I can get any girl I want but I lose interest instantly

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don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?
 
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Yeah i feel you it just gets boring over time but choose like girls with a personality trust me like a good fkn personality thats like funny and shit that helped me
 
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Chad ramblings
 
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don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?
yes, back then i would talk to multiple girls at once or even date them to flex on friends. After a while ur gonna realize its a shit thing to do if they are into you and actually want you for long term.

overall i do think its like dopamine you brain wants, maybe ur addicted to seeking validation from females and once you get it, the "feelings" just disappear.
 
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don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?
yeah but not for no reason. it’s cuz of that one girl. do u know what im talking abt?
 
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yeah but not for no reason. it’s cuz of that one girl. do u know what im talking abt?
I don’t know if its what you mean but I love 1 girl that I can’t get she’s the only one like I can get her we had sex multiple times but she’s a hoe but I fucking love her
 
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actually yeah ive experienced that but i feel a lot better now that ive found someone i genuinely like;
you just havent found the right person yet nothings wrong with you
 
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fuck you chad
 
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don’t know if anyone else relates to this.

Whenever I meet a girl, I can pretty much get her without much effort. It doesn’t matter if she’s really attractive or just average. The problem is that the second I have her, I feel nothing. Literally zero interest.

It’s like some switch flips in my brain. All the excitement disappears. I either ghost them or end it in a really cold, almost cruel way. It’s not even intentional, it just happens.

I’ve tried dating multiple girls at once, keeping it casual, taking things slow, but nothing changes. As soon as I know I “have” her, I feel disgusted or bored.

Is this some kind of dopamine problem or just extreme novelty-seeking? I can’t even pretend to care for longer than a couple of minutes. It’s honestly starting to make me think there’s something broken in me.

Anyone else experience this?
Chad is Bragging again :feelscry:
 
wdym you can get any girl, ar u using dating app, social media or something?
 
your mtn

6,1 not that tall tho, thats what i fraud with insoles. and im still the biggest truecel ever
Taller than 90% of bit in my school I’m only 16
 
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Yeah can guarantee you can’t get every girl you want

You’re a skinny lmtn

Larp thread
 
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Yeah can guarantee you can’t get every girl you want

You’re a skinny lmtn

Larp thread
Love you for telling me I’m skinny I was 80 1 year ago ❤️❤️ still can get every girl I want 😘😘😘
 
Love you for telling me I’m skinny I was 80 1 year ago ❤️❤️ still can get every girl I want 😘😘😘
you’re currently in denial, or have incredibly low standards

You are not are not attractive, you are bellow average
 
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you’re currently in denial, or have incredibly low standards

You are not are not attractive, you are bellow average
i would say hes just dead average, but lowk ths gotta be larp
 
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Yeah not htb unfortunately, mtb even with the filter

Also when you’re 16 the competition is way lower
The left one was a screen from a video she’s def htb and left one is prob mtb
 
The left one was a screen from a video she’s def htb and left one is prob mtb
No

Also it seems to me as though you’ve pulled one girl and you’ve somehow managed to convince yourself you have access to every single foid in the world; to clarify, you do not.
 
i agree with everything @jaaba is saying right here
 
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But you are just an random dude
I’m a random dude who happens to be very knowledgeable when it comes to facial analysis and rating. You’re on org u retard, most ppl on here know how to rate

“Random dudes” will be way more honest with you than girls will
 
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I’m here for the seething comments
 
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I’m a random dude who happens to be very knowledgeable when it comes to facial analysis and rating. You’re on org u retard, most ppl on here know how to rate

“Random dudes” will be way more honest with you than girls will
Bro wake up go outside everyone is lltn and 170 it’s not real life even if you have knowledge that I don’t doubt everyone outside of internet is ltn
 
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I’m a random dude who happens to be very knowledgeable when it comes to facial analysis and rating. You’re on org u retard, most ppl on here know how to rate

“Random dudes” will be way more honest with you than girls will
fr lol

Yeah ig but left one is def htb I swear I just screend her tiktok
NÆT
 
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