I can look like a completely different person depending on lighting, trying to narrow down what's the main culprit

[LebenistneHure]

Basically, I'm trying to find out what is causing me to look like a completely different person depending on lighting. Objectively, my IPD is shit, I have a below average ES ratio, my face is long and narrow, no jaw, long midface. But despite multiple falios, I can either look handsome, have been told by multiple individuals I'm attractive/cute, I've had a GF, and my day can be great if I lock an image of myself in my head looking good, OR I can see myself in a different lighting, decide it's over, and question how I ever found myself looking decent the day before. My issue is, I can't represent this issue through a picture, because I literally look different with every picture, and my face looks normal in most pictures because lens distorts my face and I look harmonious.

Depending on how the light hits my face, my IPD can look bad, or in harmony. It comes down to how the light hits my face, I can look handsome or ugly, which is good in my opinion because it means there is something that's causing it, and I think it's due to the contour of my face. Light either hides or accentuates the lines on my face, and depending on that my perception of myself changes. This isn't even a mental thing, it's literally perception. I'm looking to fix my face in a way that lighting doesn't affect my perception. My face looks very gaunt because I lack under eye support, I have nasolabial folds, lacking cheekbones, midface volume, and I think many of those issues are simply hidden depending on light.

I'd need a fellow autist to help out with this, maybe someone else can put a finger on the culprit. Btw, I'm not looking to become a male model like too many autists here, I simply want my perception of myself to stop changing on an hourly basis, depending if I saw myself at 10am, or 6pm. I don't think many can relate to this problem, it's quite specific.

 

[JustBeCurry]

just get a ring light an constantly shine it on your face bro

 

[Deleted]

Capmaxx

 

[Gonthar]

You're a "Two-Face", in Seinfeld, Jerry too had a girlfriend who looked different depending on the light.

 

[LebenistneHure]

just get a ring light an constantly shine it on your face bro

Ringlightmaxxing would work for me
but honestly there is something that's either hidden or accentuated by the light to be causing this issue

 

[MD_Hopeful69]

Basically, I'm trying to find out what is causing me to look like a completely different person depending on lighting. Objectively, my IPD is shit, I have a below average ES ratio, my face is long and narrow, no jaw, long midface. But despite multiple falios, I can either look handsome, have been told by multiple individuals I'm attractive/cute, I've had a GF, and my day can be great if I lock an image of myself in my head looking good, OR I can see myself in a different lighting, decide it's over, and question how I ever found myself looking decent the day before. My issue is, I can't represent this issue through a picture, because I literally look different with every picture, and my face looks normal in most pictures because lens distorts my face and I look harmonious.

Depending on how the light hits my face, my IPD can look bad, or in harmony. It comes down to how the light hits my face, I can look handsome or ugly, which is good in my opinion because it means there is something that's causing it, and I think it's due to the contour of my face. Light either hides or accentuates the lines on my face, and depending on that my perception of myself changes. This isn't even a mental thing, it's literally perception. I'm looking to fix my face in a way that lighting doesn't affect my perception. My face looks very gaunt because I lack under eye support, I have nasolabial folds, lacking cheekbones, midface volume, and I think many of those issues are simply hidden depending on light.

I'd need a fellow autist to help out with this, maybe someone else can put a finger on the culprit. Btw, I'm not looking to become a male model like too many autists here, I simply want my perception of myself to stop changing on an hourly basis, depending if I saw myself at 10am, or 6pm. I don't think many can relate to this problem, it's quite specific.

I also have a long Narrow face. PM me and we can figure out

 

[LebenistneHure]

You're a "Two-Face", in Seinfeld, Jerry too had a girlfriend who looked different depending on the light.

Yes, I've seen this shit, and I do. It must be a fixable falio though if simply shining light on the face makes it look alright. It must be something to do with volume and contouring, lack of bones somewhere or some shit

 

[WonderChad]

I understand exactly what you mean. Terrible lighting can be very harsh. To start of your maxilla is most likely recessed and not protruded enough followed by the lack of volume in your face due to lack of collagen and sleep. If your a teenager than great! Start hard mewing for fast results: cheekbones will be more prominent. Also ask prayers to any pls god of your choice, I recommend Gandy.
No but honestly tho I have experienced what you have said and it’s getting a lot better than before. Just start looksmaxing.

