I am so sick and tired of having to "be the bigger man" all the time

[apocalypse]

It's just being a cuck really
There's literally zero reward for being the bigger man
No one will even recognise or appreciate it
jfl @ "meek shall inherit the earth"
Always be confrontational and hold grudges, never let people get away with slighting you even a little bit, never be meek or sacrifice your ego, even at the cost of losing so called friends.

 

[Azr616]

True man. People with psychopathic traits are more likely to succeed with their careers and women. Fuck the nice guy shit. In 2023 you gotta be darktriadmaxxed

 

[Deleted member 16501]

I agree

If u don't unleash irl you keep the anger inside and it builds into a rage and tortures you

 

[apocalypse]

I agree

If u don't unleash irl you keep the anger inside and it builds into a rage and tortures you

Extremely legit I've made this mistake
You need to sperg out in rage as soon you've been slighted irl
Then they either see that they made a mistake and apologize and you can move on
Or they fight you on it at which point you need to just ruthlessly burn bridges with them and you can move on on your own and be happier in the long run

 

[looksmaxxed]

do steroids, lift weights, and get surgery. you are getting disrespected because people think you are not capable of retaliation

 

[2d v2]

still jfl when short dweebs try to stand up for themselves, like im still taller and just see u trying to impress me

 

[datboijj]

still jfl when short dweebs try to stand up for themselves, like im still taller and just see u trying to impress me

somone post the asian guy beating up the tall white chad in the bathroom please

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Extremely legit I've made this mistake
You need to sperg out in rage as soon you've been slighted irl
Then they either see that they made a mistake and apologize and you can move on
Or they fight you on it at which point you need to just ruthlessly burn bridges with them and you can move on on your own and be happier in the long run

I became a pussy the last decade, I became introverted and socially retarded for the first time in my life.

The rage consumed me and I became a mentally ill loser

Only now getting back to being more bold but it will be hard to unwire after 10 years of conditioning

U don't want to build up that bad habit

 

[the BULL]

It was mispelled Bro It's meeks shall inherit the earth

 

[Pikabro]

It’s ok to let things slide if you’re actually gymmaxxed and not a bitch. Because then you’re treating the aggressor as insignificant and low. It’s not the same as being a passive cuck because you know you can easily fuck that guy up but it’s not worth the effort.

But if you aren’t that tough then you can’t tolerate respect. You have to grow some balls and prove yourself before you start can larping as mature IMO. As an abused dog myself I need to take my own advice

No point in jestermaxxing for muh friends either. Think about it, you’re just wasting time barking for useless people. I cringe at how I used to act in hindsight so much. If you’re too scared to look for new friends then you’re too much of a pussy to bother socialising to begin with tbh

 

[apocalypse]

do steroids, lift weights, and get surgery. you are getting disrespected because people think you are not capable of retaliation

It’s ok to let things slide if you’re actually gymmaxxed and not a bitch. Because then you’re treating the aggressor as insignificant and low. It’s not the same as being a passive cuck because you know you can easily fuck that guy up but it’s not worth the effort.

But if you aren’t that tough then you can’t tolerate respect. You have to grow some balls and prove yourself before you start can larping as mature IMO. As an abused dog myself I need to take my own advice

Tbh I still would never be a subanimal savage that escalates physically unless they literally insult my family or smth but I wouldn't associate which such individuals in the first place
I think being ruthless verbally and cutting ties with them is tough enough

 

[RAITEIII]

It's just being a cuck really
There's literally zero reward for being the bigger man
No one will even recognise or appreciate it
jfl @ "meek shall inherit the earth"
Always be confrontational and hold grudges, never let people get away with slighting you even a little bit, never be meek or sacrifice your ego, even at the cost of losing so called friends.

forget about black and white thinking. You are here you are blackpilled so you are smart. DEVELOP RECOGNITION so you know how to act at different times.

Also, from my experience. 1) being very confrontational comes from a place of insecurity and wanted to prove that bad that none can breath close to u even. It looks cringy and it screams you've got issues. A quality man, what I wish for you as a fellow looksmaxer is unbothered by irrelevant stuff, and it's not mean to undermine his capacity of being able to do something but he understands it's not worth it and he feels it inside him as he hasnt been compromised in any way.

2) careful with your judgement. You might be targeting someone who's innocent. And you're getting your revenge on an innocent person. And regardless of innocent or guilty status remmeber that if you go too far they will retaliate against you for trying to be the most badass.

Neutralizing issues without compromising yourself seems ideal. Honestly. For someone who has had as many issues, drama, confrontation. Peace mogs. Believe me you dont want anyone waiting for u to turn ur back to jump on you.

