first class you get. Wait a little, wait for an occupying event like the teachers doing stations around the classroom to take notes on how frogs make babies or something. While your near her just pop the question, with some charisma (I cant give you that your gonna have to figure it out). Get her to hang out with you, begin to normalize hand shakes or “dap ups” and hold her hand for a little longer, eventually after hanging out enough pull her into a hug, then you’ll kiss trust me it'll happen, and you’ll eventually hold hands. She might take things to the next level you just have to be patient, but wear protection don't do no kinky shit and make her comfortable like after care etc.
Congrats, your no longer a virgin, and blend in pretty well to regular people. This is the best case scenario, where you do it all right, be patient and obviously look good. Tlpur always. Again this is not for everyone just my personal experience. Yes the bio class story is real and yes i still haven't forgotten its been years.
