I don't enjoy sex.

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Clownworld tbh, third date with this girl. Using cialis cuz why not. Barely getting aroused, not enjoying sex, despite her basically looking hot asf , wearing sexy lingerie, etc.

Atleast the cuddling is decent ?! I can enjoy falling asleep with her in my arms.

She's super submissive and tells me I can try anything I want with her. Was throatfucking her last time and it barely got me aroused or close to cumming. Idk, this was after 4 days of nofap too.


I have this idea that being a kissless virgin at 23yo is not good for your mental development. And that depression makes it impossible to enjoy sex, or life for that matter. Idk though.

Thoughts?

Thinking about giving up on life. Idk if it's possible to become a happy person when you have a failed childhood, no family, etc.
 
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MentalHealthMaxx ASAP
 
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Clownworld tbh, third date with this girl. Using cialis cuz why not. Barely getting aroused, not enjoying sex, despite her basically looking hot asf , wearing sexy lingerie, etc.

Atleast the cuddling is decent ?! I can enjoy falling asleep with her in my arms.

She's super submissive and tells me I can try anything I want with her. Was throatfucking her last time and it barely got me aroused or close to cumming. Idk, this was after 4 days of nofap too.


I have this idea that being a kissless virgin at 23yo is not good for your mental development. And that depression makes it impossible to enjoy sex, or life for that matter. Idk though.

Thoughts?

Thinking about giving up on life. Idk if it's possible to become a happy person when you have a failed childhood, no family, etc.
didn't read but u asexual bro
 
another amnesia in the making
 
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how are you a kissless virgin if you had sex???
 
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I have this idea that being a kissless virgin at 23yo is not good for your mental development
it's possible that being a 23yo khhv might be bad for your head yes
 
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how are you a kissless virgin if you had sex???
i was khhv at 23yo. Then started getting some success with women these last 2 years after ascending.
 
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i was khhv at 23yo. Then started getting some success with women these last 2 years after ascending.
ahhh ok makes sense tbh. well imagine how bad its gonna be for me at 25 kv lol
 
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How? Life is brutal man.

Every day is torture/struggle for me tbh.
find something that keeps you going day-to-day like a good career, family or an opioid addiction
 
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How? Life is brutal man.

Every day is torture/struggle for me tbh.
Find a daily productive routine. When you take care of yourself physically your mental health improves.

Also look into things like meditation and affirmations.
 
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At the end of the day you need to have kids to feel satisfied and be loved by your family and not cucked by a whore. So IMO you need to find a virtuous good looking woman, ideally virgin, since the more sex she had with different partners, the more she will have the propension to cuck you. And then you date and marry her and then make kids ASAP. But then again this is just my personal take on the matter.
 
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find something that keeps you going day-to-day like a good career, family or an opioid addiction
I don't have a family. I hate my studies and can't imagine myself ever wageslaving tbh.

Opioid addiction it is?! jfl
 
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Brag thread , stfu retard I'd kill you irl ffs
 
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Find a daily productive routine. When you take care of yourself physically your mental health improves.

Also look into things like meditation and affirmations.
I guess. What's productive though? I already have a looksmax routine, Idk what else is productive in life. Studying/carreerbuilding was always anti-productive for life quality from what ive noticed.

So yeah not sure tbh. Kinda lost.
 
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Bragging about being mentally ill and about to rope, yeah sure jfl
It is a brag , mental illness is cope anyways it doesn't exist
 
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Clownworld tbh, third date with this girl. Using cialis cuz why not. Barely getting aroused, not enjoying sex, despite her basically looking hot asf , wearing sexy lingerie, etc.

Atleast the cuddling is decent ?! I can enjoy falling asleep with her in my arms.

She's super submissive and tells me I can try anything I want with her. Was throatfucking her last time and it barely got me aroused or close to cumming. Idk, this was after 4 days of nofap too.


I have this idea that being a kissless virgin at 23yo is not good for your mental development. And that depression makes it impossible to enjoy sex, or life for that matter. Idk though.

Thoughts?

Thinking about giving up on life. Idk if it's possible to become a happy person when you have a failed childhood, no family, etc.
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If it’s something to do with your libido, maybe try going minimum 2-4 weeks hard mode on NoFap.

If it’s just depression try and stay away from social media and forums (including this forum) sometimes places like this just makes u feel even worse mentally. Go out into the woods, hike and get some fresh air while reflecting on what u wanna do with your life.

If a man lacks purpose and ambition (aka cope) in this life, he will be depressed, even suicidal.
 
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If it’s something to do with your libido, maybe try going minimum 2-4 weeks hard mode on NoFap.

If it’s just depression try and stay away from social media and forums (including this forum) sometimes places like this just makes u feel even worse mentally. Go out into the woods, hike and get some fresh air while reflecting on what u wanna do with your life.

If a man lacks purpose and ambition (aka cope) in this life, he will be depressed, even suicidal.
Yeah, it's over for my mental state tbh. I feel absolutely terrible without perspective or anything. Hard to find anything to do in this corona times though, i feel trapped.
 
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Do you take any supplements to boost T levels?

This is low T not mental health issues (except if mental is causing the low T).

Either way you fix this by fixing T levels.
 
