Hypergamy isnt real men are just ugly

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This should be water to most users but I need to educate a lot of these noobs. Hypergamy is not a real thing, what you are witnessing is simply the affect of genuine sexual attraction being extremely rare in men (due to our sexually selective mating strategy between genders, men want to spread as much as possible, women need to preserve superior genes)

If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.

Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.

This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).

So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.

Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
 
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DNR NIGGER
 
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Dnr half the thread, but no shit—they're also "ugly" if we are. Hypergamy is just based on percentiles, and even if we improved our faces so that chadlite became the average, there would still likely be a shift in what they want, as it's partially an innate attraction and partially relative to the mean.
 
i think it’s just that most men are socially awkward compared to females which gives females the ick
 
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saying that hypergamy doesnt exist is the most retarded take ever
 
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So? Most women are ugly as fuck too
 
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Dnr half the thread, but no shit—they're also "ugly" if we are. Hypergamy is just based on percentiles, and even if we improved our faces so that chadlite became the average, there would still likely be a shift in what they want, as it's partially an innate attraction and partially relative to the mean.
No it has nothing to do with percentile good job missing the point
 
This should be water to most users but I need to educate a lot of these noobs. Hypergamy is not a real thing, what you are witnessing is simply the affect of genuine sexual attraction being extremely rare in men (due to our sexually selective mating strategy between genders, men want to spread as much as possible, women need to preserve superior genes)

If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.

Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.

This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).

So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.

Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
yh i agree nothing wrong for wanting ur partner to look good its just biology to show health and good genes but the problem is certain women not settling with men with lower smv when they themselves are not all that. which is fine but them it ends up with a group of men getting all the attention and the others starved leadeing to average and below guys almost like overmarking the smv of girls and giving them more that what they should techicaly equate too. but the thing is even if all men try to look the best the average will only shift up and the problem will reamain because if the mentality of women chasing after chads and mtns clining to ltbs and mtbs. also i think were at a point in society where men are not looked down on as much for wanting to improve their phycial apperance. also on ur last point id say it goes both ways ebcuase both genders by nature want the best looking partner they want because its just instinct and natural but its the mtbs that are less likely to want to settle with a mtn beacuse they think they are worth more becuase of the way soiceity has told them this lie of they should have their dream parner no matter what but unfortunatly thats not true for ltbs and mtbs and they are less likely too settle for less that what they want happily beacuse soicity favors the perffernces of woman more than men. i think yes most of these mtbs and ltbs are getting it bad because they are unhappy in their relationship but i think its the ltns and mtns that get it the worst because they will know they have a partener who whants someone better and is also likely not their looksmatch and that if these people ever mannage to find someone because htns+ sometimes have multiple partners,. but at the end of the day this is just the majority.exceptions do exist
 
This should be water to most users but I need to educate a lot of these noobs. Hypergamy is not a real thing, what you are witnessing is simply the affect of genuine sexual attraction being extremely rare in men (due to our sexually selective mating strategy between genders, men want to spread as much as possible, women need to preserve superior genes)

If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.

Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.

This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).

So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.

Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
Average man moggs average woman
 
I mean hypergamy is real in the sense of natural selection. But yes, women are biologically designed to be selective. In a state of nature as an unattractive male you would simply just not pass on your genetics. However, now we are no longer working in tribal environments and the dating market is now interconnected and more global than ever before. The selective nature of women is no longer necessary with our societal backbone, rapid phenotype evolution isn't necessary. But yes, you can't really blame women for being naturally selective, its in their biology.
 
hypergamy isnt real most users have incel pheno
 
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hypergamy isnt real most users have incel pheno
Men break down into 3 categories as with most mammals alphas betas and gamma most men here are gamma and they want to pretend theyre beta. Beta males still have sex and raise children
 
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hypergamy is a real, ask chatgpt or read literature, i will not waist my time explaining to u, but your post even if it makes sense it have no science behind, read about assortative mating, intrasexual and intersexual selection and you would see. your idea that if most men looked good there would be not hypergami or stupid, first of all that would never happend and second, the perception of women would move from looks, to money, status or height
 
hypergamy is a real, ask chatgpt or read literature, i will not waist my time explaining to u, but your post even if it makes sense it have no science behind, read about assortative mating, intrasexual and intersexual selection and you would see. your idea that if most men looked good there would be not hypergami or stupid, first of all that would never happend and second, the perception of women would move from looks, to money, status or height
It has plenty of science behind it if you want to go there
 
Ill make it easy for you to understand. Man ugly. If man no ugly, hypergamy no exist. But man ugly.
even if "man no ugly" it will still exist because then they will got for these who are ever better looking than "no ugly"
 
It has plenty of science behind it if you want to go there
you dont understand shit buddy, beauty is surface level, its a big role, but money and territory are almost as important in mammals, i would love to see all the literature behind your post, can you name at least the name of the term you are describing?
 
