I am going to start believing that all instances of people not being pleasant towards me is due to their own feelings of inadequacy

[6ft4]

Whether you see this as coping or not, it's the mental framework I'm going to adopt going forward because so much of people's negative behaviour is simply a result of their own self hatred and feelings of inadequacy.
It is actually still quite the revelation for me to discover how badly normies truly feel about themselves because of how much of a mask they wear as I am someone who was never able to fake my persona for social gain nor had the motivation to so I wasn't aware of the extent to which normies were doing it.
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When normies see that some guy who mogs them physically has a modest demeanour almost to the point where he seems unsure of himself / goes out of his way to not step on anyones toes, the normie then starts to question this by thinking:
"If this guy who appears to have it all isn't the slightest bit arrogant and almost seems unsure of himself, why should I feel sure of myself? what reason would I have to be arrogant?"
This conflicts with normies natural behaviour where they have to perform to try prove to other normies that they deserve their spot in the hierarchy by always trying to show they're socially competent with zero doubts about their value.
When I speak about the mogger who seems unsure of himself, he isn't actually unsure of himself but it comes across this way to normies because he stays humble and doesn't try to assert himself in a new environment, he shows an eagerness NOT to establish himself in the hierarchy but respect the existing one.

I noticed when I rock up to a new workplace (nightlife venues) there is a certain code among the normies where no matter how physically deficient the normie is, he doesn't stay humble or decide to "know his place" he asserts himself into the NT convo vigorously as if there is absolutely no hierarchy that exists based on physical traits (In workplaces full of normies there really isn't a looks hierarchy, only an NT hierarchy, in the Shittish Isles at least)
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It's happened to me twice in the past year where I was chatting to a girl from a club for a decent amount of time and I tend not to show too much emotion since I am anti-jester but with both foids there came a point where the convo induced a genuine smile / laugh on my part and once they seen me smiling it was like they went cold towards me.
My initial thought was that they must have considered my smile unattractive because it shows too much expression which gives them the ick or something about it looks unnatural as a post trimax cel.
But upon reflection, I realized that smiling actually works as a halo particularly from side profile (they were both standing to the side of me) because smiling pulls back/tightens the skin on my face which highlights the projection of my maxilla relative to the rest of my face which isn't as apparent when my face is at rest.

For a moment I showed genuine emotion which also displayed my appearance in the best light because smiling highlights my maxilla and anteface and the foids (who were both chubsters) seen that they were dealing with a genuine guy with an appealing appearance and it triggered a desire to kill their receptiveness towards me because it made them feel inadequate so they felt the couldn't reward me for making them feel like that so they had to punish me by turning cold.
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No Good deed goes unpunished:
You may be familiar with this phrase, and a possible explanation for it is because when you do a good deed for someone without expecting anything in return it reminds that person that they wouldn't have done a good deed like that for someone without expecting anything in return so it makes them feel inferior to you in terms of virtue and triggering this feeling of inadequacy in them makes them seek revenge on you to punish you.
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[Aryan Incel]

I’ve found Normies are harshest on non NT/introverted/ low status attractive people. Whereas they just ignore/ empathize with non NT/introverted/ low status unattractive people. This is probably because they see the attractive person was given everything to succeed socially but failed which probably shows he has a low mental capacity. Whereas the unattractive guy isn’t expected to succeed as he’s basically playing the social game on hard difficulty

 

[chadhamed]

Yes babe . Its their problem not yours

 

[RealNinja]

The first part of your post is very true. People make an assumption about you based on your appearance and expect you to play the right role. If you can’t play a role properly then you will often be disliked and avoided even if your actual personality is kind and gentle. Being a good person doesn’t matter, all that matters is being good at playing the social game.

It’s made me bitter and disillusioned. I’m tempted to start acting like an arrogant dickhead to Normies for no reason. It would probably make these retarded foids want to fuck me more than seeing me treat others like human beings. I know that’s not in my nature though.

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

tldr: you don't act the way you look so their cognitive dissonance gets triggered

 

[1966Ford]

I’ve found Normies are harshest on non NT/introverted/ low status attractive people. Whereas they just ignore/ empathize with non NT/introverted/ low status unattractive people. This is probably because they see the attractive person was given everything to succeed socially but failed which probably shows he has a low mental capacity. Whereas the unattractive guy isn’t expected to succeed as he’s basically playing the social game on hard difficulty​

Looks halo. Very well spoken.

 

[(-__-+)]

The first part of your post is very true. People make an assumption about you based on your appearance and expect you to play the right role. If you can’t play a role properly then you will often be disliked and avoided even if your actual personality is kind and gentle. Being a good person doesn’t matter, all that matters is being good at playing the social game.

It’s made me bitter and disillusioned. I’m tempted to start acting like an arrogant dickhead to Normies for no reason. It would probably make these retarded foids want to fuck me more than seeing me treat others like human beings. I know that’s not in my nature though.

