MoggerGaston
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I have been rejecting MTB's because the lack of attractiveness, combined with the feeling that I have to fraud NT, has made dating MTBs a bad cost/benefit analysis.
I actually find MTBs very fuckable tbh, not unattractive at all. It's just that I would have to fraud a NT lifestyle, personality, which takes a lot of effort/stress. With HTB's I am more inclined to put in the effort to fraud my life, because I believe the reward is better. With MTBs I feel like I am putting in effort with no reward.
This is wrong, it is a foolish mindset tbh.
Yes, dating MTB's isn't ideal and not what I want to end up with for the rest of my life. But comparing it to my current life quality, social-life, truecel sex-life, etc. it is a MASSIVE improvement.
I have been truecel (0 sex for 2 years) now.
Getting positive social/sexual experiences with some girl you are not super attracted to probably mogs hard compared to being truecel.
Also have a serious chance of getting NT social circles through a gf/fwb, which would be a life-hack.
From now on I will lower my standards and start dating MTBs to get positive social/sexual interactions. I can always upgrade my standards in the future when life starts becoming better.
We will see.
I actually find MTBs very fuckable tbh, not unattractive at all. It's just that I would have to fraud a NT lifestyle, personality, which takes a lot of effort/stress. With HTB's I am more inclined to put in the effort to fraud my life, because I believe the reward is better. With MTBs I feel like I am putting in effort with no reward.
This is wrong, it is a foolish mindset tbh.
Yes, dating MTB's isn't ideal and not what I want to end up with for the rest of my life. But comparing it to my current life quality, social-life, truecel sex-life, etc. it is a MASSIVE improvement.
I have been truecel (0 sex for 2 years) now.
Getting positive social/sexual experiences with some girl you are not super attracted to probably mogs hard compared to being truecel.
Also have a serious chance of getting NT social circles through a gf/fwb, which would be a life-hack.
From now on I will lower my standards and start dating MTBs to get positive social/sexual interactions. I can always upgrade my standards in the future when life starts becoming better.
We will see.