This should be water to most users but I need to educate a lot of these noobs. Hypergamy is not a real thing, what you are witnessing is simply the affect of genuine sexual attraction being extremely rare in men (due to our sexually selective mating strategy between genders, men want to spread as much as possible, women need to preserve superior genes)

If the average man was a chadlite, women would literally be just as openly horny and slutty and desperate as men are, they wouldn't then increase their standards even more and only settle for chad. Thats a fallacy.

Furthermore if the average women looked like Rosie O'Donnell, men wouldn't be as horny and we would be seen as the prudish gender.

This basic evolutionary FACT is SIGNIFICANTLY EXASPERATED by our culture of women being extremely obsessed with beauty and optimizing their physical appearance and men being deincentivized from doing so in the fear they will be perceived as feminine which in their mind is unattractive (the opposite of the truth ironically).

So women are already incentivized through evolution to have high standards, coupled with the fact that they are encouraged to look beautiful and men are encouraged to look ugly and smelly. Thats why you see "hypergamy " but in all reality this sucks for women more than men because they literally are not attracted to 99% of men and if they want to get into a relationship they will have to settle for a guy they have zero physical desire for or a guy who they are attracted to but fucks a harem of women and they have zero leverage over in the relationship.

Everyone but chad and Stacy suffers.
Yeah feminism killed the world

its so fucking over. Women are attracted to 1% of men and now women have the freedom to choose if they want to date or not, its never been more over
 
85% of men only get laid when they are 40 years old and a desperate women reluctantly lets them marry them
 
from age 15-35 women only fuck chad

chad has sex for 20 years before the average man even loses his virginity. can you wrap your head around that?
 
you dont understand shit buddy, beauty is surface level, its a big role, but money and territory are almost as important in mammals, i would love to see all the literature behind your post, can you name at least the name of the term you are describing?
Ahahahahahahahhahaha no we're literally just animals brotha its all genetics. Everything beyond genetics is not our primitive brain
 
85% of men only get laid when they are 40 years old and a desperate women reluctantly lets them marry them
Yeah theyre beta males but theres also a lot of men who will always stay bitter incels theyre gamma males
 
even if "man no ugly" it will still exist because then they will got for these who are ever better looking than "no ugly"
No, its just about them being ugly, not about them being statistically superior, women dont have a statistics calculator in their vaginas. They just see a tall handsome guy and want to fuck them and dont want to fuck an average dopey 15% bodyfat jawless 6 foot guy. If they were all handsome and 6'3 there would be no "hypergamy" thats the point. Its not about standing out
 
If they were all handsome and 6'3 there would be no "hypergamy" thats the point. Its not about standing out
IF there was a world where all men are handsome and 6'3 then sure but such a world doesnt exist, which is why hypergamy exists in OUR world
 
IF there was a world where all men are handsome and 6'3 then sure but such a world doesnt exist, which is why hypergamy exists in OUR world
OK then fine we agree. Hypergamy "exists" by defacto of most men being ugly. What i am denying is the idea of hypergamy as a general instinct in women: that it is some sort of phenomenon that is linked with averages, meaning if all men were chad, women would only go for gigachad, and the average chad wouldn't be attractice. Its a cope for people to not accept that theyre simply unattractive
 
No it has nothing to do with percentile good job missing the point
Yea it does, if you knew anything about psychology you’d agree with me. Your statement is only partially correct
 
If this is the case, then why has the common desired height shifted upwards as men grew taller?

Also, if men were just looksminned, then why do women primarily complain about hard features (e.g. height, jaw) and not soft features like skin?

My point is, it's possible that women will always only be attracted to the top percentiles even if everyone looksmaxxed.
 
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