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don’t know if anyone else relates to this.
Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.
It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.
I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.
Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.
Anyone else experience this?
Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.
It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.
I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.
Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.
Anyone else experience this?
