I don’t care what biology says, I know exactly what I want. Extreme loyalty, one woman forever, daily sex, and a huge family. Am I coping?

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@HtnceI @Jason Voorhees @PrettyboyQ @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer @andy321 @ecstazy

I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I need to get it off my chest.

I’m 16, currently ascending hard (heightmaxxing, looksmaxxing, money grind, etc.). The more I improve, the more I realize I don’t want the typical “high value male” lifestyle that everyone here praises: fucking models, rotating plates, yachts, drugs, parties, etc.

What I actually want is extreme monogamy.

I want to meet the right girl young, fall deeply in love, and stay 100% loyal to her for the rest of my life. I want to come home every single day and feel like seeing her and our kids is the best part of my day. I want to have sex with her almost every day (twice a day if possible) for decades. I want to build a big family with her. I want her to be the only woman I truly see. Not in a simp way, but in a “no other bitch exists to me” way.

I know biology says pair-bonding fades and men are wired to spread genes. I know the blackpill says all women branch swing and high value men should maximize options. I know most of you will call this massive cope, bluepill, or simping.

But I genuinely don’t care what biology says. I know what I want.

The player lifestyle looks fun from the outside but I’ve read enough stories from rich guys who lived it and ended up empty, addicted, or depressed. I don’t want that. I want depth. I want real pair-bonding. I want legacy through family, not through body count.

So I’m asking you guys straight up

Is this completely delusional? Can a tall, handsome, rich man actually pull this off long-term in 2026 without becoming miserable? Or is wanting extreme loyalty and one woman forever just genetic dead end cope?

Be brutal. Roast me if I’m wrong. I need real talk.
 
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mirin the passion young stein
 
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Read the title, yes you are coping
 
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Be like Zach Cox. Married his high school sweet heart right after college and already has a kid and had his happily ever after

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yes, this is probably cope
 
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yes, if both of you are bonded to eachother, and are emotionally intimate
i heard men are polygamous by nature and that only women benefit from pair bonding
 
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You're thinking too much
 
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@HtnceI @Jason Voorhees @PrettyboyQ @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer @andy321 @ecstazy

I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I need to get it off my chest.

I’m 16, currently ascending hard (heightmaxxing, looksmaxxing, money grind, etc.). The more I improve, the more I realize I don’t want the typical “high value male” lifestyle that everyone here praises: fucking models, rotating plates, yachts, drugs, parties, etc.

What I actually want is extreme monogamy.

I want to meet the right girl young, fall deeply in love, and stay 100% loyal to her for the rest of my life. I want to come home every single day and feel like seeing her and our kids is the best part of my day. I want to have sex with her almost every day (twice a day if possible) for decades. I want to build a big family with her. I want her to be the only woman I truly see. Not in a simp way, but in a “no other bitch exists to me” way.

I know biology says pair-bonding fades and men are wired to spread genes. I know the blackpill says all women branch swing and high value men should maximize options. I know most of you will call this massive cope, bluepill, or simping.

But I genuinely don’t care what biology says. I know what I want.

The player lifestyle looks fun from the outside but I’ve read enough stories from rich guys who lived it and ended up empty, addicted, or depressed. I don’t want that. I want depth. I want real pair-bonding. I want legacy through family, not through body count.

So I’m asking you guys straight up

Is this completely delusional? Can a tall, handsome, rich man actually pull this off long-term in 2026 without becoming miserable? Or is wanting extreme loyalty and one woman forever just genetic dead end cope?

Be brutal. Roast me if I’m wrong. I need real talk.
You're not coping don't worry, being poly is fun when you're young and not many responsibilities.

But eventually you mature and want something genuine and lasting with a beautiful woman, it's also nice for both your kids to see their parents have a healthy relationship.

I also want something like this bhai.
 
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You're not coping don't worry, being poly is fun when you're young and not many responsibilities.

But eventually you mature and want something genuine and lasting with a beautiful woman, it's also nice for both your kids to see their parents have a healthy relationship.

I also want something like this bhai.
no i dont want poly at all though
 
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@HtnceI @Jason Voorhees @PrettyboyQ @ltnbrownacnecel @HundredManSlayer @andy321 @ecstazy

I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I need to get it off my chest.

I’m 16, currently ascending hard (heightmaxxing, looksmaxxing, money grind, etc.). The more I improve, the more I realize I don’t want the typical “high value male” lifestyle that everyone here praises: fucking models, rotating plates, yachts, drugs, parties, etc.

What I actually want is extreme monogamy.

I want to meet the right girl young, fall deeply in love, and stay 100% loyal to her for the rest of my life. I want to come home every single day and feel like seeing her and our kids is the best part of my day. I want to have sex with her almost every day (twice a day if possible) for decades. I want to build a big family with her. I want her to be the only woman I truly see. Not in a simp way, but in a “no other bitch exists to me” way.

I know biology says pair-bonding fades and men are wired to spread genes. I know the blackpill says all women branch swing and high value men should maximize options. I know most of you will call this massive cope, bluepill, or simping.

But I genuinely don’t care what biology says. I know what I want.

The player lifestyle looks fun from the outside but I’ve read enough stories from rich guys who lived it and ended up empty, addicted, or depressed. I don’t want that. I want depth. I want real pair-bonding. I want legacy through family, not through body count.

So I’m asking you guys straight up

Is this completely delusional? Can a tall, handsome, rich man actually pull this off long-term in 2026 without becoming miserable? Or is wanting extreme loyalty and one woman forever just genetic dead end cope?

Be brutal. Roast me if I’m wrong. I need real talk.
if you wanna achieve this you need to geo all the 0.1% of western woman like this are already taken
 
You're under hcl forget it
 
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