I am actually so fucked: Child saga part 3

DIY.Suicide

DIY.Suicide

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Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
 
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why dont you just get an abortion
 
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@Lefty Rankin @buccalfatremoval @Mooks Laxx @Nerogen @-joe
 
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DIY.Suicide said:
Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
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dwbi and ldar
 
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pexy said:
dude its better than being a father before you even turn 20
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Not really I’d rather be a shitty half baked dad then a murder
 
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DIY.Suicide said:
Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
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Its fucked up but maybe youll be rich or maybe your kid is going to win a genetic lottery and be a model who knows but why is it so much to raise a kid in europe its very cheap
 
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JJound said:
Its fucked up but maybe youll be rich or maybe your kid is going to win a genetic lottery and be a model who knows but why is it so much to raise a kid in europe its very cheap
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I don’t live in Europe it’s expensive asf where I live and it’s not the best right now
 
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pexy said:
youd literally be wrecking not only yours but your kid's life
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No not true I’d rather have a kid that hates me and uses it to grow then the kid to be in a petridish
 
DIY.Suicide said:
Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
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Did u get a girl pregnant or are you just thinking of a situation like that ?
 
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Heaver said:
Did u get a girl pregnant or are you just thinking of a situation like that ?
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Idk everyone is saying I did she’s finding out Friday or whenever she gets her period
 
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DIY.Suicide said:
I don’t live in Europe it’s expensive asf where I live and it’s not the best right now
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I really cant help but i wish the best for you try to get a job in europe and live there its very cheap if you cant i wish you the best
 
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JJound said:
I really cant help but i wish the best for you try to get a job in europe and live there its very cheap if you cant i wish you the best
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Thank you man I hope it gos well
 
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time to salve away in a warehouse

but real shit, i wish the best for you.
 
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DIY.Suicide said:
Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
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Stop all that. I comfortably supported a wife and kid along with myself on less than 35k a year with zero help from the govt or anybody else for the last 5 years in USA. As long as your wife doesn't have to be getting her fucking nails done and shit you'll be fine.

Don't get a stupid sense of false nobility when it comes to being a father. A sense of nobility brings utter stupidity. Don't fall into that trap. Be grounded and fuck what everybody else is doing.

You care and that's enough to be a good dad. Don't worry about what the world says. Being a parent is not an identity. Keep that in mind and you'll do alright.
 
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Lefty Rankin said:
Stop all that. I comfortably supported a wife and kid along with myself on less than 35k a year with zero help from the govt or anybody else for the last 5 years in USA. As long as your wife doesn't have to be getting her fucking nails done and shit you'll be fine.

Don't get a stupid sense of false nobility when it comes to being a father. A sense of nobility brings utter stupidity. Don't fall into that trap. Be grounded and fuck what everybody else is doing.

You care and that's enough to be a good dad. Don't worry about what the world says. Being a parent is not an identity. Keep that in mind and you'll do alright.
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thank you I needed to hear that Im still just as scared though but if it dos happen I won’t be as shocked or upset if I can’t give them everything they want but what they need with some wants thank you man seriously I know you said to think about marrying the girl but I kind of have to I already screwed up once by having sex before marriage even if I don’t like her or see a bountiful relationship I can still let it run it’s course for the sake of the child
 
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DIY.Suicide said:
Im laying in my bed and realising all the shitty things and all the ways id be a bad dad and if that kid is born he or she will be such a fuck up I mean holy shit if I leave school to raise a kid I’ll be making like 50k a year which is not nearly enough to support my own place my wife because I’ll have to marry her not a question about that and a new born kid they’re is not a single good option for the kid because I won’t give away my own flesh and blood and I’d be damned if I abort it so Im in this weird limbo of I want to help the kid but they’re is nothing I can do
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tell your priest bro
 
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