 

[Deleted member 19766]

My sleep apnea makes me too tired to give a shit tbh I couldn't even be mad if I wanted to
But yes you are right OP

 

[Deleted member 22930]

jfl @ "meek shall inherit the earth"

Jeremy Meeks

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

Understanding people irl are tortured and will never reach heaven will give you the understanding of what it really means to 'be the bigger man'

It isn't just putting up with needless abuse. The point of turning the other cheek is realizing whatever some blast-brained retard says to you really doesnt matter. It's like being offended at the opinions of an ant squeaking at you. Who cares what an ant has to say?

 

[apocalypse]

being very confrontational comes from a place of insecurity and wanted to prove that bad that none can breath close to u even. It looks cringy and it screams you've got issues.

I am well aware tbh. Because of my abused dog syndrome I feel it's extremely difficult for me to tell when it's no big deal and I should just let it slide vs when I'm being picked on and would be a megacuck if I let it slide. I'm always tempted to rage because I am an abused dog but I never do it for the reasons you said. It's probably the right choice most of the time but I worry that some of the time I'm being taken advantage of for my forgiving nature and people think they can get away with running their mouth saying anything.

Understanding people irl are tortured and will never reach heaven will give you the understanding of what it really means to 'be the bigger man'

It isn't just putting up with needless abuse. The point of turning the other cheek is realizing whatever some blast-brained retard says to you really doesnt matter. It's like being offended at the opinions of an ant squeaking at you. Who cares what an ant has to say?

I am still stuck in earthly ways brother, can't help it

 

[RAITEIII]

I am well aware tbh. Because of my abused dog syndrome I feel it's extremely difficult for me to tell when it's no big deal and I should just let it slide vs when I'm being picked on and would be a megacuck if I let it slide. I'm always tempted to rage because I am an abused dog but I never do it for the reasons you said. It's probably the right choice most of the time but I worry that some of the time I'm being taken advantage of for my forgiving nature and people think they can get away with running their mouth saying anything.

I am still stuck in earthly ways brother, can't help it

Can you give 3 examples of situations in which you are unsure?

 

[RAITEIII]

Understanding people irl are tortured and will never reach heaven will give you the understanding of what it really means to 'be the bigger man'

It isn't just putting up with needless abuse. The point of turning the other cheek is realizing whatever some blast-brained retard says to you really doesnt matter. It's like being offended at the opinions of an ant squeaking at you. Who cares what an ant has to say?

It can be the case but again I doubt theres a universal fix all end all be all solution or philosophy. Waiting on OP response and then we will see what's confusing him.

 

[apocalypse]

Can you give 3 examples of situations in which you are unsure?

1. people pointing out I'm quiet and unsocial and giving me crap for it
2. people ASK for political opinion (I won't elab which one) when I would NEVER offer it unprompted, I give it because I'm gullible, then they harass me for it days later because they disagree
3. people troll me with mean spirited sarcasm so they could laugh with each other at my autism, then it dawns on me only days later that they were mocking me
I would never ever do any of these to someone else

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

It can be the case but again I doubt theres a universal fix all end all be all solution or philosophy. Waiting on OP response and then we will see what's confusing him.

It's a rule of thumb rather than a universal fix in my view. Never put up with someone disrespecting you to your face but do it in a way that shows maturity and levelheadedness.

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

1. people pointing out I'm quiet and unsocial and giving me crap for it

"I'm well up for a good time but if you aren't able to be by yourself now and again then that is a you problem".

2. people ASK for political opinion (I won't elab which one) when I would NEVER offer it unprompted, I give it because I'm gullible, then they harass me for it days later because they disagree

"Politics? Oh I don't care about politics really. Look at the state of things, I'd rather worry about myself and family".

3. people troll me with mean spirited sarcasm so they could laugh with each other at my autism, then it dawns on me days later that they were mocking me

With this one it's a little different. Sometimes if I have this happen to me (maybe I say something a bit too crazy for their processing power by mistake). I say "What?" or "What'd you say? Sorry I missed it". Then they have to explain it again and it isn't funny anymore.

I would never ever do any of these to someone else

I don't doubt that. But most people are very mean spirited.

 

[RAITEIII]

I don't doubt that. But most people are very mean spirited.

We have a winner. Such are my observations. I'll be back later. I need to go and do something for my life blue and greencels.

 

[RAITEIII]

"But most people are very mean spirited."

How can you cope with this?

