I can get any girl I want but I lose interest instantly

[rateme.]

don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?

 

[iblame_height]

Yeah i feel you it just gets boring over time but choose like girls with a personality trust me like a good fkn personality thats like funny and shit that helped me

 

[xyukeeee]

Chad ramblings

 

[dumb]

don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?

yes, back then i would talk to multiple girls at once or even date them to flex on friends. After a while ur gonna realize its a shit thing to do if they are into you and actually want you for long term.

overall i do think its like dopamine you brain wants, maybe ur addicted to seeking validation from females and once you get it, the "feelings" just disappear.