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Before killing yourself
Inject t
Probably symptoms will go away
 
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People always say shit like you gotta find this routine and focus on it, set goals, all that kind of stuff, which im sure is good for some people, but the reality is if youre not happy and you cant be happy yourself then its over. Maybe not for every last person but its pretty much over. People always say well try this thing or that thing, maybe this is the reason youre not happy, but nothing ever works, its because not everyone can be happy. We evolved for 99.9% of our evolutionary history having to work every day just to get enough to survive, we couldnt sit around rotting alone and think about being happy or not. People are just not designed to be content. They are supposed to always desire more because thats the only way humans could get what they need. Like food and water and shelter and of course banging females.
 
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Yeah, it's over for my mental state tbh. I feel absolutely terrible without perspective or anything. Hard to find anything to do in this corona times though, i feel trapped.
I can relate to u bro. When it comes to depression and bad mental state.

There were things I was planning to do last year and then this "pandemic” happened.

It fucked everything up. I have been having a hard time to cope with this shit these last 6+ months.
 
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I don't enjoy sex.​

Sex with Stacy only...
You're like those frigid women who can't orgasm when having sex with average guys, except with Chads.
 
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Sex with Stacy only...
You're like those frigid women who can't orgasm when having sex with average guys, except with Chads.
non escort stacy*

the escort sex i had was hard to enjoy

i think me and OP need a virgin JB with a super tight pussy to get us off
 
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Do you take any supplements to boost T levels?

This is low T not mental health issues (except if mental is causing the low T).

Either way you fix this by fixing T levels.
my t levels were 890 ng/dl, pretty high. I had them checked a year ago when I was already full-on rotting.

I do take zinc and vit D.
 
hit the reset button by having a kid, the drive to provide is ur best bet at tackling ur lack of purpose
 
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agree tbh i prefer the cuddling too
sometimes when im at home i get the insane urge to fuck a foid but when im with one irl i just dont get aroused that much for some reason and end up taking a shit ton of time to finally coom
 
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hit the reset button by having a kid, the drive to provide is ur best bet at tackling ur lack of purpose
tbh. I often feel like this. That my life is already over and at this point all I can do is raise a son and make sure his life doesnt end up fucked up like mine.
 
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you watch too much porn jfl
 
agree tbh i prefer the cuddling too
sometimes when im at home i get the insane urge to fuck a foid but when im with one irl i just dont get aroused that much for some reason and end up taking a shit ton of time to finally coom
Exactly lmao. I get more easily aroused from porn than from a naked woman in front of me. cagefuel
 
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Exactly lmao. I get more easily aroused from porn than from a naked woman in front of me. cagefuel
there is your problem nigga. i dont even watch porn
 
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you watch too much porn jfl
I rarely watch porn since like 4 months now. Specifically once I knew I had access to sex with this girl I stopped watching porn completely and stopped masturbating. Doesnt make a diff
 
I rarely watch porn since like 4 months now. Specifically once I knew I had access to sex with this girl I stopped watching porn completely and stopped masturbating. Doesnt make a diff
sounds low t to me then, have you consulted a doctor about trt?
 
Exactly lmao. I get more easily aroused from porn than from a naked woman in front of me. cagefuel
Porn is legit poison for anyone's sex life. Either bust one with ur imagination only or better yet don't masturbate at all and use that built up horniness to get laid every now and then
 
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Get blood work done tbh
 
What's your irl and psl rating?
 
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What's your irl and psl rating?
how is that relevant to his situation jfl he needs to neurotransmittermaxx, looks are the least of his worries now
 
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How tf did you meet a girl during COVID? Tinder?
 
how is that relevant to his situation jfl he needs to neurotransmitter max, looks are the least of his worries now
Legit. Life is not going great for me rn. 0 social life with covid nothing.

I have no future, just rotting. Cant focus on studies, extremely lethargic. I feel like I am dying these days, something is not right tbh.

There's literally nothing I can do. Studying is the most boring useless activity there is, i cant get a decent job rn because companies aint hiring with covid and i have no degree lol.

wtf
 
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how is that relevant to his situation jfl he needs to neurotransmittermaxx, looks are the least of his worries now
I just wanna know how goodlooking he is
 
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I feel like I am dying these days, something is not right tbh.
Same brother, at 25 now I legit feel my life being sucked away with each passing day. I reckon this is actual physical deterioration and my body is finally giving in to my imminent death. It is over.
 
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Same brother, at 25 now I legit feel my life being sucked away with each passing day. I reckon this is actual physical deterioration and my body is finally giving in to my imminent death. It is over.
The first though in my head when I wake up in the morning is: 'Should I kill myself today?'

In stark contrast, I remember waking up as a 9yo kid, jumping out of bed excited for the day. That's how life is supposed to be, not this shit.
 
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my t levels were 890 ng/dl, pretty high. I had them checked a year ago when I was already full-on rotting.

I do take zinc and vit D.
Take Ashwagandha it lowers cortisol makss you more low inhib higher t and hornier, i use it and definitely notice the boosts.

Idk what else to say though if this isnt a hormonal problem, i wouldve thought even depressed minds can enjoy sex. Dod you fap a lot pre-sex?
 
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So 6.5 irl?
yes. Doesnt matter. This chick thinks I am attractive/handsome, says it many times. But inside I feel very ugly tbh and her compliments dont touch me.

Used to be PSL2.5 throughout my youth.
 
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