mewingrightnow
Middest Tier Normie
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She WAS a nice girl. I should've known. Let me start with this, she has had some serious stuff happen to her in the past, and by no fault of her own, she has a lottt of stuff going in in her head. She has depression, ptsd episode, and bpd (undiagnosed). Lets also say this, I knew this girl forever due to her popular online presence, but unfortunately she was nothing like she was online. We had about a 2 week talking stage, it was great, we clicked on just about everything. Our first facetime, she tells me about all of her trauma. At this point I had two choices, I could leave and only add to her shit life, or stay and be there for her. I chose to stay, my biggest mistake. Life went on from that point, we went on a few dates, and then got into a relationship. She had some major episodes during this time, times where she would tell me we could never talk again and I would have to beg and reassure the best I could. This past weekend has been the worst one. I didn't mean to, but I awoke her past while playing video games with her. She flipped a switch at this point, going from texting me everyday and facetiming me till 2 am to fucking hating me and never wanting to talk to me. At this point in time, she got very very manipulative. For the past 4 days she's been telling me how "I fucking ruined her" "I'm just like anyone else" "I made everything worse for her" "you reminded me of him." I don't want to stand up for myself and tell her how she hurt me too because it will only make her even worse. I assume she feels guilty as hell though too because she will go from hatred to love in 10 minutes. She will ask me to never leave her and tell me she loves me. So manipulative bro. I don't know what to do from here or how to help if I even should anymore.
please give me advice. thanks.
please give me advice. thanks.