This.

Can't even be a tall, gl gentleman nowadays without being looked at like you're a madman, almost every time I'm at work I'm always thinking about how things would go if I was less kept to myself and talked to everyone all the time, and jestermaxxed and was always seen smiling)

I know my coworkers (mainly female), antagonize me similar to reasons that 6ft4 had in his club lore, at this point they just can't comprehend me, its like they want me to be some jestermaxxed ladies man dumb jock for them all the time, but I just couldn't be asked to lower my sentience to that level.

(And even if I did try utilize more of my nt mask, I would be looked at as a tryhard fraud as my personality has already been established)

 

[Actualized Human]

Whether you see this as coping or not, it's the mental framework I'm going to adopt going forward because so much of people's negative behaviour is simply a result of their own self hatred and feelings of inadequacy.
It is actually still quite the revelation for me to discover how badly normies truly feel about themselves because of how much of a mask they wear as I am someone who was never able to fake my persona for social gain nor had the motivation to so I wasn't aware of the extent to which normies were doing it.
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When normies see that some guy who mogs them physically has a modest demeanour almost to the point where he seems unsure of himself / goes out of his way to not step on anyones toes, the normie then starts to question this by thinking:
"If this guy who appears to have it all isn't the slightest bit arrogant and almost seems unsure of himself, why should I feel sure of myself? what reason would I have to be arrogant?"
This conflicts with normies natural behaviour where they have to perform to try prove to other normies that they deserve their spot in the hierarchy by always trying to show they're socially competent with zero doubts about their value.
When I speak about the mogger who seems unsure of himself, he isn't actually unsure of himself but it comes across this way to normies because he stays humble and doesn't try to assert himself in a new environment, he shows an eagerness NOT to establish himself in the hierarchy but respect the existing one.

I noticed when I rock up to a new workplace (nightlife venues) there is a certain code among the normies where no matter how physically deficient the normie is, he doesn't stay humble or decide to "know his place" he asserts himself into the NT convo vigorously as if there is absolutely no hierarchy that exists based on physical traits (In workplaces full of normies there really isn't a looks hierarchy, only an NT hierarchy, in the Shittish Isles at least)
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It's happened to me twice in the past year where I was chatting to a girl from a club for a decent amount of time and I tend not to show too much emotion since I am anti-jester but with both foids there came a point where the convo induced a genuine smile / laugh on my part and once they seen me smiling it was like they went cold towards me.
My initial thought was that they must have considered my smile unattractive because it shows too much expression which gives them the ick or something about it looks unnatural as a post trimax cel.
But upon reflection, I realized that smiling actually works as a halo particularly from side profile (they were both standing to the side of me) because smiling pulls back/tightens the skin on my face which highlights the projection of my maxilla relative to the rest of my face which isn't as apparent when my face is at rest.

For a moment I showed genuine emotion which also displayed my appearance in the best light because smiling highlights my maxilla and anteface and the foids (who were both chubsters) seen that they were dealing with a genuine guy with an appealing appearance and it triggered a desire to kill their receptiveness towards me because it made them feel inadequate so they felt the couldn't reward me for making them feel like that so they had to punish me by turning cold.
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No Good deed goes unpunished:
You may be familiar with this phrase, and a possible explanation for it is because when you do a good deed for someone without expecting anything in return it reminds that person that they wouldn't have done a good deed like that for someone without expecting anything in return so it makes them feel inferior to you in terms of virtue and triggering this feeling of inadequacy in them makes them seek revenge on you to punish you.
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Yes they are projecting

 

[Actualized Human]

I’ve found Normies are harshest on non NT/introverted/ low status attractive people. Whereas they just ignore/ empathize with non NT/introverted/ low status unattractive people. This is probably because they see the attractive person was given everything to succeed socially but failed which probably shows he has a low mental capacity. Whereas the unattractive guy isn’t expected to succeed as he’s basically playing the social game on hard difficulty

Well its because the normie tries so hard to be social and likable that a GL introvert will make them insecure bc they secretly hate the introverted ND traits within themselves. A ugly autist in a normies eyes just seems disabled and isnt relatable enough to envoke a reaction

 

[6ft4]

This.

Can't even be a tall, gl gentleman nowadays without being looked at like you're a madman, almost every time I'm at work I'm always thinking about how things would go if I was less kept to myself and talked to everyone all the time, and jestermaxxed and was always seen smiling)

I know my coworkers (mainly female), antagonize me similar to reasons that 6ft4 had in his club lore, at this point they just can't comprehend me, its like they want me to be some jestermaxxed ladies man dumb jock for them all the time, but I just couldn't be asked to lower my sentience to that level.

