I can see the advantages of an arranged marriage over a love marriage

[swaggyp1]

In an arranged marriage, your wife will do things out of duty, not out of whim or want

You will have more children, because it is her duty

She will cook and clean, because it is her duty

She will obey you, because it is her duty

In a love marriage, your wife has to be convinced to want to do these things

 

[160cmcurry]

and then you end up in a dead bedroom with a woman that doesn’t even find you attractive

the only sex you’ll get is to ‘procreate’

no real love in it

 

[chudpiller]

True afghan mindset

 

[swaggyp1]

and then you end up in a dead bedroom with a woman that doesn’t even find you attractive

the only sex you’ll get is to ‘procreate’

no real love in it

It’s recommended to have sex every 3 days

Which does happen in an arranged marriage, but not in a love marriage that’s falling apart

 

[tarkdriad33]

dont tell me thats ur wife in the avi

 

[prettyboylite]

In an arranged marriage, your wife will do things out of duty, not out of whim or want

You will have more children, because it is her duty

She will cook and clean, because it is her duty

She will obey you, because it is her duty

In a love marriage, your wife has to be convinced to want to do these things

Your wife also hates you in the arranged marriage

 

[160cmcurry]

It’s recommended to have sex every 3 days

Which does happen in an arranged marriage, but not in a love marriage that’s falling apart

there’s no love in most arranged marriages

arranged marriages exist for subhumans to pass their shit genes on

i am the product of an islamic arranged marriage

there is no ‘love’ in that marriage

both parties just tolerate each other

you wouldn’t need an arranged marriage if you were good looking enough to attract a woman

 

[SplashJuice]

The biggest advantage of an arranged marriage is the low expectations and building up from it.

If your expectations are low, then you naturally build warmth from it overtime if anything good does happen because you expect it to be purely transactional. That's the silver lining of an AM, oddly enough.

In love marriages it's the opposite, expectations are high and you have to maintain that standard throughout the marriage.

 

[swaggyp1]

there’s no love in most arranged marriages

arranged marriages exist for subhumans to pass their shit genes on

i am the product of an islamic arranged marriage

there is no ‘love’ in that marriage

both parties just tolerate each other

you wouldn’t need an arranged marriage if you were good looking enough to attract a woman

There’s a difference between arranged marriage and forced marriage

Islamically, marriage is supposed to be arranged but not forced

 

[swaggyp1]

Your wife also hates you in the arranged marriage

We are talking arranged marriage, not forced marriage

 

[160cmcurry]

There’s a difference between arranged marriage and forced marriage

Islamically, marriage is supposed to be arranged but not forced

most ‘arranged marriages’ are forced either way

just a fancy term for subhumans to pass their genes on

a woman being forced into a marriage to a man she doesn’t find attractive

 

[prettyboylite]

We are talking arranged marriage, not forced marriage

Makes sense

 

[swaggyp1]

most ‘arranged marriages’ are forced either way

just a fancy term for subhumans to pass their genes on

a woman being forced into a marriage to a man she doesn’t find attractive

Historically, a minority of women have found their husbands sexy

While most men found their wives sexy

The difference between male and female is that men find 90% of young women attractive, while women find 90% of young men unattractive

 

[Manletsteinberg]

Your wife also hates you in the arranged marriage

Not always