 

[Gonthar]

Yes, I've seen this shit, and I do. It must be a fixable falio though if simply shining light on the face makes it look alright. It must be something to do with volume and contouring, lack of bones somewhere or some shit

Post some examples then, so we can see, in Seinfeld they amplified the bad look for humorous effect with makeup.

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

just get a ring light an constantly shine it on your face bro

https://looksmax.org/threads/should-i-invite-my-oneitis-to-my-birthday.245771/

Bump my important thread boyos

 

[LebenistneHure]

I also have a long Narrow face. PM me and we can figure out

I will sometime later, not home atm

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Its like this for everyone especially those with wide faces

 

[LebenistneHure]

I understand exactly what you mean. Terrible lighting can be very harsh. To start of your maxilla is most likely recessed and not protruded enough followed by the lack of volume in your face due to lack of collagen and sleep. If your a teenager than great! Start hard mewing for fast results: cheekbones will be more prominent. Also ask prayers to any pls god of your choice, I recommend Gandy.
No but honestly tho I have experienced what you have said and it’s getting a lot better than before. Just start looksmaxing.

Yeah, I feel it's the lack of volume in certain areas as well as bones not protruding enough that's hidden or accentuated through different lighting and angles. Would a surgeon be able to understand my issue and pinpoint exactly what the problem is?

 

[LebenistneHure]

Post some examples then, so we can see, in Seinfeld they amplified the bad look for humorous effect with makeup.

I could do that, but I can't capture the issue because I don't perceive myself the same in mirror and pics, I again look different. I think the area to the outside of my eyes, I guess just below temples, is recessed, and I can't capture that in a picture.

 

[LebenistneHure]

Its like this for everyone especially those with wide faces

I understand it's like this for most people that aren't perfect looking beings, but I'd have to say it's extreme or me, it's a difference between looking handsome and looking underdeveloped, the contrast is too extreme imo. I'll post some pics later today when I get a chance

 

[audimax]

bro I have the same problem, for me the cause is facial bloat. In some lightings you dont see any bloat and you look better, on other I have puffy cheeks like I am a fat powerlifter. Get rid of the bloat and you will see aesthetics

 

[LebenistneHure]

bro I have the same problem, for me the cause is facial bloat. In some lightings you dont see any bloat and you look better, on other I have puffy cheeks like I am a fat powerlifter. Get rid of the bloat and you will see aesthetics

I've thought about this, yes this is one part of the problem definitely, but I think my biggest issue is the eye area looking either gaunt and recessed af, or normal. But you're right about this 100%, and it's an issue I'm looking to fix

 

[JMax]

If you look ugly in certain lighting conditions, you are not good looking. Light just frauds forward growth at some angles. Chad looks good in bad lighting.

 

[LebenistneHure]

If you look ugly in certain lighting conditions, you are not good looking. Light just frauds forward growth at some angles. Chad looks good in bad lighting.

That's the whole point I'm trying to figure out, I'm trying to find out what's lacking so I can look good in most light scenarios.

 

[JMax]

That's the whole point I'm trying to figure out, I'm trying to find out what's lacking so I can look good in most light scenarios.

How do you think anyone can give you advice without a photo? If you don't want to do that, ask a surgeon.

 

[Teutonic]

I'm the same way.
It means you are ugly generally

 

[LebenistneHure]

How do you think anyone can give you advice without a photo? If you don't want to do that, ask a surgeon.

I'll have to figure out when I get home how to even capture the issue. I can't just go and take a photo, cuz I'll look normal. That's the entire issue. I look normal in most of my photos.

 

[LebenistneHure]

I'm the same way.
It means you are ugly generally

I wouldn't agree. You're every lighting scenario, the good, bad and ugly. Now you wanna make sure you mostly look good, despite different scenarios. If you look good in certain lighting, then there's potential. I look good in many lighting scenarios, means I just need to figure out what's causing the other half to look like shit.

 

[fras]

dn read

 

[Timelessbrah]

Good looking always look good regardless of light. If you need some certain conditions than it means you lack angularity.