i don't get texting/messaging

[godsmistake]

what are you even supposed to talk about?! how are there people that have their phone constantly blowing up? i never talk to people unless i need something from them so i am baffled at how some conversations flow hours on end through texting. it's quite tempting to assume that there are magic words/phrases that keep a conversation going but in reality it all comes down to looks, right? at least in dating that is completely true. could it be the same for friendships? my limited life knowledge has showed me that groups of 3-5 always hover around a certain rating. niche groups are the only outliers. i don't know what said groups talk about as i have never been part of one, but it surely must be something fun! why else would you keep in touch if you aren't having fun? what i've noticed is that people aren't fun. at least the ones i've met. i never felt the need to know them better, they never intrigued me. what makes a person interesting? even on this forum there are certain users that emanate a strong aura with their posts and others are forgettable just like the NPCs of this world. and it's not due to their avi, the words they type are captivating. i wish i wasn't stunted in this direction. i envy those that can express their thoughts clearly. texting is in fact just that, expressing your thoughts concerning a person. so it's obvious that i can't text to save my life. stunted growth in all aspects of my life, goddammit!.

 

[Deleted member 11748]

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[Lihito]

Honestly i fucking hate normies redpill texting its fake asf. Either The girl is interested in you or she is not.

With that saying you are either INTP or autism

 

[godsmistake]

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

i have a love-hate relationship with texting. sometimes it's better than having a real life convo as u have more time to organize ur message clearly. but in many ways socializing irl > texting

 

[Deleted member 8576]

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[one job away]

Honestly i fucking hate normies redpill texting its fake asf. Either The girl is interested in you or she is not.

With that saying you are either INTP or autism

no you are wrong. you need to show you are interested in some form. let's say you never use smileys or never haha. a cold af conversation. you will never get personal or set up a date.

let's say you only talk about work. how do you wanna go from "can you send me the pdf" to"lets do this (go out) together". put in jokes. put some personal shit in it so she can ask . give her stuff she can dig into. if she cares she will. if not well bad luck. its becomes tricky when she us nice to ppl overall.

I swear fuck those bitches who dont know that... treat me better than others so I can see it... maybe I'm just coping and she ain't into me


but the basis of ANY conversation, not just online, should be to open up. answer her with stuff that she can pick up on. ask her stuff she can open up about. smileys n shit help. if she ain't responding or just in shirt sentences and dosnt ask back /doesn't dig further ... leave it

 

[one job away]

no you are wrong. you need to show you are interested in some form. let's say you never use smileys or never haha. a cold af conversation. you will never get personal or set up a date.

let's say you only talk about work. how do you wanna go from "can you send me the pdf" to"lets do this (go out) together". put in jokes. put some personal shit in it so she can ask . give her stuff she can dig into. if she cares she will. if not well bad luck. its becomes tricky when she us nice to ppl overall.

I swear fuck those bitches who dont know that... treat me better than others so I can see it... maybe I'm just coping and she ain't into me


but the basis of ANY conversation, not just online, should be to open up. answer her with stuff that she can pick up on. ask her stuff she can open up about. smileys n shit help. if she ain't responding or just in shirt sentences and dosnt ask back /doesn't dig further ... leave it

edit: make it CLEAR you are treating her better than other girls so she knows without you having to say it . dont overdo it tho

 

[one job away]

it's easy for ppl to talk about stuff they are interested in. and if she is interested in you, it's not hard to ask questions... on the contrary it its fckin hard to come up.wih question about stuff you give 0 shit about

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Wow that is a big wall of text.

Tldr?

 

[Deleted member 5189]

I'm honestly more NT talking in real life than I am when texting. I don't know how to be funny or interesting without using looksmax slang or talking about the jews.

Tf do normies talk about that's so interesting?

 

[one job away]

I'm honestly more NT talking in real life than I am when texting. I don't know how to be funny or interesting without using looksmax slang or talking about the jews.

Tf do normies talk about that's so interesting?

if you dont wanna read up to you. but as a quick tip when I have a blockade I imagine I write to my bros instead of a girl.

 

[one job away]

I'm honestly more NT talking in real life than I am when texting. I don't know how to be funny or interesting without using looksmax slang or talking about the jews.

Tf do normies talk about that's so interesting?

nvm you weren't talking about me

 

[Deleted member 5189]

if you dont wanna read up to you. but as a quick tip when I have a blockade I imagine I write to my bros instead of a girl.

Ye I try doing the same but still it don't rlly work

 

[Deleted member 5189]

nvm you weren't talking about me

Hi.

 

[one job away]

Ye I try doing the same but still it don't rlly work

then go ahead read my long answer haha. maybe it helps.you.its something I hadtot figure out over time.... although it's pretty obvious I guess

 

[Lihito]

no you are wrong. you need to show you are interested in some form. let's say you never use smileys or never haha. a cold af conversation. you will never get personal or set up a date.

let's say you only talk about work. how do you wanna go from "can you send me the pdf" to"lets do this (go out) together". put in jokes. put some personal shit in it so she can ask . give her stuff she can dig into. if she cares she will. if not well bad luck. its becomes tricky when she us nice to ppl overall.

I swear fuck those bitches who dont know that... treat me better than others so I can see it... maybe I'm just coping and she ain't into me


but the basis of ANY conversation, not just online, should be to open up. answer her with stuff that she can pick up on. ask her stuff she can open up about. smileys n shit help. if she ain't responding or just in shirt sentences and dosnt ask back /doesn't dig further ... leave it

Yeah i agree now i was just venting before cause some bitch ignored me over messages