I can’t speak to woman I have no confidence. Need help

[cortisolspike22222]

i would say I’m a pretty attractive male as I’m 6,4 with wide clavicles and a good lean build. Facially I’m probs around a mtn I would say maybe punching high mtn. However in a club or any setting I can’t bring myself to start talking to a girl. It’s like something is stopping me is it the fear of rejection which will make me think am I ugly? or just worthless. Maybe that’s why i stop myself because i would rather not know than know. This is an issue as a will have girls come up to me and then because I know there into me I will automatically slay them even if there a ltb. This angers me because I am filled with regret the next morning and also becasue I’m brutally feeding the hypergamy mindset into these woman which I hate. How do I fix this I am nd and a laughing stock so I do unintentionally become a jester which probs plays into my negative mindset. Is there anyway I can fix this or am I just stuck with this and will have to cope.

 

[roymustang]

idk i have the same problem too

 

[gandylite.]

just talk to them

 

[cortisolspike22222]

just talk to them

thats actually good advice

 

[cortisolspike22222]

idk i have the same problem too

Ik it’s soul crushing

 

[Achilles]

Lol i got the same here. Mine comes especially from not hitting the gym/my physique is mid af so i get the mindset of i dont wanna approach yet because im not ready/im not good enough. Rejection isnt too bad it only is worse if everybody is watching or clowns you after.
Yeah jsut get some drinks in as well. Most of the dudes that approach nonstop are basically semi autistic and have no shame, its absolutely normal to not want to be rejected. Anyone saying dont care about it i bet doenst even approach themselves lol

 

[Achilles]

Also it gets worse when one of my friends is with me and they keep wanting you to do a two man approach but ofc want you to go first that shit PMO

 

[cortisolspike22222]

Also it gets worse when one of my friends is with me and they keep wanting you to do a two man approach but ofc want you to go first that shit PMO

Yeah 100% or they force the other girl that’s with the girl they are talking too onto you

 

[grymhackare]

Greys overrating themself @arkzy7

 

[ＥＳＲ]

Imaging that she is ugly
And if can’t pic one flaw in her face and focuse on it
U gonna fell more comfortabl and higher than her

 

[cortisolspike22222]

Greys overrating themself @arkzy7

Im humble and all I’ve done is describe myself don’t call me a grey. I guarantee I know more than u

 

[cortisolspike22222]

Imaging that she is ugly
And if can’t pic one flaw in her face and focuse on it
U gonna fell more comfortabl and higher than her

Yeah true I do hyper fixate on peoples faces especially asymmetry so I guess that helps haha