kranerman23123
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This should be water to most users but I need to educate a lot of these noobs. Hypergamy is not a real thing, what you are witnessing is simply the affect of genuine sexual attraction being extremely rare in men (due to our sexually selective mating strategy between genders, men want to spread as much as possible, women need to preserve superior genes)
If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.
Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.
This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).
So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.
Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.
Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.
This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).
So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.
Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
bro who do you think you are