itssoover0457
sensitive young man
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I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I need to get it off my chest.
I’m 16, currently ascending hard (heightmaxxing, looksmaxxing, money grind, etc.). The more I improve, the more I realize I don’t want the typical “high value male” lifestyle that everyone here praises: fucking models, rotating plates, yachts, drugs, parties, etc.
What I actually want is extreme monogamy.
I want to meet the right girl young, fall deeply in love, and stay 100% loyal to her for the rest of my life. I want to come home every single day and feel like seeing her and our kids is the best part of my day. I want to have sex with her almost every day (twice a day if possible) for decades. I want to build a big family with her. I want her to be the only woman I truly see. Not in a simp way, but in a “no other bitch exists to me” way.
I know biology says pair-bonding fades and men are wired to spread genes. I know the blackpill says all women branch swing and high value men should maximize options. I know most of you will call this massive cope, bluepill, or simping.
But I genuinely don’t care what biology says. I know what I want.
The player lifestyle looks fun from the outside but I’ve read enough stories from rich guys who lived it and ended up empty, addicted, or depressed. I don’t want that. I want depth. I want real pair-bonding. I want legacy through family, not through body count.
So I’m asking you guys straight up
Is this completely delusional? Can a tall, handsome, rich man actually pull this off long-term in 2026 without becoming miserable? Or is wanting extreme loyalty and one woman forever just genetic dead end cope?
Be brutal. Roast me if I’m wrong. I need real talk.
I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I need to get it off my chest.
I’m 16, currently ascending hard (heightmaxxing, looksmaxxing, money grind, etc.). The more I improve, the more I realize I don’t want the typical “high value male” lifestyle that everyone here praises: fucking models, rotating plates, yachts, drugs, parties, etc.
What I actually want is extreme monogamy.
I want to meet the right girl young, fall deeply in love, and stay 100% loyal to her for the rest of my life. I want to come home every single day and feel like seeing her and our kids is the best part of my day. I want to have sex with her almost every day (twice a day if possible) for decades. I want to build a big family with her. I want her to be the only woman I truly see. Not in a simp way, but in a “no other bitch exists to me” way.
I know biology says pair-bonding fades and men are wired to spread genes. I know the blackpill says all women branch swing and high value men should maximize options. I know most of you will call this massive cope, bluepill, or simping.
But I genuinely don’t care what biology says. I know what I want.
The player lifestyle looks fun from the outside but I’ve read enough stories from rich guys who lived it and ended up empty, addicted, or depressed. I don’t want that. I want depth. I want real pair-bonding. I want legacy through family, not through body count.
So I’m asking you guys straight up
Is this completely delusional? Can a tall, handsome, rich man actually pull this off long-term in 2026 without becoming miserable? Or is wanting extreme loyalty and one woman forever just genetic dead end cope?
Be brutal. Roast me if I’m wrong. I need real talk.