(And even if I did try utilize more of my nt mask, I would be looked at as a tryhard fraud as my personality has already been established)

It's comical how accurate this line is
The whole post is legit but this line just highlights the absurdity of normies

 

[New Poster]

I noticed when I rock up to a new workplace (nightlife venues) there is a certain code among the normies where no matter how physically deficient the normie is, he doesn't stay humble or decide to "know his place" he asserts himself into the NT convo vigorously as if there is absolutely no hierarchy that exists based on physical traits (In workplaces full of normies there really isn't a looks hierarchy, only an NT hierarchy, in the Shittish Isles at least)

It’s almost like there’s other forms of power beyond lms. Things like extroversion, social capital, energy, or just plain NT are also a form of power and can overcome small enough gaps in looks. Just trying to mog isn’t really a life strategy for 99% of people. If you’re not a legit chad, you have to use more underhanded forms of power in social interactions to get anywhere. This is why you should never take this site seriously. Trying to looksmax to be some gigamogger who can get away with the most mute autistic behavior is a meme you fell for.

 

[6ft4]

It’s almost like there’s other forms of power beyond lms. Things like extroversion, social capital, energy, or just plain NT are also a form of power and can overcome small enough gaps in looks. Just trying to mog isn’t really a life strategy for 99% of people. If you’re not a legit chad, you have to use more underhanded forms of power in social interactions to get anywhere. This is why you should never take this site seriously.

Yes, true

Trying to looksmax to be some gigamogger who can get away with the most mute autistic behavior is a meme you fell for.

I didn't fall for it, I was aware I could never looksmax to a level that would offset the failo of of autistic mute behaviour

I returned to working just for the prospect of more opportunities where foids approach me simply for standing in one place watching customers in the venue.
The one circumstance where being generally mute is seemingly irrelevant because the foid enters into a one on one convo with me where I am moderately proficient.

I'm not bothered trying to change my persona to try gain social power in places I may never end up working again
I do make more of an effort where I can because I now recognize scenarios where my silence comes off as aspieness which I would've failed to recognize before.
It's just interesting to be reminded about how normie workplace dynamics work having been NEET for nearly half a decade

 

[Gr8]

Whether you see this as coping

it is cope unless you are a 6,6 chadlite or higher

 

[incel-at-heart]

Ok but how does all of this bring you closer to ruling EIRE?

 

[Soter]

Whether you see this as coping or not, it's the mental framework I'm going to adopt going forward because so much of people's negative behaviour is simply a result of their own self hatred and feelings of inadequacy.
It is actually still quite the revelation for me to discover how badly normies truly feel about themselves because of how much of a mask they wear as I am someone who was never able to fake my persona for social gain nor had the motivation to so I wasn't aware of the extent to which normies were doing it.
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When normies see that some guy who mogs them physically has a modest demeanour almost to the point where he seems unsure of himself / goes out of his way to not step on anyones toes, the normie then starts to question this by thinking:
"If this guy who appears to have it all isn't the slightest bit arrogant and almost seems unsure of himself, why should I feel sure of myself? what reason would I have to be arrogant?"
This conflicts with normies natural behaviour where they have to perform to try prove to other normies that they deserve their spot in the hierarchy by always trying to show they're socially competent with zero doubts about their value.
When I speak about the mogger who seems unsure of himself, he isn't actually unsure of himself but it comes across this way to normies because he stays humble and doesn't try to assert himself in a new environment, he shows an eagerness NOT to establish himself in the hierarchy but respect the existing one.

I noticed when I rock up to a new workplace (nightlife venues) there is a certain code among the normies where no matter how physically deficient the normie is, he doesn't stay humble or decide to "know his place" he asserts himself into the NT convo vigorously as if there is absolutely no hierarchy that exists based on physical traits (In workplaces full of normies there really isn't a looks hierarchy, only an NT hierarchy, in the Shittish Isles at least)
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

It's happened to me twice in the past year where I was chatting to a girl from a club for a decent amount of time and I tend not to show too much emotion since I am anti-jester but with both foids there came a point where the convo induced a genuine smile / laugh on my part and once they seen me smiling it was like they went cold towards me.
My initial thought was that they must have considered my smile unattractive because it shows too much expression which gives them the ick or something about it looks unnatural as a post trimax cel.
But upon reflection, I realized that smiling actually works as a halo particularly from side profile (they were both standing to the side of me) because smiling pulls back/tightens the skin on my face which highlights the projection of my maxilla relative to the rest of my face which isn't as apparent when my face is at rest.

