How to Stop Being “Chopped” / Blackpilled IRL

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Hey everyone, I need some real advice. I feel like I’m constantly being treated as if I’m ugly in real life even tho I’ve been trying my best to advance my looks for 2 years (gym 2 years, looksmaxxng 1 year) My close friends reassure me that I’m not ugly, but girls act the opposite, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence.

Girls never give me the time of day and even friends make me feel like I’m not heard sometimes or if I’m talking to a wall
For example, a girl told me she doesn’t date anyone from our school, just to then date this guy from our school. Situations like this make me feel blackpilled irl, and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

I want to know:
  1. How do I stop being treated this way
  2. How can I stop being blackpilled in real life and actually improve my chances socially/romantically?
  3. What steps can I take to look better, act better, and build real confidence that actually works?

I’m looking for honest, actionable advice—no sugarcoating. Thanks in advance.
(ONLY SOFTMAXXES, NO SURGERY)
 
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Hey everyone, I need some real advice. I feel like I’m constantly being treated as if I’m ugly in real life even tho I’ve been trying my best to advance my looks for 2 years (gym 2 years, looksmaxxng 1 year) My close friends reassure me that I’m not ugly, but girls act the opposite, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence.

Girls never give me the time of day and even friends make me feel like I’m not heard sometimes or if I’m talking to a wall
For example, a girl told me she doesn’t date anyone from our school, just to then date this guy from our school. Situations like this make me feel blackpilled irl, and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

I want to know:
  1. How do I stop being treated this way
  2. How can I stop being blackpilled in real life and actually improve my chances socially/romantically?
  3. What steps can I take to look better, act better, and build real confidence that actually works?

I’m looking for honest, actionable advice—no sugarcoating. Thanks in advance.
(ONLY SOFTMAXXES, NO SURGERY)
LDAR,no softmaxx for ur genetics
 
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Stop being normgroid, or you will end up like guys above that answered to you
 
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Hey everyone, I need some real advice. I feel like I’m constantly being treated as if I’m ugly in real life even tho I’ve been trying my best to advance my looks for 2 years (gym 2 years, looksmaxxng 1 year) My close friends reassure me that I’m not ugly, but girls act the opposite, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence.

Girls never give me the time of day and even friends make me feel like I’m not heard sometimes or if I’m talking to a wall
For example, a girl told me she doesn’t date anyone from our school, just to then date this guy from our school. Situations like this make me feel blackpilled irl, and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

I want to know:
  1. How do I stop being treated this way
  2. How can I stop being blackpilled in real life and actually improve my chances socially/romantically?
  3. What steps can I take to look better, act better, and build real confidence that actually works?

I’m looking for honest, actionable advice—no sugarcoating. Thanks in advance.
(ONLY SOFTMAXXES, NO SURGERY)
rope its over for me and you only HTN and higher can get pussy in 2025
 
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soft maxx with animal product diet and tanning.

Other than that you have to hardmaxx, sorry its the only way
 
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Hey everyone, I need some real advice. I feel like I’m constantly being treated as if I’m ugly in real life even tho I’ve been trying my best to advance my looks for 2 years (gym 2 years, looksmaxxng 1 year) My close friends reassure me that I’m not ugly, but girls act the opposite, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence.

Girls never give me the time of day and even friends make me feel like I’m not heard sometimes or if I’m talking to a wall
For example, a girl told me she doesn’t date anyone from our school, just to then date this guy from our school. Situations like this make me feel blackpilled irl, and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

I want to know:
  1. How do I stop being treated this way
  2. How can I stop being blackpilled in real life and actually improve my chances socially/romantically?
  3. What steps can I take to look better, act better, and build real confidence that actually works?

I’m looking for honest, actionable advice—no sugarcoating. Thanks in advance.
(ONLY SOFTMAXXES, NO SURGERY)
Well uh you can change your coloring by tanning and never date sb from your school cuz you might get blackmailed or any kind of shi that ruins your reputition if you guys might break up.
 
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Hey everyone, I need some real advice. I feel like I’m constantly being treated as if I’m ugly in real life even tho I’ve been trying my best to advance my looks for 2 years (gym 2 years, looksmaxxng 1 year) My close friends reassure me that I’m not ugly, but girls act the opposite, and it’s really starting to affect my confidence.

Girls never give me the time of day and even friends make me feel like I’m not heard sometimes or if I’m talking to a wall
For example, a girl told me she doesn’t date anyone from our school, just to then date this guy from our school. Situations like this make me feel blackpilled irl, and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

I want to know:
  1. How do I stop being treated this way
  2. How can I stop being blackpilled in real life and actually improve my chances socially/romantically?
  3. What steps can I take to look better, act better, and build real confidence that actually works?

I’m looking for honest, actionable advice—no sugarcoating. Thanks in advance.
(ONLY SOFTMAXXES, NO SURGERY)
softmax if you have good base and hardmax if your chopped and if it doesnt work ropemaxx
 
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Skincare and bonesmashing
 
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