How To Not Patternize Your Parents?

[randomvanish]

When i encounter a girl or a friend group, i start to overthink about possibilities that lead to happen and act weird towards a girl. Like "she's like my mom/relative, she'll end up being a whore/selfish/annoying etc. so i don't want her".

I just cannot stop think in that way and i sometimes irrelevantly prevent myself getting a relationship. Because, i think my parents and relatives are weird, majority of people are "normal". So i just need to be relaxed and feel void against women.

 

[micropenis29]

good question

i believe the first and most important thing to realize is that, if you're on this site, your parents were absolutely awful and messed you up quite badly in a lot of different ways (no need to resent them for it; they did their best and are only human)

many here will not want to admit that they were poorly raised, but it's true; struggling to attract women is NOT normal

after you accept that, you'll no longer worship your parents the way so many men do

this will provide you with clarity

you'll be able to step back and objecitvely analyze what your bad habits are, what your incorrect beliefs are, how you've been gaslit, etc. and it will be clear what changes you need to make to accomplish your social & relationship goals

 

[Deleted member 6403]

many here will not want to admit that, but it's true; struggling to attract women is NOT normal

Yea not need to rub it in doe, I cant have sex, big deal