 

[RAITEIII]

1. people pointing out I'm quiet and unsocial and giving me crap for it
2. people ASK for political opinion (I won't elab which one) when I would NEVER offer it unprompted, I give it because I'm gullible, then they harass me for it days later because they disagree
3. people troll me with mean spirited sarcasm so they could laugh with each other at my autism, then it dawns on me only days later that they were mocking me
I would never ever do any of these to someone else

Re: I feel it's extremely difficult for me to tell when it's no big deal and I should just let it slide >>

1. There are 3 main choices: You do nothing. You rage. 3 You adapt. I'm not gonna give you a fairy tail story. It's just my experience and observations. If you do nothing they will keep talking and devaluing you. If you rage they will still talk, just behind your back and keep devaluing you. And there's the third of adapting enough to a point they have nothing to say.
There's NO world where you do 1/2 and a group of people stop talking about you. Accept that blackpill in your heart. You will always be slandered in one or the other.

We do not always do things because we want. But rather because we have to due to the position in which we find ourselves. Are you willingly putting yourself in such position? It might be in your best interest to adapt to a certain acceptable point if you consider these people have done nothing wrong.

Now, if they do things wrong and you have motives to dislike them. You can simply express something along the lines of what NuclearBrain said before or either actually if there's enough ground you can also state the truth. Bringing up the fact that you don't socialize in an inappropriate manner is already another reason.
In this situation that you see how these people are and you don't get along it might be a good choice to disengage and look for other type of people. If you want to stay, there must be a reason and benefit. So draw the line with those you don't want close to you and follow point 3 with the rest. If everyone agrees then something is going wrong and everything needs to be reviewed.

If I'm honest with myself there have been instances where I've been quite and antisocial when I shouldn't. but it wasn't on purpose... I was just a mental case. So by admitting this to myself I was willing to put in some effort to adapt when needed. That's not to say I tried to befriend someone that I'm clearly not compatible with (without any purpose behind it).

And I'm honest with you. You can't stop people from talking. At some point you have to care less too. Look at famous people. They have many haters. But they enjoy their lives with millions they don't care. So when certain negative feedback comes your way and you see that's meant to put you down then my boy let it be the last thing to happen. It's true what Nuclear said, many people are mean spirited and if they try to bully you for anything then it's clear they don't want to be better. Up to you what you decide.

2/3. You will be the cool guy that you are but when the time is needed you also must change that. Not necessarily because you want but rather because of the position where you are. You see that you never do this type of thing yet they do it frequently? And you have the cognitive ability to really analyse that what's happening is inappropriate. Who are those people and why do you see often. What I do. If I want to keep them around I tell them I don't like those comments, expecting a change, otherwise goodbye. If I don't care maybe ask why they're doing it in a more serious manner(there's no mature explanation) see what they say and act accordingly. If they dont change they need drop my bro. We cant attempt to change people or educate them if they dont want to.

I'm going sleep. Cheers take care

 

[Deleted member 25193]

Let me tell you something buttercup. In society honour was used by woman to convince men to white knight “do what ever the cunt wants you to do for her honour” don’t be anything do whatever you want

 

[190cm90kg]

if u press 150kg nobody will consider messing with u

 

[apocalypse]

If I'm honest with myself there have been instances where I've been quite and antisocial when I shouldn't. but it wasn't on purpose... I was just a mental case. So by admitting this to myself I was willing to put in some effort to adapt when needed

Thing is when I try to adapt it can easily backfire and make it worse by me being cringe and tryhard
I have basically given up hope of even being able to fraud low tier NTlite. It’s much too late for me.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

I’m tired of being incel

 

[ambiguous]

It's just being a cuck really
There's literally zero reward for being the bigger man
No one will even recognise or appreciate it
jfl @ "meek shall inherit the earth"
Always be confrontational and hold grudges, never let people get away with slighting you even a little bit, never be meek or sacrifice your ego, even at the cost of losing so called friends.

based pagan morality.

 

[RAITEIII]

Thing is when I try to adapt it can easily backfire and make it worse by me being cringe and tryhard
I have basically given up hope of even being able to fraud low tier NTlite. It’s much too late for me.

It's not too late. For anyone who reads your post will think there's nothing wrong with u. It's true that fake adaptation can backfire but either make natural by having confidence in yourself (unironically I doubt most of us are confident regardless of the relevance in the dating market) or just acquire more experience to know how to act. Imo giga therapy exposure will do wonders. I did a 3 months job dealing with hundreds of people daily and I became so superficially NT that I was getting praised on my personality.

It all went down to the toilet and I ended up slandered and like the craziest person in this world due to someones vendetta against me but that's a different story.

what is ur regular mood? how do u feel?