How to talk to women?

[sergeant blackpill]

If you've read any of my threads about me texting with girls i've met irl and on OLD, you know i'm terrible at talking to women.

IRL i do quite well because girls will usually carry the conversation, and i'm high-inhib so i mostly just answer questions and such.

But then when exchanging numbers and it's clear that there's interest, something snaps in my brain, it's like i enter a state of trance where common sense and reason don't exist, and i just spew out the most cringeworthy, low T shit imaginable or even one girl who sent a nude pic and i just didn't do anything about it.

I think it's probably long term oxytocin-starvation that's making me have these insane fits or very high inhib/fear of talking about anything sexual.
Sex was also a really taboo topic in my household growing up so i guess that contributes to my fear/vague feelings of shame when it comes to talking about sexual things.

 

[Htobrother]

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[sergeant blackpill]

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[Deleted member 2214]

Open your mouth and talk.

 

[Deleted member 8244]

It will get better

 

[pizza]

dialoguing with foids is useless, see them as an object

 

[Deleted member 6128]

You need to build confidence always make sure you know wat to say before it leaves your mouth if you don’t u will end up stumbling on what you say

 

[Deleted member 13197]

unironically you just have to act like you’re the shit

 

[some1h0peless]

You need to build confidence always make sure you know wat to say before it leaves your mouth if you don’t u will end up stumbling on what you say

unironically you just have to act like you’re the shit

arrogant = confident when attractive but insecure when unattractive

 

[Deleted member 13197]

arrogant = confident when attractive but insecure when unattractive

Yea hopefully OP is atleast 5 psl or 6’0

 

[Lolcel]

Hi baby i like your boobs

 

[IdiAmin]

It's not a big deal, you should treat them like any other person

 

[Deleted member 6128]

arrogant = confident when attractive but insecure when unattractive

Arrogant and confidence are two different things retards either English isn’t your first language or your dumb

Arrogant is confidence with aggressiveness
1 uping yourself while putting others down

You can be confident during a convo without being a dickhead

A lot of u niggas special

 

[Deleted member 6128]

It's not a big deal, you should treat them like any other person

This any convo I have with girls is similar to convos I have with boys

 

[Deleted member 13226]

Didn't read but you cant

Its psyhically impossible, Its like a unstopable force goes into a noneremove object. The second you open your moulth and you are a sub 8 male women will shut up and wait for u to go away. The longest answers they will give is either yes or no.

 

[Sigmamale]

If you've read any of my threads about me texting with girls i've met irl and on OLD, you know i'm terrible at talking to women.

IRL i do quite well because girls will usually carry the conversation, and i'm high-inhib so i mostly just answer questions and such.

But then when exchanging numbers and it's clear that there's interest, something snaps in my brain, it's like i enter a state of trance where common sense and reason don't exist, and i just spew out the most cringeworthy, low T shit imaginable or even one girl who sent a nude pic and i just didn't do anything about it.

I think it's probably long term oxytocin-starvation that's making me have these insane fits or very high inhib/fear of talking about anything sexual.
Sex was also a really taboo topic in my household growing up so i guess that contributes to my fear/vague feelings of shame when it comes to talking about sexual things.

pain

 

[sergeant blackpill]

I'm literally a @personalityinkwell
I'd be slayin more than hitler if i could get more NT.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

Eye contact, smiling, being Nt anf listening helps

 

[eduardkoopman]

Eye contact, smiling, being Nt anf listening helps

true that.
btw, as a Russian man, you might like tis thread: https://looksmax.org/threads/looks-...one-is-the-strongest-redpill-is-right.340992/

 

[Lev Peshkov]

true that.
btw, as a Russian man, you might like tis thread: https://looksmax.org/threads/looks-...one-is-the-strongest-redpill-is-right.340992/

Ion know but its all about the irl appeal

 

[Sense]

Eye contact, smiling, being Nt anf listening helps

100% this + be gl enough

 

[Lev Peshkov]

100% this + be gl enough

Even just Nt appeal nglhsvung eniugh irl is all that counts

Psl is fave only and doesn't take into idea that there are other shit effect ur appeal

 

[lonelystoner]

dialoguing with foids is useless, see them as an object

Sadly, this is true. Talking with women is useless unless you’re an attractive guy

 

[pizza]

Sadly, this is true. Talking with women is useless unless you’re an attractive guy

Yes,if you are attractive no matter what you talk she want sex with you

 

[john2]

Use your mouth jfl.

I hate these kind of normie threads. If you're good looking, women will initiate the conversation and drag you to their bedroom. If you're ugly, then forget about it and continue rotting here. Chads don't talk and get numbers from women without asking.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Have you tried using your vocal chords?

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

Have you tried using your vocal chords?

Easy for you to say, Chad (in the denial)

 

[Baguvix]

just start the conversation by asking her where she lives, what her address is, where she usually keeps her house keys etc etc

 

[grimy]

Being a virgin this long has poisoned your perspective. You need to get over the hurdle to see its nothing.

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Use your mouth jfl.

I hate these kind of normie threads. If you're good looking, women will initiate the conversation and drag you to their bedroom. If you're ugly, then forget about it and continue rotting here. Chads don't talk and get numbers from women without asking.

I do get numbers and snaps without asking, and then when i do i just sperg out, then when i ask them for a date they just say they're busy or a vague yes but then ultimately nothing happens.