i don’t fucking want a girl attached to me

[MouthBreathingElite]

Only someone who has never in his life experience the slightest female attention would want a clingy gf, it’s because they are so deprived of attention they don’t mind a toxic relationship, they just don’t want to be alone anymore

The only exception is if the guy is also toxic like that

 

[Deleted member 86840]

shiii why did u start a relationship with her

because we started dating years ago, it’s a LTR

i was young and dumb, i do regret it but i’m too attached to end it

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

High T, high IQ, and Big penis

Proof on that last part?ill need pics

 

[Deleted member 248640]

because we started dating years ago, it’s a LTR

i was young and dumb, i do regret it but i’m too attached to end it

makes sense, try distancing yourself or find turn offs in her

 

[Deleted member 86840]

makes sense, try distancing yourself or find turn offs in her

she doesn’t have turn offs she’s so hot

but i know what we have isn’t real she’s just mentally troubled

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

she doesn’t have turn offs she’s so hot

but i know what we have isn’t real she’s just mentally troubled

Cant it be both?

 

[Deleted member 86840]

Cant it be both?

wym

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

wym

She cant love you and be mentally ill at the same time?

 

[Deleted member 86840]

She cant love you and be mentally ill at the same time?

she could but it’s really hard to distinguish so i rather assume the worst than to delude myself

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

Noone else asked this (maybe they did im not reading all that again) does your girlfriend spend time with anyone else? Or is it only you?

 

[Deleted member 86840]

Noone else asked this (maybe they did im not reading all that again) does your girlfriend spend time with anyone else? Or is it only you?

most of her time goes to me, once in a while her friend(s) will go over to her house to have a sleepover or something

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

most of her time goes to me, once in a while her friend(s) will go over to her house to have a sleepover or something

And im assuming you dont want to spend most of your time with her? Why dont you just talk about it like people or have you already tried that?

 

[Deleted member 86840]

And im assuming you dont want to spend most of your time with her? Why dont you just talk about it like people or have you already tried that?

i do wanna spend time with her

the point of my thread is i’m glad she’s clingy to me but she’s clingy to me because she has attachment issues, not because of real biological desire, that’s the problem

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

i do wanna spend time with her

the point of my thread is i’m glad she’s clingy to me but she’s clingy to me because she has attachment issues, not because of real biological desire, that’s the problem

But how do you know this are you assuming that she has attachment issues because shes so clingy?

 

[Deleted member 86840]

But how do you know this are you assuming that she has attachment issues because shes so clingy?

no, she has to go to therapy and all bexause she’s so attached, she’s also traumatized from stuff and just has issues overall

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

no, she has to go to therapy and all bexause she’s so attached, she’s also traumatized from stuff and just has issues overall

You might be cooked then, pray to gandy she gets better or move on nothing else you could really do

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

no, she has to go to therapy and all bexause she’s so attached, she’s also traumatized from stuff and just has issues overall

How long has she been going to therapy?

 

[Deleted member 184012]

i don’t fucking want a girlfriend with attachment issues i want a girlfriend with a healthy mind and realistic perception of the world and STILL choose to obsess over me because she biologically feels pulled towards me because of my looks

i want nothing else, nothing

and i’m so pissed my gf has attachment issues, yes at the surface you feel good bexause she’s clingy and it makes you feel loved but obviously her mind isn’t healthy and this is bullshit biologically

Same here

 

[MangoLover]

Having a gf is too much effort and stress anyway

True you need to be above average overall ofcourse in money, looks, status and personality just to get in a relationship, women don't like to settle for their level or less mainly, all that effort you spend money on her, spend time with her and try to maintain a relationship with her, just for it to come crashing down after a few months waste of time

 

[Deleted member 86840]

How long has she been going to therapy?

a while but again, to me personally it doesn’t really matter if she fixes the problem bexause it was there to begin with

 

[IblameEhren]

yeah unfortunately they are biologically programmed to be whores and unless their father rapes them they wont have a real biological attachment to you itll just be mental illness

 

[birthdefect]

would u like waking up to 30 messages and have to respond to each one of them or else that foid would khs?

i understand the struggle my fellow nigga

 

[zygosmasher]

brutal reality is that no relationship is perfect. everyone has flaws life isnt romeo and juliet no one has a perfect relationship but you just have to learn to deal and accept eachothers flaws

 

[Deleted member 104089]

Bruh i wish i had someone so obsessed w me

Edit: i think ik wy mean its like if she didnt have the mental issues would she still be obsessed ?

 

[birthdefect]

Bruh i wish i had someone so obsessed w me

Edit: i think ik wy mean its like if she didnt have the mental issues would she still be obsessed ?

she wouldnt be obsessed to the same extent, in the beginning someone being actually obsessed with you is def an ego boost but then mental clarity comes in and you realise you're dating a obsessive suicidal busty white girl that you invested too much time into

 

[hypernormie]

Yes once you can attract women you realize that there's more to it than just having a woman, you have to have a quality woman

If you feel this way you are settling. Frankly if it's the best you can get them don't be delusional but if you are feeling this way odds are its not the best you can get. Men don't tend to get delusional inflated standards like foids do.

 

[hypernormie]

The problem is that if you take this conclusion to its ultimate end you will discover that there are very few women who will satisfy you intellectually and temperamentally. You need a woman who is physically female but psychologically more masculine and agentic. This is obviously harder to come by, mostly because these women tend to be the most demanding of their male counterpart.

Searching for an equal partner in a woman is difficult because women generally aren't equal to men. The default option is to settle, most men take that option. Even many rich and famous dudes with tons of options often take that option because it's more expedient. If you don't want to settle you have to make a conscious effort to acquire this because like I said, it's not common.

Think of Epstein and Ghislaine or Alex Hormozi and his roided out tranny wife. These guys probably had/have real psychological equality with the women they were/are with, or something very close to it.

I don't believe nature is set up in a way to make that kind of outcome, when it happens it is an anomaly. If you approach it with this in mind you have better odds of making it happen.