I am no one, therefore i am everyone

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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have or share strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
 
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But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.
And if you're friends with everyone, you're friends with no one.
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
I think, therefore I am

The Thinker Philadelphia GIF by MOYOGASH
 
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And if you're friends with everyone, you're friends with no one.
Exactly. You understand the issue well, because we already talked about it. Aw man. ๐Ÿ˜ข
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
damn:feelscry:
 
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not a single word kys
 
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Good thread, can relate
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
Bro wrote a thesis
 
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.org users when they realize they donโ€™t have a personality :feelskek:
 
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not a single word kys
Never since september have you responded to me in a meaningful way, have some positivity in ur life man
 
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Basically , you don't try to fit in , but or even try to fit
You just acts how the other person act
Like a mirror ,
You never use you true self , just mirror to just live nomrally around the fucked society
Mirin this mindset , ( cuz i am like that too) :Comfy::Comfy:
 
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Why not? We used to be good friends and you even joined BWCF but nowadays you're only an asshole to me in all conversations.

@Bryce is basically the only person you're half nice to when you're not trolling lol
 
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Why not? We used to be good friends and you even joined BWCF but nowadays you're only an asshole to me in all conversations.

@Bryce is basically the only person you're half nice to when you're not trolling lol
Bryce is the only non dalit on the forum
Also you posted water so I didnโ€™t read
 
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Basically , you don't try to fit in , but or even try to fit
You just acts how the other person act
Like a mirror ,
You never use you true self , just mirror to just live nomrally around the fucked society
Mirin this mindset , ( cuz i am like that too) :Comfy::Comfy:
I think 'trying to fit in' is a good way to put it aswell. I just don't like being negative or controversial.

I act like a government plant to appeal to the media lol.
 
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Bryce is the only non dalit on the forum
Also you posted water so I didnโ€™t read
Yeah fair enough man
 
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Iโ€™m similar Iโ€™m pretty sure itโ€™s a sign of neurodivergence but I donโ€™t know for certain
 
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I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.
Honestly, I feel the same way. Whenever someone has a different opinion, I try to hear them out, and try to put myself in their place, even if I totally disagree with them.

you feel like youโ€™re 100% correct, but the other person feels exactly the same. Most people fail to realise this.

And yes, you can either be โ€œfriendsโ€ with everyone, or you can be friends with just a few people.
 
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Iโ€™m similar Iโ€™m pretty sure itโ€™s a sign of neurodivergence but I donโ€™t know for certain
It might be, i have aspergers :ogre:
 
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I think 'trying to fit in' is a good way to put it aswell. I just don't like being negative or controversial.

I act like a government plant to appeal to the media lol.
Yeah, cuz being negative or controversial just gets you a headache from dumb incels and keep insulting you with random shit that you are weird or Contrary to their beliefs
 
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And yes, you can either be โ€œfriendsโ€ with everyone, or you can be friends with just a few people.
And i always start to conflict because i try to be both.

You will notice i act completely different on discord than how i act here, it's just one of the countless proof to what i said in this thread.

And then i start panicking because people call me out for it. When i was once called out for trying to appeal to everyone i nearly quit the forum because i know I'm retarded :ogre:
 
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Yeah, cuz being negative or controversial just gets you a headache from dumb incels and keep insulting you with random shit that you are weird or Contrary to their beliefs
That too, plus if i want a comfortable place to speak my mind, being negative only ruins it.
 
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That too, plus if i want a comfortable place to speak my mind, being negative only ruins it.
Being controversial is fucking hard in this world, especially with a society of slaves and dead brains
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
I mirror other people too. Its not nessecarly a mask just adapting to the environment that you are in right now. I also wished to be liked but people already have their opinion made up about me, don't live for other people life is too short you know. That's how I feel it atleast.
 
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I relate to this, I think weโ€™re called โ€social chameleonsโ€.

Youโ€™re into philosophy?
 
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I relate to this, I think weโ€™re called โ€social chameleonsโ€.

Youโ€™re into philosophy?
I love philosophy. Social chameleon chameleon is a very funny and good way to describe it :feelsautistic:
 
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I love philosophy. Social chameleon chameleon is a very funny and good way to describe it :feelsautistic:
Social chameleon is a real term for it. I like philosophy as well.
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
Brother just another me:feelswah:
 
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Social chameleon is a real term for it. I like philosophy as well.
I just googled it up, looks interesting althought not exactly what i meant.
 
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What would you say is different about you compared to that?
I'm just a pussy.. Social chameleons are more of the 'blend in for self benefit' kind, something similar to psychopaths or someone like Patrick Batman (i know, corny reference, but he was stated as a social chameleon in the books)

I just want to be liked, i don't blend in out of choice for benefit (although it usually does bring me benefits), i do it because i don't know what else to do.
 
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I've been thinking about this a lot lately, aswell as had many people like @TechnoBoss point it out to me.

I don't really have a particular personality. It always mirrors or adjusts based on who i am talking to. I mirror people and i adapt to their behavior. I act in whatever way feels safest at the moment.

I am quieter around people that are confident
I am understanding and patient around people that are sad
I laugh around people that are funny and outgoing
I act small and lenient around people that act dominant.

And it's not because I'm fake or because I'm selfish, it's only because i want to be liked. The uncomfortable truth in this is, that the more you try to be loved, the more personality you lose, and the more of 'yourself' you actually erase.

I am loved by many, but I'm not close to anyone except a select few.

I don't have strong opinions unless i know they'll be accepted by everyone.

I never fully disagree with anyone, unless i know what I'm saying is 100% the truth. I avoid conflict like it's the plague, i want no part of it.

I don't want anyone to think 'this larry guy is stupid', because it breaks me and my illusion of self worth.

So after all of this, i end up being no one.

But what i noticed with being 'no one', is that paradoxically, by being no one, you're also everyone.

I can fit anywhere, i can belong in most groups, speak any language, share any hobby. I can be relatable to everyone, but at the same time ignored by everyone.

And when I'm not watched by anyone, when there's no one to mimic or cling to - i am simply a sad excuse of a person. Rotting away, living day by day, with no one to appeal to and no one to compliment my behavior.

It's strange realizing, that being liked by everyone can feel lonelier than being disliked by a few.

Maybe i need to act upon that realization

At some point in life, i need to choose between being liked or being real.

@Daddy's Home @Orka @Jason Voorhees @Insomnia
I dunno, you never talk about your gooner self when youโ€™re talking to me. :dafuckfeels:
 
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You're like the Ned Flanders of .org
 
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We are charlie kirk
 
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