How to talk to girls (no bs)

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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
 
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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
i was in the same position u were in brotha a while ago, the best answer is to just not do it. trust me.
 
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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
you have to ascend
same happend to me
 
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do it


failure is about 1000x better then never trying, and once you lose ur fear of rejection you'll build up courage / confidence for more attempts
 
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a girl at school prolly top 10 rated in the school
many guys went up to her but, i was a lltn and didnt dare talk to her
after ascending to hmtn and seeing how everything changed
she had to come talk to me , and after realizing how much i glowed up
i backed up and didnt gaf abt her
bp changes life buddy
 
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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
show us how u look and I will answer simply yes or no
 
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a girl at school prolly top 10 rated in the school
many guys went up to her but, i was a lltn and didnt dare talk to her
after ascending to hmtn and seeing how everything changed
she had to come talk to me , and after realizing how much i glowed up
i backed up and didnt gaf abt her
bp changes life buddy
How to spot a grey: calls "looksmaxxing" "bp", talks about ascending 6 tiers but joined 2 months ago
 
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How to spot a grey: calls "looksmaxxing" "bp", talks about ascending 6 tiers but joined 2 months ago
no im not even kidding
i did ascend but i hear you
i just didnt get accepted in .org so i used it without logging in
and did later get accepted
 
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do it


failure is about 1000x better then never trying, and once you lose ur fear of rejection you'll build up courage / confidence for more attempts
I wish someone told me this before
I never had the courage to walk to my past oneitis and talk to her :feelswhy:
 
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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
If you like her you should know if she’s the kinda girl to tell the whole school. And if she is that kind of girl she is not one to go for.
 
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There’s this girl that I really like but I’m scared to talk to her due to my looks, I’ve always been insecure about my looks even before all this bp bs. So I just want to know what could I do to build courage to talk to and make sure she doesn’t reject and tell the whole school.
You not the only one man but
 
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do it


failure is about 1000x better then never trying, and once you lose ur fear of rejection you'll build up courage / confidence for more attempts
nah for me i always NT Larped then got rejected fell into the rabbit hole and just became ND.:feelsez:
 
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i wouldn’t listen to the other guys

js talk to her i promise it wont be that bad

i have a story from 3 years ago that i still remember perfectly to this day, it goes like this:
little chopped me pulls a genuine 8/10 woman (absolutely no idea how) i had never talked to an foid before. i couldnt hold a conversation and i was too fucking ugly to just send pictures back and forth, and i was too inexperienced to talk to her irl. after 3 long excruciating months of the saddest talking stage you’ve ever witnessed, she left and got with one of my closest friends at the time. i miss her to this day btw the way and it all wouldnt have happened if i was just more confident (she REALLY liked me)
 
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i wouldn’t listen to the other guys

js talk to her i promise it wont be that bad

i have a story from 3 years ago that i still remember perfectly to this day, it goes like this:
little chopped me pulls a genuine 8/10 woman (absolutely no idea how) i had never talked to an foid before. i couldnt hold a conversation and i was too fucking ugly to just send pictures back and forth, and i was too inexperienced to talk to her irl. after 3 long excruciating months of the saddest talking stage you’ve ever witnessed, she left and got with one of my closest friends at the time. i miss her to this day btw the way and it all wouldnt have happened if i was just more confident (she REALLY liked me)
just be confident gotta be biggest cope oat
 
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i was in the same position u were in brotha a while ago, the best answer is to just not do it. trust me.
A based nigga for once. Don’t talk to her it’s mostly just mossad wanting to see ur mental breakdown, just wait until Yael Shelbia knocks on ur door one day with all ur digital footprint.

Okay jokes aside, I don’t have friends and barely go outside but still in school 1 girl I think is into me and I was in a camp (I regret doing such social thing) and Slavic mtb was into me and htb wasn’t into me but talking with me. For reference I’m fucking 5 foot 7 and ltn. Just wait and they will come to u. Having a fucking crush is so low T. I hate having crushes
 
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just be confident gotta be biggest cope oat
it really helps bro

idk if you read my story but if i had asked her to hang out, flirted with her as much as she did me, and touched her irl like she did to me (i miss ts) i probably would have dated her, even if it wasnt for a long time
 
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A based nigga for once. Don’t talk to her it’s mostly just mossad wanting to see ur mental breakdown, just wait until Yael Shelbia knocks on ur door one day with all ur digital footprint.

Okay jokes aside, I don’t have friends and barely go outside but still in school 1 girl I think is into me and I was in a camp (I regret doing such social thing) and Slavic mtb was into me and htb wasn’t into me but talking with me. For reference I’m fucking 5 foot 7 and ltn. Just wait and they will come to u. Having a fucking crush is so low T. I hate having crushes
brotha I swear I always think sum1 is into me but u gotta realize ur jus larpin to urself half the time they dont gaf bout u it's not even ur fault it's just the hypergamous foids :feelswah:
 
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do it


failure is about 1000x better then never trying, and once you lose ur fear of rejection you'll build up courage / confidence for more attempts

A based nigga for once. Don’t talk to her it’s mostly just mossad wanting to see ur mental breakdown, just wait until Yael Shelbia knocks on ur door one day with all ur digital footprint.

Okay jokes aside, I don’t have friends and barely go outside but still in school 1 girl I think is into me and I was in a camp (I regret doing such social thing) and Slavic mtb was into me and htb wasn’t into me but talking with me. For reference I’m fucking 5 foot 7 and ltn. Just wait and they will come to u. Having a fucking crush is so low T. I hate having crushes
Ye bro, what I’ve been doing now is just try to avoid her as best as I can so I can stop liking her.
 
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it really helps bro

idk if you read my story but if i had asked her to hang out, flirted with her as much as she did me, and touched her irl like she did to me (i miss ts) i probably would have dated her, even if it wasnt for a long time
fym probably woulda dated her u said u did
 
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brotha I swear I always think sum1 is into me but u gotta realize ur jus larpin to urself half the time they dont gaf bout u it's not even ur fault it's just the hypergamous foids :feelswah:
Hahahahahgaa
 
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it really helps bro

idk if you read my story but if i had asked her to hang out, flirted with her as much as she did me, and touched her irl like she did to me (i miss ts) i probably would have dated her, even if it wasnt for a long time
Ye but u had her flirting with u, idk if she would even look my way.
 
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fym probably woulda dated her u said u did
“after 3 long excruciating months of the saddest talking stage you’ve ever witnessed, she left and got with one of my closest friends at the time.”

talking stage≠dating

kind of an in between where the feelings are mutual but yall arent together
 

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