For a moment I showed genuine emotion which also displayed my appearance in the best light because smiling highlights my maxilla and anteface and the foids (who were both chubsters) seen that they were dealing with a genuine guy with an appealing appearance and it triggered a desire to kill their receptiveness towards me because it made them feel inadequate so they felt the couldn't reward me for making them feel like that so they had to punish me by turning cold.
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No Good deed goes unpunished:
You may be familiar with this phrase, and a possible explanation for it is because when you do a good deed for someone without expecting anything in return it reminds that person that they wouldn't have done a good deed like that for someone without expecting anything in return so it makes them feel inferior to you in terms of virtue and triggering this feeling of inadequacy in them makes them seek revenge on you to punish you.
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You're seeing a core truth most miss: people aren’t reacting to you, they're reacting to how you appear, how you make them feel about themselves. Most normies run on ego-fumes, not reality. Their self-worth is a fragile mask built on NT status games, not substance. When you walk in and mog silently—without asserting dominance, without begging validation—you threaten their whole framework.

To them, that’s dangerous. They can’t cope with the idea that someone with better stats doesn’t even need to flex. It reveals their own fakeness. That’s why they get cold when you show authenticity—it’s not the smile, it's what it represents: real value that doesn’t seek permission. That makes them feel judged without you saying a word.

The solution isn't to jestermax or fake confidence. It’s to understand that social hierarchies are performances. Use their egos. Mirror their confidence just enough to not trip their insecurity wires. Don’t make them feel inferior—make them feel dependent. That’s real social power.

 

[batman1997]

Its mainly because their projecting their insecuritys and hatred in themselves onto you i've noticed this aswell.

 

[1966Ford]

When you don't fit the stereotypes and refuse to conform, the hoi polloi/normies will project their expectations onto you, trying to impose a mask that they want you to wear. I've noticed this happening every time I'm at school. I've been called a "freak" and a "weirdo" repeatedly because of this, but since I have no one to turn to in fighting this injustice - and morality is subjective - I've become increasingly withdrawn over the years, which has hindered my social development.

OP, I'm glad I'm not alone this stuff

 

[6ft4]

Ok but how does all of this bring you closer to ruling EIRE?

When my manifesto drops it will reveal all
The manifesto has no set release date yet

 

[LTNUser]

When you don't fit the stereotypes and refuse to conform, the hoi polloi/normies will project their expectations onto you, trying to impose a mask that they want you to wear. I've noticed this happening every time I'm at school. I've been called a "freak" and a "weirdo" repeatedly because of this, but since I have no one to turn to in fighting this injustice - and morality is subjective - I've become increasingly withdrawn over the years, which has hindered my social development.

OP, I'm glad I'm not alone this stuff

Do you know how one can be social enough after being anti social for almost 3 yeara?

 

[1966Ford]

Do you know how one can be social enough after being anti social for almost 3 yeara?

You can't. It's like a facade where you put on a charade of personality to get the attention of normies. The moment they sense your autism, they become skeptical and probably might talk about you behind your back. I just wear headphones most of the time and only take them off if it's for a group project. The moment I take them off, the background noise from these humanimals becomes annoying. Therefore, making me more fucking distant

 

[RealNinja]

It’s almost like there’s other forms of power beyond lms. Things like extroversion, social capital, energy, or just plain NT are also a form of power and can overcome small enough gaps in looks. Just trying to mog isn’t really a life strategy for 99% of people. If you’re not a legit chad, you have to use more underhanded forms of power in social interactions to get anywhere. This is why you should never take this site seriously. Trying to looksmax to be some gigamogger who can get away with the most mute autistic behavior is a meme you fell for.

Incredibly true post. Unbelievably stupid when people on this site parrot “NT is cope bro” “you’re just not GL enough” “that wouldn’t happen if you were REALLY attractive.”

NT and social skills are FAR from being cope, and believing that they are is terrible for both your mental health and personal success. Falling for that meme worsened my body dysmorphia and depression because I blamed everything on the fact that I was actually “ugly.” But honestly, coming to terms with the fact that your social failures havent been due to your looks might be far more brutal.

 

[RealNinja]

You're seeing a core truth most miss: people aren’t reacting to you, they're reacting to how you appear, how you make them feel about themselves. Most normies run on ego-fumes, not reality. Their self-worth is a fragile mask built on NT status games, not substance. When you walk in and mog silently—without asserting dominance, without begging validation—you threaten their whole framework.

To them, that’s dangerous. They can’t cope with the idea that someone with better stats doesn’t even need to flex. It reveals their own fakeness. That’s why they get cold when you show authenticity—it’s not the smile, it's what it represents: real value that doesn’t seek permission. That makes them feel judged without you saying a word.

The solution isn't to jestermax or fake confidence. It’s to understand that social hierarchies are performances. Use their egos. Mirror their confidence just enough to not trip their insecurity wires. Don’t make them feel inferior—make them feel dependent. That’s real social power.

Hello ChatGPT

 

[New Poster]

I returned to working just for the prospect of more opportunities where foids approach me simply for standing in one place watching customers in the venue.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him NT

 

[Soter]

Hello ChatGPT

Yh I wrote my idea quickly and asked it to formulate it better