how to socialise

[jstaby]

i was never introverted/nd/high inhib (at least on public), always could interact with ppl normally. i have a lot of irl and online connections.

but i dont have any friends, any geniune connections with people, to who i could talk abt anything at any time. and when i text first i feel like they only respond, but dont really talk to me. even online friends

how do i even socialise? how people make new friends, how they talk to each other? even on internet and discord, how do you find someone and maintain this kind of relationship

 

[Stooge]

 

[jstaby]

bump

 

[VohnnyBoy]

i was never introverted/nd/high inhib

if you really weren't you wouldn't be asking how to socialize in the first place. Exposure therapy or start using benzos

 

[Lefty Rankin]

i was never introverted/nd/high inhib (at least on public), always could interact with ppl normally. i have a lot of irl and online connections.

but i dont have any friends, any geniune connections with people, to who i could talk abt anything at any time. and when i text first i feel like they only respond, but dont really talk to me. even online friends

how do i even socialise? how people make new friends, how they talk to each other? even on internet and discord, how do you find someone and maintain this kind of relationship

Haven you ever had to sit there and do nothing with people your age before?

 

[jstaby]

Haven you ever had to sit there and do nothing with people your age before?

it doesnt create longterm friendships tho

 

[Lefty Rankin]

it doesnt create longterm friendships tho

You and your friendships.

 

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[laworg]

i was never introverted/nd/high inhib (at least on public), always could interact with ppl normally. i have a lot of irl and online connections.

but i dont have any friends, any geniune connections with people, to who i could talk abt anything at any time. and when i text first i feel like they only respond, but dont really talk to me. even online friends

how do i even socialise? how people make new friends, how they talk to each other? even on internet and discord, how do you find someone and maintain this kind of relationship

Kinda hard and weird to do in nature if ur at a job or school its extremely easy

 

[bloodymanor]

Alcohol

 

[PrettyLights]

You go up to someone and you go like “Hello”


Fucking dumbass